10/15/2017 8:32:01 PM: Again I have received another negative response based solely on having a dick pic posted. Unless you're 12 (and thus shouldn't be on here to begin with), refrain from acting like a child. We are all adults, I would expect all here to act thus...being a submissive leaning person, even if a little (though this last one was not at least), is no excuse to behave in such a manner.Were it my primary picture I could understand, were I messaging people to go look at it, or sending it to them so they HAVE to see via attached images, sure...but you going out of your way to seek it out by opening my profile and then going through all my photos yourself, what physical attributes I have rather than be surprised by some dimension you don't agree with (length or thickness, and it IS a concern as physical attributes play a part in compatibility, no matter how much the ideal is that we're bodiless minds trying to get along. And I'm thick enough it's hurt in some women being too tight, very much feel it's fair to offer fair warning without forcing people to see it) should NOT be the only thing you bother fucking looking at. Try talking to me, ask why it's posted there if you honestly have a childish problem with it, read the REST of my profile to see I'm not all about acting like a fuckboi instead of latching to that one image and deciding it. I'd expect that kind of shallow mentality from a fellow male...I'm guilty of looking only at the physical aspects of a woman myself from time to time...I expected better from you.Grow up. Whether to be worthy of me, or worthy of literally any other Dom/me on here....grow up. (then regress for our resident littles, you lot are just fine as you are, just avoid the above, body shaming is bad regardless of the context, especially if it's just over the fact there's nudity, rather than the quality or lack thereof of said nudity)

8/17/2016 8:52:46 PM: The amount of catfishing on this site is fairly horrendous. Just saying...should be a point people stop when that's ALL it is, ruins whatever minimal, childish fun they may be getting out of it...can only imagine how many are catfishing each other back and forth.

11/13/2014 10:47:24 AM: Going to make this clear from the start. I am not sending you money. Not for any reason. Not to 'help you out', not to assist you moving here, nada. Especially if you're in another country, and oh just HAPPEN to have a broken webcam but are oh so serious about being under me...just need a bit of money from me and to trust in you.No.Even if I can see you on webcam to confirm you're an actual person, and the same female as displayed in any images you send me or are posted on your profile...I will not be sending you money over the internet for any reason. Too many thieves and parasites in the world and I'm not falling for that idiocy. You want to work outside the home and have me control the money for us as the Dom/Master, great. Trying to use that line, or offering to whore yourself out for me 'later', will not get you any money out of me if you're not here in person with me already.Stop trying, I'm not falling for your damned scams. So many of you fake profiles cropping up, it's just insulting at this point.

11/7/2014 11:07:30 AM: Pulled this from a reply I wrote to another group, wherein a newly realized sub was voicing confusion in how to seek a true Dom/Master, when all she kept finding were the typical flakes and pretenders that inundate the sexual world, deviant or otherwise. Do feel free to give me your thoughts, NO idea is set in stone, but must ever be open to challenge to become further improved. Even a concept as ones own take on dominance ;) 'Most who claim to be Dom/Masters are indeed fakes...using the title to hide their insecurities behind such fronts, and show it when they feel the need to so often express that dominance through violence and abuse. I mean there's a time and a place for being rough, don't get me wrong. But it should never be a constant thing, nor to the point of damaging/breaking the sub/slave. That's the thing, a Dom/Master is a leader in the relationship. And the thing about being a leader is that one must sacrifice 'themselves' in order to now represent the greater whole. Those under them...whether a single sub, a small collective/harem, or even an entire nation...are extensions of the one in the lead, and they in turn represent the whole with their actions and decisions. Hard use, even taboo things...all well and good. But the well being of those serving should always be the prime concern, followed closely by using them for their intended purpose in the relationship (this case, sexual gratification save those who are service oriented, in which case THAT is the intended purpose. Always an exception) So you want a Dom. Seek one whom you feel you can be led by, who you feel would be willing to represent you AND themselves/any others that join in, that will above all else care for those under them, even if it's shown with a harsh control (tyrants can still care for their subjects, merely think them as so beneath them they deserve nothing of equal consideration. I'd not recommend it given how most lean when they attempt that form, particularly the fake dominants I mentioned earlier, but still a quite viable option for a dynamic), someone with the mental capacity to handle thinking beyond themselves and their own perspective, and see the welfare of the entire group...and is able to plot a vision or course for said group to take for mutual success. After that...everything else would fall into place. Even your kinks, no matter how taboo, outlandish, unusual, or tame they might be....the hard part would've already been managed.'