Hello. I'm certainly not new to the "lifestyle". Hell ask me and I don't consider this a lifestyle at all. For me it's just a fun activity. Paddles, crops, canes...yummy.
I'm not into a d/s relationship. Hell I actually cannot abide the thing. Oh my freaking heavens!!! What did she say??? Yeah. I'm not into d/s however I do enjoy s/m a lot. And that's what I'm here for.
Pop on over here & say hi. >>Hi!<< See, it's easy. When you do, please use proper grammar, punctuation, and for the love of dog- avoid random capitalization and please capitalize proper nouns. (Hint, names are proper nouns.)
I love topping men, and I prefer bottoming to women. However...(omg, there's always a however!) I am a monogamist. Monogamy with a twist? I like one person (man or woman) at a time. Is that even possible you ask??!! Yes, the psycho profile says. Why wouldn't you pay more attention to it? Oh, right. The psycho part... Heh heh...
When I'm not enjoying s/m, I love art museums (or museums in general) scuba diving, Broadway style plays & dancing. Movies, watching football, and listening to music are other non kink activities I like.
I'm not a damned fetish delivery system.
(Foot dudes need not apply. The foot worship part is meant in the context of a relationship. I don't want it to be mistaken for wanting random dudes drooling/wanking over my feet.)
Using terms of endearments like dear, babe, hon/hun, or doll are creepy from a relative stranger. Reducing me to my looks (calling me sexy, gorgeous, beautiful, etc) is objectifying me without my consent. Seriously peeps, don't do that! If you don't want to use my screen name, call me Anne.
In case people get confuzzled, I don't engage in casual sex. (Yeah, some have no clue what monogamous means.) A play partner isn't a fuck buddy, sex partner, or whatever spin people put on it. Pain/impact is play. If I want to fuck, I call it that. My partner takes care of my sexual needs, thank you very much.
Sheesh, some people skipped reading comprehension 101.