Sub guy. Interested in dominant women for casual play or more.

My interest in and experience with femdom/bdsm goes back well over 25 years now, this is not something I've been curious about for a couple of years.
I'm open to plenty of types of play outside of my own preferences and while I don't like pain I am capable of handling some.

Outside of kink I'd like to think I'm an intelligent and healthy person, capable of holding a conversation.
Besides my native Dutch, my English is very good and I can understand and make myself understood in German.

In my daily life I'm not really dominant or submissive, or you could say I am both. It's a glass half full half empty kind of thing.
From early childhood there have been situations where I lead or take the lead from someone and also plenty where I am content just following. To limit myself to just a specific one seems very limiting and not smart or efficient.
As a sub guy trying to blend in to society that has probably helped me immensely.

That being said in play I am always submissive.