Ds (demisexual)
Started journey years ago as willing dominant for a desiring partner and, however, learned over time that what i enjoyed most was the satisfaction and pleasure of pleasing and relinquishing control, fulfilling others desires. Today, the start and key is strong mental connection first ... learning about desires, ideas, some smiles, and more, and then all can follow. Open occasionally to play only, when mutual interest and desire is compelling preferring developing real and regular times. With experience, an actual real relationship, Ds and vanilla is optimum.
Not looking for cyber or professional -- real time only, step at a time --- with connection, meeting, passion and satisfaction.
