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aphroditerising2
Hetero Female, 56, Atlanta, Georgia 
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aphroditerising2
It has been some time since I have revisited my profile, but I feel the need to do so now to clarify some things.

The pic is me and is current. Some of us over 50s actually are in shape. I am cynical about cowardly men who send me notes (and simultaneously block me) alleging that the pic is 20 years old. NOT. To such men, and any others...here is the challenge I am totally up to SKYPE verification. If youre not, please dont contact me. Now that thats out of the way....


My draw here remains as it has always been. I love being the girl , and being able to be vulnerable. I get there with a guy who builds my trust, earns my respect and provides the emotional safe place for me to let go. He does these things by according me respect, being sufficiently self confident himself that he can let me be who I am...I will be anyway. And when he does these things, he will notice my growing confidence to give over the helm at times, and concomitantly, my deep appreciation for the safety and protection and relief from being able to do that. My gratitude for that understanding is beyond words, and my demonstration of that gratitude is unmistakable.


So, I have discovered that I enjoy sexual submission, the physical aspects of it, but mostly the head space with a man who is in sync with my thinking. I love the exploration of that line between sensual painpleasure breast and nipple play, anal sex, bondage including predicament bondage, delayed and forced orgasms, discipline strictly in the sexual play sense, king, etc.


There is a true magic for me when I am with a man who understands that I am his equal, and that there is a joy, a primal passion, need and satisfaction, when I can be the girl, and feel his greater strength and protection. In my vanilla world I am a competitor and leader I operate largely in a mans world in business in the US and abroad I am always the girl. But I never dumb down, nor tolerate disrespect. Never. I am not disrespectful to others, and do not accept disrespect back. Being dominant is never license to be a jerk. Actually, it is the opposite.


And as a woman who takes the high road, who goes out of her way to allow another to save face even in circumstances in which another person has dug themselves deep, who is analytical, who is relentless in solving problems and coming up with creative solutions, who is tireless in pushing for understanding and communication...simply I expect no less. Especially with someone with whom I will let down my guard, to whom I will show the deepest parts of me, reveal my vulnerabilities, and whom I will allow push me to the edges and over my comfort lines, allowing him to challenge me perhaps in ways I might stop short myself. It is a sacred place for me.


And when I can relax in the arms of a man who sees all of me, the smart chic, the relentless warrior type, the competitor, the momma bear who nurtures and protects, the adventurer, and then also always the primal woman who loves being, needs always to be, the girl, the intensely sexual female being, I am just so very appreciative. And I show it. I love that look my lover gives me when he is reveling in my sexual submission, understanding the combination of my strength and independence and that I am totally turning it over to him.


I am very well educated, very well traveled, and pretty well versed in ds. In my vanilla world I am definitely an alpha sort...in control, iron willed, with fire in the belly, and an indomitable spirit to match. I am an athlete and an adventurer. I am not a submissive. But I choose to submit to a man whom I trust. For that man, I love being his girl, his sweet thing. There is that magical head space that is the allure to me, the combination of total respect and mutual adoration of course, but where I can feel that relief of just being vulnerable. The biggest turn on is being pushed, and ultimately feeling the safety of one who wont let me fall. What allures me most is the idea of each of us actualizing our core selves, with the caring and support of one another, through our growth together.


I do not buy into ds which is merely an excuse for unilateral, selfish, self-centered behavior. A guy calling himself a dom does not make him one, nor would that automatically engender my submission. It is all in behavior, starting with mutual honest communication, exchange of needs and desires, and real, not hollow interest in knowing mine and knowing me. After all, if I am going to turn over power, then I need to know that he has both the ability and desire to know me and catch me. A man who thinks that he is entitled to make demands on me out of the box, or that I would submit under those circumstances, should probably move on. It will be an exercise in frustration for both of us.


I am great fun and funny, love to have fun, creative, exploratory, playful, perceptive, and seductive. I am attracted to a man with similar qualities, who is self-confident and expansive, and wants to be with a woman with a razor sharp wit, intelligence, confidence, athletic and who enjoys the mutual sexual tease. A man who not only keeps up, but can take the lead without being a jerk, who can master himself, and who appreciates the combination of a strong woman who loves to sexually submit will get my attention.
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 Mt Airy, North Carolina