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SlightlyEvil
| Hetero Male, 38, Kitchener Ontario, Canada
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Just for the record, Im not looking for a mindless doormat. I dont want a sub or slave who cant engage me in at least some sort of conversation. I find it highly frustrating if I ask you what you like and your reply is I dont know...whatever you like. I need to feel your passion for this. I need to know you truly get off on kinky, dirty, extreme, intense and taboo. Im not saying it always has to be extreme I believe in balance. But at least be able to tell me what excites you and what draws you into this life. Be able to express yourself...thoughts, feelings, fears, emotions and desires.
Im a 39m dominant from Ontario. Ive been into bdsm for about 18yrs and in that time, Ive learned a lot but of course, there is still so much to learn and experience. Im into a great many things from the more tame to the more taboo and extreme. I would love to find a smart, sexy, sub or slave who absolutely craves and adores being used, abused, humiliated and degraded. Of course, those terms mean different things to different people, so until we chat, theres no way to know if our interests and desires match up. Im open to meets and playing but what I really seek is a subslave for a 247 ltr. However, for the time being, I would consider some online chat and casual meets.
On the vanilla side of things, I work full time, have a home, car, great family and friends and enjoy either going out or staying in. Im a nerd and Im proud to admit it. I love computers, video games, sci-fi, fantasy, home theater, technology and more. I build computers as a bit of a hobby too.However, Im not all nerd. I play softball, golf and I enjoy snowboarding. I love to go out and party with friends and Im also content to spend a quiet night watching some good tv or a movie. As I said before, I believe in balance...so I think for a true bdsm relationship there also has to be a vanilla connection. )
I suppose thats all for now. Talk to you soon!
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5/25/2015 10:12:29 PM: Our experiences are what brought us here. Some good and some bad but all parts of who we were, who we are and who we will become. We are the sum of these people and events. We might sometimes wish we could go back and do things differently but it is our failures, weaknesses and struggles that ultimately make us stronger.Quietly take pride in all you have survived and achieved, draw strength from that which tested your limits and above all, never underestimate yourself! You are perfect in your imperfection.
3/31/2015 11:31:55 AM: I am...I am darkness, I am lightI am laughter in the night.I am rage, I am calmI am thunder at break of dawn.I am twisted, bent and brokenSee my eyes, feel words unspoken.I am sadness, I am joyBoth a man and little boy.I chew you up and then I swallowI am full but still feel hollow.I am balance, right and wrongBlack and white, sword and song.There is no light without the darkThere is no soul without a spark.There is no beauty without beastEmbrace your dark to bring you peace.
2/13/2015 10:41:42 AM: I've seen many subs say it on here...intelligence is sexy. Proper grammar and grasp of the english language is a huge plus. The same goes in reverse; I adore a sub or slave with an exceptional vocabulary and great language skills. I'll also admit there is something inherently sexy about a woman who's smart, loves taboo, knows she really shouldn't do it but does anyhow because she craves that filthy feeling. ;)
12/21/2013 10:02:10 AM: We wear our masks each day
to conceal the thought and feeling deep within.
We hide the innermost portions of our soul;
fearful that the world will not understand.
We dread our insecurities.
We shy from our dreams,
terrified we might try and fail.
Another day of letting others see only the mask;
for the mask protects us.
It shields us from judgement,
it exists as a fragile shell to deflect that which we most fear.
That those around us might ridicule what we hold dear.
We aren't strong or brave enough
to be the person we know lives deep inside.
And so once again, the mask is donned
To protect us for another day
against the harsh realities....
of life.
2/3/2013 7:41:11 AM: Recently installed a new hard drive and re-installed Windows. And strangely, now my private chat works again. I wonder how long that will last...
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