6/24/2008 3:59:50 PM: Vulnerability works on both side of the fence – being fully open is what has attracted me the most to dominant women in the past.  The first time I surrendered to a woman she was so open to me (after a while) – that although I didn’t fully realize it at the time – it was a big part of the attraction to her for me and I fell to my knees pretty quickly emotionally. She would share things with me casually that would melt my heart such as: Upon tying me up: Her: I would never let someone tie me up. Me: Because you’re not submissive? Her: Because I could never be that brave, that vulnerable. (Grabbing my face in her hands.) You’re reckless, putting yourself in such a situation so soon after we met. You’re fortunate that I am not going to hurt you….much. Or: Her: I will never intentionally harm you. I was in an abusive relationship and he didn’t take care of me. Who knows? It may be part of why I am the way I am. Or: Sometimes I want to hurt you so much…just a little…that it drives me crazy. In a way, she was so brave to be so open to me that it set the example for me to be an open book to her.

6/10/2008 4:20:10 PM: If I'm late don't waitGo on without meI may tarry awhileCause I need to knowBefore I goHow come the Devil smiles

5/28/2008 5:16:24 PM: For me D/S is love distilled - think only of me, desire only me, obey only me. This deep intimacy, this emotional nakedness is a big part of the draw of D/S for me. Worship only me, you are only allowed pleasure if I allow it, give me pleasure because it give you pleasure to do so…it can be very delicious but it can lead to hurt feelings on a submissive/slave’s part if they take it “seriously” and the dominant is only “playing” at it. (That’s how I look at it - casual play doesn’t fulfill me.) So for me…friendship first…which leads to warm feelings…which could lead to love….which could lead to commitment and devotion…I have found the more I love someone, and the more that love and respect is returned...the more biddable I find myself becoming. I'm a sucker for a woman saying I am cherished or being called dearest. (Being called slut is fun too...it is a matter of balance.) When I have interacted with those who felt love would get in the way of the kink - I felt uncomfortable.

5/20/2008 6:21:52 PM: Chuck Norris has a pet kitten...every night for a snack.

5/18/2008 7:38:28 AM: Chuck Norris invented Kentucky Fried Chicken's famous secret recipe, with eleven herbs and spices. But nobody ever mentions the twelfth ingredient: Fear.