1/26/2018 6:34:34 PM: A friend of mine showed this to me and said this was what his girl sent him when they first met.  They have a wonderful relationship, and I feel it is in line with what I am looking for.  I have no idea where it origionated.    'MY SERVITUDE CREED'A Slave Is Not A Slave Because She Wants To Be Beaten...Hurt...Brought To Tears, That Is A Masochist. A Slave Is Not A Slave Because She Wants To Be Controlled...Sit..Stand...Serve. That Is A Submissive. A SLAVE IS A SLAVE BECAUSE SHE ONLY DESIRES TO BE OR BECOME WHATEVER HER OWNER NEEDS HER TO BE WHEN HE NEEDS HER TO BE IT. THIS IS HER ONLY TASK...HER ONLY DUTY. FROM THIS ONE THING...MAKES ALL ELSE POSSIBLE.This was his response.  I DO NOT WANT YOUR LOVE OR LUST. I DO NOT NEED YOUR FAITH OR TRUST. OVER TIME THESE WILL FADE AND TURN TO DUST. JUST SUBMIT TO ME.' (Words of wisdom from OrpheusIf you identify with this, . and are ready  to be this, you know what to do. 

10/15/2017 6:39:48 PM: Are you missing that person in your life to complete you?  If the answer is yes, and you know you need to be taken in hand and have an owner in your life, we should talk. But, I wont take it from you, it must be freely given. If age and looks are the first thing you worry about, we have no reason to talk . I am 61, large and your age and appearance, as long as you are feminine in appearance(and a female from birth) looks are not as significant as the inner you. This is more than just submissive or slave. BDSM is great and a part of this but in the scope of it all, BDSM is just a part . this is real life and doesn't get turned off when you walk out of the bedroom. This more than just a 50's style relationship. If you don't realize your place is on your knees, with all that you are, offered and available, and don't KNOW that giving all you are to the one that makes you feel complete , secure and happy...then you are probably looking for someone else. Masochists do get extra bonus points. a LOT of them. Based on the type of responses I have been getting, it seems I need to be more specific. If you are married, in a relationship of any type, living with,going with, have a boyfriend(or girlfriend unless she is bi and submissive, we can negotiate...lol), or any other form of comittment with any one, then do not respond to this ad. I dont do cheaters,flings,wannabe's, or people that do not have enough control over their own minds and bodies to have anything to actually give to another person. You cant offer a part of yourself you dont actually have.I want the kind of relationship that you can't wait to get home to, to share your day.. and cant wait to wake up next to, just so you can hear what is on their heart and thoughts.

9/17/2017 5:06:03 PM: Every man is born as many men, but dies as a single one, shaped by his choices in life. Where you are now, I once was.Where I am now, one day you will be. And I will be here waiting. It is not about how others look at me. It is about how I look at myself.

11/10/2016 9:46:08 AM: One does not have to be lost to be found. She just has to know that where she is , is not where she needs to be. If she is not on her knees before her owner, then she is neither lost nor found, she just is. Searching for that which completes her.From the Dom point of view , he is not on his knees. but standing above. If she is not found ,to be on her knees before him, He can be equally as lost. Once he finds her, he must have the answers for her , to earn her trust, her belief,balance her world as well as his. Which leads to this quote..... How does a master center a slave? Being centered is a Zen term that means a person is balanced, calm, healthy, peaceful, grounded, nourished. Some might see it as a relaxed state, one of calm, creative, full of the realization of being well-off, in communion with one's self and one's environment. . . How does a master center a slave? He does it by creating, with his slave, the right relationship, that is, one in which each is free to be him or herself; one with openness, honesty, and clarity of purpose. Centering comes from having a clear focus, mutual support, encouragement, and purpose. This is of course a quote from ~ Jack Rinella in SM Leather But why rephrase when he has said it so well.... The same with Anais Nin I do not want to be the leader. I refuse to be the leader. I want to live darkly and richly in my femaleness. I want a man lying over me, always over me. His will, his pleasure, his desire, his life, his work, his sexuality the touchstone, the command, my pivot. I don’t mind working, holding my ground intellectually, artistically; but as a woman, oh, God, as a woman I want to be dominated. I don’t mind being told to stand on my own feet, not to cling, be all that I am capable of doing, but I am going to be pursued, fucked, possessed by the will of a male at his time, his bidding~ Anais Nin quotes You must know who you are , to be able to find the one that completes you and makes you both whole... and be able to face that reality.... Be honest about who and what you need... a pale imitation is but a lie.... Life is full of Liars....

11/2/2016 10:26:01 PM: The Devil leaned close to me and said' you are not strong enough to withstand the storm.' I looked the Devil in the eye and said ' I Am THE STORM.'