11/21/2013 4:50:58 PM: Something unusual happened the other day, I was casually talking to someone and they said they couldn't see themselves submitting to someone with as little experience as I have.  That's a comment I haven't heard in about 34 years, right after I started exploring my dominance for real and not just fantasizing about it.  Now granted, I don't consider myself as experienced as some people out there, but I'm not a novice anymore. I suppose at my age I should take all of the compliments about looking and sounding young as I can get with no complaints, it can be good for the ego after a certain age.  It could be that I wasn't in her face about how controlling, or sadistic, or any number of other traits associated with domination, it's hard to tell in a typed conversation.  Still, one wonders how much experience is needed to no longer be a 'novice' for some people.