Whats really interesting for me is that Ive always been saying to people they should live their own life, do what they want to do, follow their heart, stop listening to others, and stop listening to what society tells them they should do. And yet Ive been choosing to get involved in relationships that are what society tells me they should be. My practices have been inconsistent with my teachings. When people start following their heart, they start moving away from the restrictions of a taboo-based society, and more into the path of what their true nature really is. When they listen to their heart, their authentic life starts to become available to them. There is freedom in living how you feel is most natural for you, and there is slavery in allowing a society to dictate who you should be, and what you should be doing. Consider exploring how you can follow your heart. I can guarantee you that it will change your life. Ive always been into it in fantasy going way back, and in practice taking what I could, playing around the edges of vanilla relationships. What Ive come to realize about myself is that I cannot be happy without a strong Ds element in my lover. I feel too deeply with it for me to try to patch together a relationship, no matter how loving, without having it. So, realizing that I got involved. Started on a path to become the kind of man who can be trusted to Top a woman cleanly and with passion, and tried to find partners for whom my roles, fantasies, my dominant and sadistic nature is not an undesirable or merely tolerated inconvenience, but an asset, something prized and sought. What else you may want to know about Me Friendly, adventurous, fun loving, calm, hate comfort zones, wicked sense of humor, well balanced in my views.