WHO I AM
I've been called a playful sadist by some of my friends and I will own that. I enjoy nothing more than goofing around and giving out pain, in an almost casual way. Someone yelping in pain brings me a simple almost child like joy, so be warned if you are around me.
I'm basically an introvert that does a good job, most of the time, of putting on the mask of an extrovert.
As for other things I'm a gamer and sci fi geek. That by no means defines everything about me but it's a beginning. I'm a thinker and an activist at heart, who has way to much time to think and not enough time to be an activist for multiple reasons.
While I call myself a sadist I am also a dominant. I say sadist primarily because of emotional energy, for me being a sadist is easy it is something I have to expend emotional and mental energy to moderate and control. While I have a dominant personality most of the time for me to be that takes emotional and mental energy to do well.
A good friend of mine and sometimes play partner, a known light bottom, described me recently as playing on the edge of yellow. Those of you who don't know me may go well what does that mean. When I play with someone I tend to push their limits, thus the edge of yellow, I will push up to that point and when I hear that word back the intensity off. For me this also gives me the ability to play with bottoms of all types.
As a top I lean to impact play. I absolutely adore using whips on people and canes are a close second. Also for a person I feel connection to I am a rope top.
WHAT I'M LOOKING FOR
On D/s, I tend to be old school and take D/s very seriously. I live the lifestyle 24/7, and thus anyone I enter that type of relationship with should understand that D/s is not a game and is not play, but is a life choice for me.
Currently, I have a 24/7 D/s relationship, but I am looking for other relationships that can fit many different styles, from simple play partners to another serious romantic relationship. I am available to play and date on my own or, with the right individual, with my partner. In fact, my partner is typing this to my dictation right now, so it's all good (OK--said partner added that line on her own, but it made him laugh).