I am looking for a Daddy DomMommy Domme type without the age play. I need someone very strict, someone who wont take no for an answer. Someone who will have things their way. But who is reasonable to the reality of my life (work, family). Someone who is nurturing and wants to push me (force me) to be better, by their definition - for example fitter, more focused, look a particular way, behave a particular way, follow protocols. I need rules and instructions. I need to be micromanaged within the bounds of this relationship.

And I expect to be punished for bad and bratty behaviour. And just because they feel like it.

I want to be used. Treated as a possession. A very valued possession, but a possession.

Im looking for a safe space to give up control and to show emotion in. Somewhere that I can relax my usual need to be the organiser and planner and let someone else take care of that. And somewhere where I dont have to hide my emotions, like I feel the need to in every day life. Somewhere to be weak and vulnerable.

Some key items
Please be local to the west end of Toronto. Im definitely not looking for an online relationship and my time can be very limited.
Please be close to my age (within 10 years at most).
Please be understanding that my family and work come first.