If you're going to contact me... 1. please be real and not a fantasist 2. have a clear idea of what you require and sort of life plan. I'm not in this for just sex, I need a proper relationship and I'm not going to accept anything less. 3. be there, I need contact and communication. 4. be prepared to commit to this  5. I'm not sending you pics right away. If you prove trustworthy and you make me feel at ease then maybe then. Never before. 

I've been reading a lot recently and had some interesting conversations with people about being a hotwife. With the right partner and circumstance I think the freedom to see other people is something I'd really enjoy, knowing I'd still have my supportive partner at home who'd love and encourage it. I've always been quite reserved when it comes to sex but in that position I'd have chance to spread my wings and really enjoy myself at last. Woud anyone else embrace this with me?

Are there actually any decent Doms out there? Ones that want to get to know you first, build up a rapport and have decent conversation instead of just demanding naked photos or videos straight away? Surely there's more to this than just sex. Where are you?

'Deleted unread', I don't think I've ever seen that pop up before and never thought anyone actually did that...

Today has been a good day and I'm very proud of myself.