** I am not looking for online play. Never served? Don't waste my time, I don't come with a manual. I am not for the newbie. Check My requirements, if you're not up to MY standards prepare to be ignored.**
I'm Natali, a BDSM Educator, Performer, and Presenter located in Washington, DC. I have over 15 years experience as 24/7 Lifestyle Femdom. I know the ins and outs of BDSM but am always exploring and growing.
I run a popular real life kinky site "From Mundane To Mistress", and post reguarly on social media. I'm happy to share my screen names there.
I'm a proud Black POLYANDROUS, plus size, creative, sadistic, highly versatile humilatrix with a knack for words and eye for what will make you squirm.
I'm unlike anything or anyone you have ever met. I know this without even knowing you. I'm a polyandrous Queen who is foruntate and enough to have amazing devoted partners who honor my Queendom every day. I am a multi faceted woman, and I have found it takes several slightly above average men to satisfy my desires.
I like my mind stimulated as much as my dark senses and body. And am seeking someone to offer themselves for eventual, complete, and total power exchange/TPE (with the possibility of relocating), to become a part of a real-life Female led relationship (FLR).
Please be willing to explore and express your service to me deeply as I am seeking a true slave minded individual who will eagerly put my needs, wants, and happiness first. I wish I didn't have to make a list but it seems if I don't, I'll keep getting messages from those who aren't a good fit for me.
My requirements...
- Between 30 and 60 years old - no exceptions
- Prior serving experience
- Willing and able to attend small & large scale kink events across the country and locally with me
- Emotionally mature and thoughtful
- Mentally stable - I have no time to remind you to take your medicine and coddle you
- Must own and drive a car
- Non smoker (tobacco)
- Basic skills and overall skilled (the more skills you know the better chance you have of getting a reply). If you can't cook, clean, or help fix things you're of no use to me as I can do all of those things and then some!
- Not extremely introverted
- Interested in exploring your masochist limits
- Be gainfully employed (no paycheck to paycheck people please)
- Posses a passport or willing to get one
- MMJ friendly (I have a medical card)
- No fragile ego. I am in charge. I make the rules. You will respect me and my other partners and they will do the same.
What will you get? Me. In all my glory. I am multilingual, hold a PhD, have an eclectic mix of vanilla tastes (astronomy, horror films, DIY renovations, sushi making, car repair, sports, music festivals, and much more), enjoy traveling, consider myself very emotionally intelligent, multi-skilled, am a geek and take anything I touch seriously (hence the reason I am so good at what I do), and really enjoy blending kink into vanilla life in pleasantly unexpected ways.
My kinks are far and wide but some of my favorites are CBT, certified erotic hypnotherapy, behavioral modification, mummification, JOI, chastity, feminization and discussion, extreme RP, objectification, T&D, forced bi, and some forms of edge play that I feel safe topping such as, extended degradation, "brainwashing", watersports, and extreme bondage and more I can't list due to terms of service here.
There's a reason ex subs of mine always come crawling back, I am equal parts from the best of the vanilla world and the sadistic kink adventures. I get off on blending into high society vanilla crowds seamlessly, knowing in the back of my mind that I have a dungeon being cleaned at home by subs. Do you look good in a suit or event ware? Even better! Psst, just ask me about visiting a Prime Minister with my sub locked in chastity.
Outsiders have described my current kinky Queendom as a "real-life kinky fantasy", just ask my sissy-husband who I met on this very site. He took the leap and moved across the world a couple of years ago to serve me, and still does.
I am very real woman, looking for my potential VERY useful slave. However, I'm done being polite to time wasters, if this was too long to read, made you roll your eyes, or unattractively groan, then WE ARE NOT A MATCH!!
