Since childhood, I was taught to think in alternatives. So with paul (my husband) incapable of satisfying me physically and psychologically - and with many Doms abusive or fake, i turn to sub males. looking at profiles, some impressive physiques and tasty equipment. however - so very dissapointing - most do not offer themselves as men but as pathetic losers. how nice to encounter a masculine who - while accessible as a sex toy - maintains a male aura that appeals to the feminine desire. But i know wishing will get me nowhere.i am still craving the masculine aura, power and sensuality that only a true Dominant possesses. there is abolutely no substitute.