My 8 year serious BDSM relationship ended last year and I am ready to venture out to see if there are compatible soulds out there. We broke up because she got more and more extreme in her need for pain, and that is not my cup of tea, it's a lot a mind thing for me, I do enjoy giving a good erotic or discipline spanking(OTK is good, she is so open and vulnerable) and there are other implements I enjoy. I am always willing to try something new, have exceptional stamina and enjoy mature women as much as young, chubby is great as is slim. have a great sense of humor, travel a lot in my work in the entertainment business. Control and the mind turn me on as much as the sexual.  I have a good imagination.