If you find being humiliated erotic and intimate, I'm very interested in talking to you.

I'm bright, adventurous, attractive, and creative. I'm detail-oriented. I have a strong DIY ethic. Culturally informed, never boring, well-read, fit. I'm a keen observer and a sharp judge of character. Outside of the bedroom I'm funny, considerate, affectionate, a good listener and a pretty cool friend.

It turns me on knowing that on some level you crave objectification, degradation, and humiliation. I love that it makes you wet. Rough treatment and putting you in your place are part of it. For me, it really has everything to do with you and the moment you mouth the words, admitting to yourself what you are.

It's the transformation from respected, smart, classy peer to submissive, begging sex object that feels special and intimate to me. Acting like a cheap sex toy all the time isn't going to cut it. If we're not going to be friends outside of the bedroom, it's not going to work.

I don't expect to find "the one" but I'm not looking for a one-time encounter either. The best relationships develop and unfold over time, as we feel each other out. Don't waste my time. Do send a message.