I have long wavy to curly hair and the color changes whenever the mood strikes me. I have grey eyes, and fair skin with a big and curvy, BBW build. If you are looking for a petite Domme with small to average breasts, we are not right for each other. I have a soft voice normally, but I can become very stern when taking control of a sub. I take pride in my intelligence, have a great sense of humor, and am proud to be a nerd who likes science, gaming, reading, crafting, and more. I also have a wicked streak and a very creative mind. I am sure that will excite and intrigue some while serving as a warning to others.

I am seeking a male slave to establish a longterm, mutually beneficial Ds relationship. I want intelligent, fun male slaves that I connect with on multiple levels. Local is a MUST. I want domestic service and regular play sessions. I want you available when and where I want you to be, within reason. A 5 hour commute just to see me, or willing to relocate and put heaps of pressure on our burgeoning relationship is NOT what I am looking for.

I am in a relationship (with no secrets), but you should not be because chastity, and orgasm control is REQUIRED. In my experience it is too difficult to keep slaves in chastity when they are keeping secrets from a partner or sexual commitments to someone else. Also I just dont want to be a part of you lying to your partner.

I dont have a set body type or look I am attracted to, it is more about the connection and similar interests. As long as there is something about you that draws me in. Have a stable job and life, you will be required to buy toys from time to time, and spoiling me once we have established a relationship is expected. I certainly wont be buying your toys for you or paying your bills, so scammers can move right along. Drug and disease free is a must, as is honesty at all times. I wont lie and I wont forgive lies if I catch you in one.

Let me be very clear right from the start, I am NOT looking for a sexual relationship. For me, being a Domme means humiliating, controlling, tormenting, berating, and abusing a willing guy before sending him on his way along with restrictions or tasks I want him to carry out while we are apart. That being said, I certainly expect my slaves to become aroused and find a sexual thrill in their treatment. At times I may demand orgasms, masturbation, or similar things. I expect this to be an overall enjoyable experience for everybody involved. However, dont expect me to suddenly let you eat me during a session. Again, I am in a relationship, and those things are completely off limits.

Speaking of my relationship... as mentioned, there are no secrets between us. If you share something with me, assume it will be shared with him. He may or may not be involved as little or as much as he chooses. I say this so you are aware this is a real possibility, but it is also not a promise that he will be involved. If you have any reservations about this situation, I am not the Domme for you. If you are not interested in the very real possibility of serving or servicing a man as part of your submission, I am not the Domme for you.

Now that we have narrowed the field some... Those who are still interested can expect very strict rules from me. You should expect to give up full control of orgasms and masturbation. Humiliation, chastity, and CBT are some of my favorite things and I am interested in domestic service (cleaning, running errands). You suffering in some way for my benefit and pleasure is so hot. I am demanding and expect my instructions to be followed precisely. I love mind fucks, and playing games with psychological or sadistic tilts to them. I will grill a slave on any and all subjects I desire. I am also caring, will do my best to ensure you are safe while in my control, and I highly value consent.

If I am your Domme, your balls will be in pain. If you have a little, tiny penis or balls they will be mocked endlessly and compared to adequate men regularly. You will go out of your way to obey, serve and please me in every way requested. You will happily take my abuse, humiliations, and punishments. In exchange you will be eternally thankful for my time and torments.

If all of this sounds like a great fit, send me a message. If not, good luck with your search. I am sure some other lucky Domme or Dom will be pleased to have you at their feet where you belong. If you have read all of this, include one of your favorite foods in your first message to me.

-Domina Nova