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newroadcrew
Hetero Male Dominant, 52, Port Ludlowtravl, Washington US 
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newroadcrew
2/14/2018 10:46:09 PM: Fun fact: many on here think watersports involves water skiing, jetskis or swimming. It doesn't: it's you drinking piss. Just another public service announcement. 2/14/2018 7:45:49 PM: I must not fear.Fear is the mind-killer. Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration. I will face my fear. I will permit it to pass over me and through me, and when it has gone past, I will turn the inner eye to see its path, where the fear has gone there will be nothing, only I will remain. Don't let fear stop you from living the life that is the best you can imagine. 2/14/2018 5:07:37 PM: From my Tumblr m2gmt: Deception, lies, and disrespect. Iím going to talk about something that affects many of us, but none of us really want to address it, but it needs to be said, and said plainly. Iíve been in what most people call the lifestyle BDSM or kink community since well before there was an internet, and the bullshit we as a community are currently allowing to take place has absolutely no place in the kink or BDSM community. Ladies and gentleman, this only improves if those of us in the community demand that it improve, and some of you are part of the problem instead of being part of the solution. Let me start with something that is positive, before I address the negative issues. The internet is a powerful tool, social networking sites like Tumblr, Instagram, Facebook, and BDSM/kink specific sites like fetlife and collarspace are fantastic vehicles for learning, meeting new friends, and finding groups of like minded people to educate and entertain with conversation. Used correctly these tools can help us grow the community in a great way, used incorrectly they can turn our lifestyle into a sick joke. Now for the negative things that need to be cut out, excised like a supurating cyst: deception, lies, and disrespect. Deception: deceiving someone is a form of lying through ommision or concealment, when you do not honestly represent yourself, even if you donít tell an outright lie, you are being deceitful. An example of deception would be allowing someone to believe you are serious when you are in fact just playing a game, passing time, or getting a nut by talking about things as though you will actually move from online bullshit to real life. Yes, I said online bullshit, I said it because with 99.999% of you online is not equal in any way, shape, form, or fashion to real life, furthermore you have ZERO intention of following through on your online bullshit to make it real life. You are deceiving others, and in many cases, deceiving yourself. If you are deceitful then you need to fuck off to hell and not come back, BDSM and kink have no room for deceit. Lies: outright lies include lying about your age, your actual goddamned physical fucking gender (the actual real sexual organs between your legs, not whatever made up bullshit you call yourself in your imagination), your photograph, your home nation, and whatever other stupid shit you lie about, and the lying you do when you make promises and commitments you have no intentions at all of keeping. None of that behavior has a place in this community, and it should not be tolerated. If you are a man who is having a sex change or wants to have one then be honest and tell people, donít pretend to be a person born a girl, how you identify makes not a bit of difference when you pull your pants down and you are sporting the wrong tackle. If you are a certain age, whatever age it may be (Iím not even going to attempt to address age of consent, Iím addressing honesty) then donít lie to someone and give a different age, itís wrong no matter your age. If you are a sorority slut making a kink profile on a dare and fucking with people for amusement you are a goddamned sociopath, fucking with people for your own amusement is wrong. If you are a serial relationship online only dater you are a piece of shit, lying to people, wasting months of their time, having them build expectations, and then just disappearing is just plain outrageously wrong, youíre a sick fuck, and not in a good way. Disrespect: Iím talking about the sort of disrespect that makes you feel it is okay to lie and deceive others, because ďitís just onlineĒ, you are fucking disgusting. Every single person, male or female, dominant or submissive, is a person, a human being. Just because you met the person online does not give you any right to use that person in an unwanted way to satisfy your sick desire to hurt people emotionally, and no, whatever excuse you may have is no excuse. This has no place in the community. The fix to these problems is not going to be comfortable for some people, but if you cannot be part of the solution then you are feeding the problem. 1. For a long time a lot of people have advised others to not video or voice chat because you might be talking to a pervert or stalker. This is simply not good advice, you can create an account on several messengers that does not give away your personal information, but allows you to have meaningful video and voice conversation with others. This bad advice has become the shadow from which scammers and frauds shelter and waste the time of serious people. It needs to stop being an excuse. [Side note, anyone who tells you they donít have the ability to take photos or do video or voice is a fucking liar, itís 2018 people, five year olds FaceTime their friends, stop lying. ] 2. Claiming to be shy, all while discussing the most perverted stuff imaginable is just a deception. You arenít shy, you are hiding the truth about yourself and it must be stopped. If you only want to have fantasy role play conversations so you can masturbate just be honest, stop lying about your alleged shyness, you arenít shy, youíre an asshole. 3. Using the excuse that you cannot verify by voice and video because you are in a job that you canít be found to be a kinkster. Bullshit, the government knows every damned thing you do online, and you are not James or Jane Bond, or one of the goddamned kingsmen, you are just another time wasting fraud. Stop allowing people to use this lame ass excuse. 4. If you are discussing having sex with someone and telling that person you want to live with them, but you cannot even hold a good conversation and keep a high level of contact then you are a liar. There is no way that a person who claims to want to have a serious relationship where BDSM and kink are involved should not be able to keep good communication, if you are willing to have sex then you need to be willing to actually carry on a conversation with the person you say you want to fuck. Especially females who claim to want to suck cock, eat ass, get ass fucked, gang banged, and all the other kinky stuff we might get up to, if you want a man to do those things with you but you canít keep in contact then you are not serious. Men, same goes for you, if you claim to want to put your cock in her, then you should make time for phone calls, text messages, and video chat. If you see a trend regarding open and honest conversations and real regular communication here you are on the right track. We cannot continue to accept those who are not willing to be open and honest and communicate to have any place in our community. 2/13/2018 7:21:20 AM: From my educational Tumblr m2gmt. m2gmt.tumblr.com/post/170666709401 2/13/2018 7:18:12 AM: From my educational Tumblr m2gmt m2gmt.tumblr.com/post/170834364941/spanknspreadher-the-analing
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