I like BDSM because it gives me an opportunity to give up control to someone else. To give an intimate level of trust to someone to walk up to the line with force, domination, humiliation and pain, but still respect limits is very liberating. I enjoy surrendering control to someone else. I have limited experience, but am very open to many different fetishes. What i enjoy is giving up control.

I am married, but my husband is aware of and sanctions my search for someone to give up physical and mental control to. I am looking for sexual encounters with limited emotional involvement.