Update: Mainly looking for new friends right now as im probably too busy to give a big amount of time to BDSM and i don't like to rush into this without knowing the person first. Also im not looking for a pro Domme that requires a tribute, Not because i have a problem with it at all, because i want to find a woman who just does this for the pleasure and satisfaction a submissive brings her. If something unexpected pops up my situation may change.

Well first I hope people read this which seems to be a thing around here. I'm submissive, obviously, I have had sexually submissive desires for a very long time it took quite a while for me to be Ok with it but now I dont think its a big deal just something that i like and have fun with thats all. Whilst I do have many little kinks that i love,see list, and get off on the reality is that all of them come from one overriding "dominant" fetish which is................ obedience to women. I LOVE being obedient to women i dont really know why, i just loving do what girls tell me lol, there is something incredibly erotic about giving every ounce of my will to a girl and seeing the pleasure she gets from owning my body and more specifically my mind.

My understanding of femdom might differ a little from the atypical whips, chains and leather etc. I consider myself submissive to women and whilst that may require me to be bound or punished in the conventional sense i also consider laying on the sofa holding her hand whilst she strokes my hair to be an equally submissive act. Having done some reading it seems that the term "loving female authority" best defines what i seek from a domme if you find out my little kinks you'll notice many are quite "soft" dominance things like: "being kissed softly on the forehead" or "being someone's personal snuggle toy" whilst these are perhaps not conventional notions of bdsm i consider them to be just as important because more than anything its the connection i seek. The submissive male all to often it seems, chases a fantasy of an evil man hater who fucks them and keeps them in a cage never to cum again and whilst that's fun for a while who would want to live like that forever?. To me a Domme should love her submissive he should be her most cherished possession, even more than shoes!, she should love him as much as he loves her so if you are a woman and you contact me i will be polite but as to my submission and obedience that will only go to a woman who will love and cherish that submission.

Some Interesting websites:

*http://femaleledrelationships.net/

*http://www.femdomromance.com/  

So what am i looking for? well to begin with some nice kinky friends and people to talk to and learn from but in the long term I'm looking for a dominant woman, around my own age.I would like to be in a long term relationship with that woman, where we would have the opportunity to build up the trust that is so necessary to have in a relationship of this kind. With that i would have no problem surrendering my control to her, knowing that she would look after me, care for me, and help me to become a better person. In return for her care, guidance, affection, and dominance, i would give her my mind, body, and soul. i would be her loyal pet, to toy with whenever and however she liked. she would receive my loyalty, honesty, and obedience.

Finally as well as all that kinky stuff im also a regular person and can be found doing the usual stuff white middle class people with too much time on their hands do, you know the stuff, so im happy to just talk about things outside this lifestyle i especially love reading, music, and cinema so message me if you want to know more.

To any institution / persons / whomever , you do not have permission to use my pictures, videos, or any personal information in any form or way at any point in time for any research or anything of the sorts. If you do / have already , legal action will be taken. Consider yourself warned!