Did they finally fix the profile update function? Only one way to find out. Under/over is 2 weeks. 

Late 40's, fat, queer & demisexual, poly, neurodiverse, trans woman.

Cooking and memes are two of my major love languages. If I cook for you and send you memes? Oooof. I probably like you. I also like nature when my ED is managed. It's been the hardest addiction for me to shake. A girl's gotta eat. I believe in social justice. If you're not critical of power structures and don't like people who are, we probably won't get on. I'm also vaxxed. Which feels like that shouldn't be a controversial statement, but here we are. 

I go to therapy and see a psyche regularly. I'm also sober by choice from all but nicotine in the of vaping. I came to admit I can't safely use alcohol and other substances. It has changed my life. I mention those things because I don't want to be with anyone who has issues with any of those things.

I'm back in college and doing well! I'm living at home with my aging momma. If that's an issue, no worries. We wouldn't mesh well. 

What I'm looking for is a Dominant who needs this out of the bedroom as much if not more than in the bedroom. Who views D/s as a lifestyle as opposed to a moment in time for getting off. Who checks a decent amount of the same boxes in terms of kinks and ideas around D/s. 

I have a lot lot lot lot lot of kinks. That being said, they revolve around D/s dynamics and connection. Hookups aren't my jam. 

I had a list of my kinks here, but I think that something in there was keeping my edited profile from being approved. I'm happy to share them. Just know that it goes far beyond a dabbling of furry cuffs and bei g bound with a tie. LoL