90 percent of a Dom/sub relationship is both mental and physical attraction. People don't need to be the model type,they just need to have an attraction to each other.
The other 10 percent is like interests.
Want to weed out the fakes and stuff ask for a picture. They will run everytime or give you some internet image.
Ever notice that you offer someone exactly what they say they want real time even if it just play and they disappear?
Rather amusing.
Ghosting must of become a pre-requisite to sign up for Collarspace. Since everyone seems to do it. lol