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Maybe the journey isn’t so much about becoming anything. Maybe it’s about unbecoming everything that isn’t really you, so you can be who you were meant to be in the first place.

On this 4th of July weekend, I'm left to wonder how many of our forefathers were Dom's? Hmmmm.... Happy 4th everyone!

Happy New Year everyone! 

I did not write this, but thought it was very interesting...Personality Traits of a profound submissive The ways in which I spot a profound submissive who is not aware of what she is yet: She is very sensitive to my moods, body language, and tone of voice. She is very sensitive to criticism. She has a child-like presence. She is eager to please me and eager to follow my suggestions. She is sexually aroused/fascinated by my dominant presence. She turns to me as an authority/advisor when she has personal questions. She says something’s been missing in all her previous relationships. She finds herself becoming anxious coping with everyday life on her own. She says she feels as if she’s putting on a mask or role as an adult, an employee, a boss, a parent. She’s a nurturer, often being a customer service agent, a nurse, a caregiver of some kind. She takes on guilt that doesn’t belong to her; she tries to fix everyone’s problems. She feels that often people are able to take advantage of her giving nature. She admits to having put up powerful emotional barriers because people can hurt her so easily. She finds it generally hard to trust people, but paradoxically wants very badly to trust me. Conversely, she may be much too trusting in a child-like way and keeps getting hurt. She has always felt oddly out of place and “different” from others. She may even feel there is something wrong with her. From a young age she has found pleasure in serving others; being a good hostess, doing as she’s told, remembering everyone’s birthdays, being everyone’s shoulder to cry on and everyone’s helpmate. She finds it difficult to resist authority or aggressive behavior; she may have been picked on by bullies all her life.