Note: if you send me email, then don't block the responses.  That's idiotic.

 Experienced married white Dom with 11 years part time experience, looking for a discreet ongoing relationship with a good sub, preferably a married woman who is in the same boat. Like many people, my partner is not interested in pleasing me and my marriage is sexually dead.  I make no apologies for cheating, if you don't like it, don't contact me.  I am hungry for sex, for D/s, and closeness.  Your attitude and willingness to serve is the most important thing from a play perspective. You should also be intelligent, and be willing to communicate when asked to do so. A good start would be replying in more than one line emails.

Willing to talk, but would prefer a RT relationship.  This is sexual, but also emotional for me.  I cannot have intense D/s and share intimate secrets without falling in love.   Doesn't mean I'm breaking up my marriage.  It just means that I can snuggle afterwards, tell you I love you, send you emails asking how your day is going, telling you how serene and calm I am after the intense date of two days ago....  Nothing pleases me more than to hear you say that you love me, and that two days later, you still think of me every time you sit down.

I alternate from hard taskmaster to gentle, though I definitely tend towards the unvanilla. I always play with a safeword, but am proud that I rarely have needed to use it; taking you right up to the edge and not crossing the line is the best way.

That's why I prefer someone who wants a continuing relationship. D/s, like sex, gets better when you take the time to know each other.

I love to tease to the point of madness, then force you to keep going when you're hypersensitive.  It's a bit excruciating, but wildly pleasurable.  I take pride in giving you the most pleasure you can stand, and a bit beyond.

I like control, of your orgasms, your body, and I'm pretty good at messing with minds as well. I've been told I would make a great therapist if it weren't for the fact that I'm evil *grin*.  I doubt a good spanking is in the code of professional ethic for the profession, but perhaps it should be.

Contact me via email if you are interested. Photos available only once I have a feeling who you are. You won't be too shocked; I'm not a model, but I've got some good bilateral symmetry going.