Hi! I am a genuine, single, educated, straight dominant male ultimately seeking a long-term monogamous relationship with a sub female based on mutual respect and care. All my life I have been into leather bondage, control and fetish (leather, etc.). I have had Dom-sub relationships in the past but am currently single and I am now seeking a new sub partner who enjoys the thought of being held captive in leather and chains whilst at the same time being cared for and respected, along with control and discipline, as well as fun and vanilla interests. I am happy to take things slowly, get to know one another and build trust.

I am interested in various aspects of physical control and bondage, and I prefer using leather restraints rather than rope, such as lockable leather cuffs, collars, locking straps and so on. I like to use discipline but I am not a sadist. I also enjoy the more sensual side of bondage, and even a cuddle on the sofa can be a very sensuous experience, when a partner is still held in leather and chains. I enjoy teasing and giving pleasure (or denial) as she struggles helplessly in her bonds. I also like using hidden bondage when taking a partner out in public, for example a padlocked leather collar hidden beneath a scarf, so that she still has that feeling of being owned and controlled as we sip coffee in the cafe or wine in the bar, while those around us are oblivious to the captive and controlled woman in their midst. And a few rules and some obedience training would help to keep her in line! And as mentioned, I believe that a Dom-sub relationship should be based on mutual respect, not arrogance or abuse.

I am a non-smoker and non-drugs, educated, creative and young for my age (well, we all say that, dont we!). I am strong and tactile, enjoy real conversation, and like to think I have a good sense of humour. Other interests include music, walks in the countryside that end up at country pubs, travel, eating out, staying in, and all the usual things.

So if any of this appeals, please do leave me a message - it would be great to hear from you (non-smoker, non-BBW preferred, not interested in transgenders). Regular meetings preferred, hopefully leading to an ongoing mutually rewarding monogamous relationship.