I am someone who most people would probably be surprised is kinky and a dom in the bedroom, though I do haveoccasional switch tendencies. Outside, I generally am pretty easy going and sweet. I think this dramatic change in personality tends to throw people.
I like women who have a similar dual life submissive in the bedroom but strong outside with a full life and interests other than just kink.
Ive generally used more traditional dating sites, like OKC, but found that although I tend to connect on a mental level with people there, sexual compatibility is often difficult. Hopefully I can find both here.
Im also in an open relationship now. Happy to meet one-on-one or with my female partner if thats your interest )
