Hello gentlemen, I just wanted to let you know that I am currently under consideration with KurJames. I truly appreciate your interest, your kind messages, and the time you’ve taken to reach out to me. It means more than you may realize. I wish each of you the very best of luck in your search, and I hope you all find exactly what you’re looking for. Take care, stay safe, and thank you again for your kindness.

I am:

Sweet, sultry, sassy, soft-hearted, stubborn, sensitive, secretly savage.

Simple on the surface, simmering underneath.

I want:

Safe, sturdy, stable, secure, sensual, spontaneous, sexy—

that slow-build spark that explodes into fire.

I need:

Strength that shelters me, steadiness that grounds me, sweetness that soothes me,

a man who claims me hard and keeps me safe—firm, focused, fiercely mine.

(Okay I cheated, I used the help with an AI, but hey it's perfect isn't it?!) 

I am back home from the trip visiting my family. 

Had a good time: swam with them for two hours, went to three thrift stores.

I bought several tops and a pair of flats. We went to science museum and had a lot of fun. 

Here is another song for you: it describes Master C's love for me: 

I am going to visit my family this weekend so don't mind me if I'm not responding to you for a while! 

So I figured I'd share a music video that I listened to on repeat while I work. 

I lost my Master of 12 years. I’m still grieving and healing. I am not ready to jump into another relationship or try to replace Him.

I am looking for one steady, trustworthy man who can make me feel safe and secure while I put myself back together.

Someone I can cook with, keep the house clean together, talk for hours, and cuddle up close with at the end of the day.

I know it sounds pretty vanilla, but I think it is what I need for a while to heal.

The kinks and the dynamic will come naturally down the road when I’m better and truly ready for the lifestyle again.

No rush, no pressure—just consistent, caring company and the quiet everyday stuff.

A safe place to land until I’m strong enough to stand in the dynamic I want.