Contrary to preconceived stereotypes submissives have choices to make. You can choose to settle for someone who postures and over represents themselves. You can choose to be seduced by tough talk that amounts to little. You fall for the promise of connection when there is no effort put forth to establish this. These are all realities of the online experience regrettably. There are alternatives and yes I mean other than forgetting it altogether. Once you get to the point that you have identified this need within you we both know that is unlikely to happen. What I would tell you about myself may not be for everyone but I believe you will understand why I will not take you down one of the paths I mentioned earlier. When I take on a submissive she should be prepared for an exploration into her nature and to be challenged constantly. I prefer those who are strong in their own right but possess an inescapable desire to give of themselves. At my core I have tastes in this space that manifest in elements of control; I have expectations to be met but have proven to be adaptable based on what I want to draw out of my sub. You would be pushed in accordance with not only my desires but where I believe it is best to take you. I am am articulate and thought-provoking sort with a dominant streak but my intelligence does not belie the fact that if I deem it necessary then rougher handling may be required.
10/26/2015 10:36:19 AM: Alright I need to appeal to the submissive ladies out here to explain something to me that I suspect I know the reason for but want some form of confirmation: So often I will see a new member here and reach out to them, perhaps start a conversation and they will go completely dark in a relatively short period of time, removed from the site entirely. My speculation runs anywhere from being bombarded by an insane number of messages and in some cases men who also fit that insane deion... to possibly believing they have found a connection sufficient to allow their new potential dom to force them out of the available pool. To the first situation I remain dismayed and aggravated to be associated with this low caliber of so-called dominants and to the second case I have always taken the stance that if I am sufficient enough to satisfy a submissives needs then no other manner of suitors will dissuade her from continuing our association so only their own insecurity would make them demand their sub inactivate her profile. I welcome comments to all of the above.
