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Building a new play room, and now a MALE DOM female Sub group. Check back for new updates as time move on

I dont play with GUYS, Just not my thing. Sad one has to say this in this day an age.

Submission and Domination is not a play date, it is a MINDSET

Will send photo upon request to a email address. After we have posted here a few time and you feel safe in posting me your email address. Or cell text number

True BDSM isnt about having a playdate its about sharing a mindset.
Hello. Im a DOMinant gentleman looking for a LADY that needs to explore her submissive side. If youre looking for excitement, but you understand you need to be careful, keep reading.
Youre safe with me. Im very open minded but only practice Safe, Sane and Consensual activities. Ive had the pleasure of mentoring and training some terrific female submissives over the years. I believe in titles and rules that have been used for over 60 years. As we get to know each other Ill teach you what that means. Whether youre an experienced submissive, or a complete novice, we can explore your limits and desires together. I understand your overwhelming need to please me - I value and respect you for it.
You have to be careful online. Many men say theyre Dominants but dont understand the balance. A true Dom will take time to learn about your feelings and desires. Anyone that starts out with get on your knees or show me your tits is a bully not a Dominant. Whether you end up with me or not, RUN from those who dont ask lots or questions. You need someone that takes time to learn about YOU. A man who wants to explore all aspects of your mind and body smell you, touch you, taste you, watch you, and most important of all, communicate with you. This is not about sex specifically rather it is continuous foreplay Building to an intimate partnership, experiencing the Ds dynamic.......
Do you want the thrill of being owned by a man who values and cares for you? Do you want to enjoy the special connection two people dancing this dance together can know? Do you want your heart to beat faster when I whisper? I want that too! I want to show you what this lifestyle can hold. I want to hear all about those fantasies youve never dared tell anyone else. We can make them happen......lets talk about it.
Are you new to the lifestyle? Maybe youve been curious (a little afraid) for years? Dont worr, we can start slow and I know how to draw you out. I can also be very intense when its appropriate.. I expect us to have a good time together, both in bed and out of it. Ill be strict with you, but youll want me to be. I suspect you want a firm hand.....firm but fair.. I expect complete honesty from you and I commit to being completely honest in return. Together, well explore and expand our limits. Sexual gratification is only a part of this for me, actually building the trust and earning the right to call you a pet, a submissive to me, a lover and a friend is more important than just sex and instant gratification, it is a lasting bond. Some of my subs have moved on but weve kept in touch. You can speak to these women if itll help your comfort level.
A little more about me
Outside the BDSM world, I enjoy window-shopping, dancing, horses, long walks, good wine and spending time with a Special friends.
I am an excellent leader on the dance floor and enjoy West Coast Swing and CW Couples dancing. I love the parallels between leading a dance and taking the lead in a relationship.
Enough about me......what about you? What do YOU want? Why are YOU still reading? What captures YOUR imagination. Why not take the first step......reach out and tell me. I know youre excited but nervous. Thats good. So heres a little test - I want you to SIT ON YOUR HANDS while you read this next part.
How do you feel right now? Sitting on your hands not because you chose to but because I told you to. A man who knows you need control just took it. Your physical reaction to following one simple command tells me we need to talk more.
My Ideal Person
You are confident in yourself. You know being submissive doesnt mean being a doormat.
You are successful within your life, a leader in your field.
You have a wonderful sense of humor
You understands the balance between sensual and sadistic touch.
You are strong hearted and patient enough to WORK WITH the DOM
You are comfortable in an evening gown, jeans, leather pants, erotic or kinky attire and lingerie.
You enjoys flirting but can also be direct.
You can discuss what you want from a Ds relationship.
You stir my imagination and actively participate in what we agree to create.
You likes to have fun with OUR kink!
You have limits however, youre open to trying new things and willing to expand your experiences.
I seek someone who is open to attending BDSM clubs and other events.
I seek someone who wants to build something that works FOR BOTH of US and enjoys being a TRUE submissive
Does this sounds like you? Are you still sitting on your hands? If so, put them back on the keyboard and hit REPLY. Say Hi and tell me what youre thinking. Lets talk enough to find out if theres a possibility for more. You know you want to take a chance.....let yourself go.