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lostinthehedges
Pan Male Dominant, 59, Central, Texas 
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lostinthehedges

I've been around this site for many years, and I've heard the horror stories and even had a few of my own.  Not really looking for anything but friendship.

It's been more than four years since I lost my wife, who was also my collared slave, to cancer.  It took a long time for me to stop mourning, and a little longer than that to find something within myself that desired and needed companionship and connection again.

I have spent more than 30 years around and connected to some aspect of D/s culture.  I know that I have not done it all, but what I haven't done, I've likely seen and can comment on.


I am reasonably intelligent, open-minded, employed, thoughtful, well-spoken, and have a sneaky sense of humor. I am comfortable with geeks, freaks, and those who tend to transcend what is considered the normal nomenclature of societal mores.  I don't judge people based on their kinks, but rather, on the contents of their character.  Il like to listen and learn, but can be passionate and extremely verbal on subjects I care about.

I'm not everyone's cup of tea, which is good because I prefer a cup of strong coffee leavened by a generous portion of cream.  I work hard, trying like most Americans to pay off debt and still live a comfortable life.  After losing 25 pounds through hard work and exercise, I recently joined a gym trying to lose my middle-age waistline and gain some much needed muscle.

I was raised a Virginia gentleman, and continue to believe that kindness, compassion, and, yes, even chivalry is not a forgotten concept.  I am somewhat of a romantic, and yes, I do like cuddling, kissing, and gentle caresses as part of any relationship I'm in.  I have been called Sir, Master, and Daddy as part of the intimate relationships I've been a part of.   They are not required or necessary for you to talk to me.

I'm fairly well traveled for someone who has absolutely no facility with foreign languages.  Most of the U.S., Mexico, Canada, the Philippines, England, Paris, Rome.  I like to drive.  I like to see new places.  I enjoy expanding my horizons.


I remain here on this site because of the good people I've met in the past and those I still hope to meet in the future.  I hope if anything I have written here resonates with you, you'll drop me a line.  Until then, take care and be well.

 

 

Lost in the hedges
I've strayed too far from the edges
That define what is dreamed of and real

I'm at the top of the downside
And things are trending toward landslide
And I can't find my dive bomber zeal

Life was there for the taking
But I spent too much time braking
'Til even stopping is a dubious thought

But I'll remember on the way down
All the times I was your clown
So when I crash it won't all be for naught.

2/14/2024 6:58:19 AM: I think the question that I've been asked the most since my return is 'Why are you here?' or its somewhat adjacent cousin 'What are you looking for?' To be honest, I've been missing a part of myself that I haven't engaged in some time.  I've missed the community, the wide variety of ideas, the flavors and textures and smells of kink and fetish.  I've missed the conversations, the munches, the play parties, the dungeons.  In short, I've missed each and every one of you, even though we've never met. So I'm back, for now at least.  Don't be shy to strike up a conversation.  After all, friendship is a great place to start.

2/11/2024 3:04:43 AM: These are the days of small victories.  A1C near normal? Check. Blood pressure under control? Check. Flexibility increasing?  Check. Genetics and poor maintenance may have put me in a hole, but I'll be damned if I have to stay there. 'Get busy livin' or get busy dyin'.' I've made my choice. I may struggle,  but it's a struggle I can live with.

2/8/2024 8:37:46 PM: I was going back through my journal entries from when I actually wrote in my journal years ago, and I was amazed by some of the words I had written back then. Where did that guy go?

2/5/2024 5:27:34 AM: It was extremely nice to receive some greetings and well-wishes after logging on for the first time in several years. To everyone, I wish safe travels, calm seas, beautiful sunrises and sunsets, and pleasure beyond your greatest expectations.  Be well!

2/5/2024 4:22:26 AM: I don't know what led me to log in today.  I've spent a long time away from here and I guess I was just curious to see if anything had changed.

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