I am primarily looking for intimate companionship with a submissive or bottom that involves Ds, pain, and vanilla activities, e.g., active pursuits, dining out, learning new skills, and traveling. A happy sex life includes pegging. I am bright, healthy, and self-sufficient. I like people who are conscientious, communicative, and have a good sense of humor. Chemistry is key. Long term is the goal. Long distance is not sustainable, and I expect to spend quality time IRL with my partner multiple times per week.