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BDSM, for some, is a kink. Merely a way to spice up their love life. To others, it is an identity, and as much a choice as ones sexual orientation. Which is to say, it is not a choice, rather it simply is who one is. To others still, it is something more, something far greater than simply self identity. To some, BDSM is a Way. It is a transcendental path to enlightenment, awareness, and actualization. Yet, in truth, BDSM has many Ways many paths. Mine is Sadism.

I am an intelligent, creative, unrelenting, and absolutely brutal Sadist. My path is one blazed by pain, yet with no small amount of perversion, deviance and debauchery. I am by no means new to this path, having been following it, learning from it, being improved by it, for well over a decade. Like any other trade or craft, Ive discovered that the more I grow, the more I know I do not know. This serves only to further fuel my determination in pursuing my path.

For those asking themselves exactly what I may mean by brutal, Ill tell you that it means precisely what you imagine it means. Whatthat means, is that I am capable of administering precisely the level of brutality youre imagining, from basic cuffs, whips and chains (yawn) to torments as may be seen on Insex (getting warmer) to far, far darker perversions. One thing I will be clear on, though, is my opinion of the difference between Sadism and abuse. Sadism is pered with the purpose of growth, both in the giver and recipient. It is done to further ones self on ones path to fulfillment (hence the screen name). Abuse is simply done for the sake of doing it. The applicability of either, as they manifest in a given method or act, is completely subjective to the individuals involved.

I am here to find slaves, select slaves mind you, who seek fulfillment in their life. By fulfillment, I simply mean that you know (or have a good idea of) whatwho you are and what you want your life to be. I welcome those who seek actualization of their desires. Desires vary from one individual to another, as does ones path to actualization.

I am not seeking the faint of heart. Age, weight, looks, etc are all considerations, but all fall far short of the most paramount requirement that being your definition of what it means to be a slave. Well see if this site will bear any fruit.

*** Yes, the pictures I have posted are pulled from the internet. They serve merely to provide a context for what you might experience. I will provide pictures of myself to you during conversations.

9/16/2014 1:23:36 PM: Ladies (and gentlemen), there are sources on the web that perform a function called 'reverse image lookup.' They allow a user to search the web for any other locations a given image exists, and also show if the supplied 'original' image has been cropped or edited. I use tineye on any image I receive that doesn't seem right to me, and I'm usually correct in my suspicions. So, really, stop wasting people's time to get your jollies off. Go watch some porn and whisper sweet nothings to yourself about how clever you think you are. For those of you hesitant to send real images of yourself for fear of privacy infringement, do not use images you also have of various social medias (edited or not) and you're fine. Contrary to popular fear mongering, cross image facial recognition is not all that readily available. The people who do have access to it are either restricted in its use or do not care enough to 'track down' random people from a kink related dating site. Caveat*** Just because I use tineye does not mean I go posting people's pictures all over the internet. Really, it does nothing for me. Such lowly, vindictive pettiness is contemptible.

9/11/2014 8:10:01 PM: Lasciate ogni speranza, voi ch'intrate

9/10/2014 9:50:29 AM: There is an overabundance of people on this site seeking discrete extramarital engagements. This irritates me to no end. The BDSM lifestyle, to whatever degree one chooses to become involved, requires no small measure of trust and integrity, for all parties concerned. This Lifestyle, as I see it, has no place for those who would cast aside any vows of devotion and commitment to their life partner for the sake of getting their rocks off. I'm not talking about swingers, or poly households, or open relationships. I'm talking about the one's who would go begind their spouse's back just for some kinky sex. This Lifestyle, and sites devoted to connecting people within it, have no place for you. Same goes for those I have seen on here seeking to be that third person. To be clear, I do not condemn your choice to seek discrete extramarital sex, and do not presume to know your reasons and justifications. I simply do not believe this is the place for you. Go to ashleymadison

8/26/2014 5:55:26 AM: If I were dropped out of a plane into the ocean and told the nearest land was a thousand miles away, I'd still swim. And I'd despise the one who gave up. Abraham Maslow

8/15/2014 9:14:56 PM: It has been said that love is giving someone the ability to destroy you, yet trusting them not to. I don't want your love, and if you choose to give me the ability to destroy you, you can trust me to do precisely that.

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