I am fairly new to lifestyle.  Have been in it for a little over two years.  I have always known i was submissive, to a certain extent, but never had the nerve to act on it.

I have had a few experiences, but am looking for more, I want (would like) a LTR.  Not looking for a one night stand, or anything of that sort.  Im not here to see how many Doms/Sirs i can get to take me to bed and do whatever it is that they think they are good at.   Not looking to be used or taken advantage of just because im fairly "NEW".....

Not looking to "hook" up with married men because there sex life at home has gone south.  If that is the case please pass me by.  Im not into poly or anything of that sort.  Maybe one day, but today is not that day.  LOL

 Of course i would love to find that special someone and have a very intense connection with them.  We all want that and if it happens it would be great, if not then i will be grateful for having met and made some new friends.

Forgive me for being so blunt at times during the writing of this profile.  But am tired of men contacting me and telling me that they need to be discreet.  If your wife does not know what you are doing, then you probably should not be doing it.

 
I think I may need to add something here for all you subbie guys. I'm not a Top nor a switch. So if that is what you are looking for, please keep looking and don't waste my time or yours by asking if I would occasionally Top you. The answer is NO!!!!