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whtmtnlady
Hetero Female, 57, Salem NH, New Hampshire 
whtmtnlady

This is really hard, isn't it? Finding that person that can not only share your vanilla likes but is a match to your kinky dark side.

I'm not so new anymore, but I haven't been in this lifestyle as long as most. I've met some great people I can call my friends, had my heart broken and learned to hold my head up and move forward with grace. Life lessons I call them... and I wouldn't trade them for anything. Some things interest me more than others, some not at all, and some I haven't tried yet. I explore with those who trust in me.

I am a Sensual Dominant and do like some impact play.  I don't engage in degradation or humiliation as it's just not my thing. I enjoy Topping those I engage with and I am selective with my time.


Please say more than just Hi...Hello.....What's up or Hmu. Don't ask if I Wanna have some fun as I don't do random hookups. This will most likely get you blocked.

When I check your profile....and I will.... give me a reason to respond back. Have some photos..they don't even need to be of you, and please write something about yourself, and what you're seeking. I know changing your profile or adding to it is a process that takes some time now, but I really won't respond if it's empty. Invest some time or give me your username on the other site I list at the bottom.


Now the fine print

*If you're looking for discretion, look elsewhere. If you can't be public, we won't be private and I am never...ever...an option.

*I am attracted to tall men so you need to be taller than me and at least 5'11.

*Please don't message me if you're under 35 years old. There are plenty of younger women here for you.

*I am not looking for a live-in submissive or slave.

*I am not interested in a long-distance relationship. You would need to be close enough to come to me when I request. I'm not interested in online penpals. 

* If you choose to message me, include a photo as I've included mine. 


Treat me with respect and honesty and you will find that I'm worth the time and effort.


One of the great things I have found here is no matter how young or old you are, or how long you have been here the learning never ends.


Good luck on Your journey.

Whtmtnlady ~ https://fetlife.com/users/1019519

2/18/2023 11:59:14 AM: Just Like This ..... Where'd you wanna go? How much you wanna risk? I'm not looking for somebody With some superhuman gifts Some superhero Some fairytale bliss Just something I can turn to Somebody I can kiss I want something just like this...

5/13/2022 8:40:27 PM: ~ Reflecting.... Sometimes at night, I see their faces, I feel the traces they've left on my soul Those are the memories that make me a wealthy soul.

5/3/2022 6:21:42 PM: Current Mood...... I have climbed highest mountainsI have run through the fieldsOnly to be with youOnly to be with you I have runI have crawledI have scaled these city wallsThese city wallsOnly to be with you But I still haven't found what I'm looking forBut I still haven't found what I'm looking for I have kissed honey lipsFelt the healing in his fingertipsIt burned like fireThis burning desireI have spoke with the tongue of angelsI have held the hand of a devilIt was warm in the nightI was cold as a stone But I still haven't found what I'm looking forBut I still haven't found what I'm looking for I believe in the kingdom comeThen all the colors will bleed into oneBleed into oneBut yes I'm still runningYou broke the bondsAnd you loosed the chainsCarried the crossOf my shameOh my shameYou know I believe it But I still haven't found what I'm looking forBut I still haven't found what I'm looking forBut I still haven't found what I'm looking forBut I still haven't found what I'm looking for []https://youtu.be/e3-5YC_oHjE?t=74url)

1/27/2017 4:28:47 AM: For All The Girls With Messy Hearts And To The Men Who Have Tasted Mine   Let’s be honest here – I am not the girl men fall in love with.I am the girl that men want to fuck.I am a conquest. A prize. A show. I could count on five hundred fingersthe number of people that have professed,“I like you. You’re different. You’re an interesting girl.”Apparently I’m not fascinating enough for youto want to hold for more than a one-night stand. Onceas I finished swimming a sea of blanketsand got left stranded on the shore,I asked myself: What’s wrong with me?What am I doing?Am I not good enough for anybody? And right before I could drown again,the sun woke up and said, “You are.You are enough.Forget the men whose hands have groped your hipsin search for answers to questionsyou’ve never even heard of.Do not settle for people who do not appreciate you,who do not know how lucky they are.Remember it is a privilege to be loved by you,or even justto be touched by you, andthe warmth of another body does not define your worth. These men –they think that they can own youwith their drunken stares and roughened arms, butI have circled the eartha thousand timesto feed the light flowing inside your skin.Do not waste it by illuminating those whocan not even be botheredto learn your last name.” So that night whenthe moon tried once more to pin me down,I told him: I am made of sunlight, crashing waves, and fireworks.You think you can tame meand cool my flesh?I am the girl who plays with matches,and trust me I play it well.Lord knows I’ve walked through villages leavinga pile of destruction in my wake. My heart is a bushfireand the next time you try to control me,darling, make no mistake – I will burst out and ravage you in flames. I’llburnyoutotheground. By Sade Andria Zabalahttp://sadeandriazabala.com/

1/23/2017 1:02:25 PM: On Being a Daddy's Girl 'She's Daddy's Girl'....or 'Your Daddy's Girl aren't you?'...........these are phrases most girls grow up hearing. I had heard others say it to their daughters, or have someone say it to them. I won't say I never had this said to me, I just don't recall. My father passed away when I was young and though I had adults and 'father figures' in my life....no one was my Daddy...and I was no longer Daddy's girl. My own daughter loves her father...she is a 'Daddy's girl'...and I'm glad that she will have those memories...both of them will as long as life allows. Up until I entered this lifestyle, I had no knowledge of others using this term. Yes..I had heard or read about other peoples kinks, age role play and what not, but I believe that this is different. Being a submissive/slave to your Dom/Master has its expectations on both parts. You expect your D/M to take care of your, to cherish and protect you...to teach and guide you on the path that you both have chosen, the ideals you both agree upon. Thats the foundation for a healthy D/s relationship...common values. There are times...when both parties need something different....something of an understanding that goes a bit deeper. There are times when this girl needs to slip away from her duties for a moment and come to her Master, to curl up into his arms and have him chase the monsters out from under the bed. This girl...Daddy's girl is always strong, but at times she's vulnerable and needs his help, his nurturing, his protection and his love. He needs her too...his babygirl......he chases away the demons. and he holds her tight and dries her eyes.... kisses her fears away and lets her know she will always be safe with him...her Daddy. And she..his babygirl will be there to hold him tight and let him know he's safe too. So when a girl says she misses her Daddy and she needs him........don't hesitate...... because she honestly needs you. ~b

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