Collarspace

I believe in taking a different approach with every submissive as is appropriate for their ideal subjugation. I am socially laid-back and mentally flexible, but that flexibility is based on my diagnosis of you, not their whims (you will not be topping from the bottom).

My primary kink is slowly drilling my way into someones head over time to find those precious bits of perverted gold and then fucking the living hell out of it (physically and mentally). For this reason I tend to do better with LTRs, but I can make exceptions.

While casual arrangements can very much be of the submissive for sex only variety, I expect 24 7 at home for serious relationships. You should to be able to comport yourself as an equal in certain non-sexual social situations.

I am not afraid to subjugate, humiliate, or punish you, but I am also not afraid to become your best friend and be someone you can fully rely on. While I am fully capable and do not mind supporting a submissive, if your desire to be submissive is based on wanting to be a kept woman, you should be exceptional at that roll.

I do not like brats long-term. I can train that out of you, but will not tolerate it as a lifestyle. I rarely attend social BDSM community events, but I do like to be occasionally social on a more private level and will expect you to represent me well when i show you off to both platonic guests and those that invite over to enjoy a show from my submissive.

I have a PhD in physics, a solid career, own a reasonably nice house, and take good care of myself physically. Traits for subs such as curious, smart, fit, and reasonably motivated are big bonuses in my book.