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 Couple, 55/54, Stroudsburg, Pennsylvania 

A few things2understand before you contact me, profile is a mascot to our  DUNGEON-HOME.


(Des~cription Revised 2017-06-19)




1. WHAT WE ARE:


"Poly-Pansexual Lifestyle DUNGEON-HOME".




2. OUR FOUNDATION:


IS based on D/s, M/s TPE power exchange.


Don't know what that is, look it up.




3. BDSM



  • BDSM IS incorporated into our activities.

  • We are NOT a "DO-ME" place.




4. GETTING LAID:Looking


Looking to get laid? Don't bother writing.




5. OPENINGS:


We are looking for 2  live-in and a few full/part time


service oriented slaves


Play comes as a by product of the relationship.




6. APPLYING:


If interested in applying for a position, you will


need to send:  "a submissive resume" as a part of


your application.


Have you ever written a job resume?  WE offer much.  


If you don't think it is worth a 1-2 hour investment


of your time there are others ahead of you.




7. CONTACT PROCEDURE:


After a few CS Messages/E-mail exchanges, the


next step will be a phone call.  If you can not give


me your phone number and name, how can we


believe you can serve *real time*???




8. PAGENTRY:  


If your main concern is what I look like more than what my abilities are, then I am NOT interested.  


---> The subs n' slaves are suppose to make themselves look HOT!




9. ONE-ON-ONE:


If you are looking for one-on-one time with me, not happening.  This is a POLY DUNGEON-HOME.  POLY means that you prefer having


Relationships with multiple people here.




10. WE are PANSEXUAL:  



  • All orientations are welcomed.

  • To be part of our leather family needs 2B pansexual.

  • Means Open & Accepting of all sexual orientations.




11. FIRST CONTACT!


When writing to me the first time, take the time


to introduce yourself and then answer the


following questions:


a.  What is D/s?


b.  What is M/s?


c.  What do the letters BDSM stand for?


(hint there are THREE meanings NOT two).


d.  What does it mean to be pansexual?


e.   What is the difference between a:


sub vs. slave?






Look forward to seeing your compliance & getting


it received promptly!  Thank you!






MISTRESS BITCH, QUEEN &


DUNGEON-HOME alpha slave Mona


"FemDomme Castle Dungeon Society"  


Lifestyle DUNGEON-HOME & Leather Family














BELOW:  2017-05-25  BDSM TEST RESULTS for:


"DUNGEON-HOME  alpha slave mona"




1. 100% Exhibitionist




2. 100% Pet




3. 100% Slave




4. 100% Switch




5. 100% Masochist




6. 100% Primal (Prey)




7. 100% Ageplayer




8. 100% Degradee




9. 100% Voyeur




10. 100% Sadist




11. 100% Rope bunny




12. 100% Experimentalist




13. 91% Degrader




14. 90% Submissive




15. 89% Boy/Girl




16. 78% Non-monogamist




17. 67% Owner




18. 57% Rigger




19. 54% Primal (Hunter)




20. 45% Daddy/Mommy




21. 36% Brat




22.   7% Dominant




23.   0% Vanilla




24.   0% Master/Mistress




EXTRA CREDIT:  To demonstrate your M/s TPE IQ,


write a couple of sentences of analysis on what


does this test result tell you about alpha slave mona?  


Will provide detailed response.




LAST REV:  Des~cription revised 2017-06-19



If you do not get an email back from me, you most likely did not follow directions.  If I responded even though you did not follow directions it probably was your lucky day. Play the lottery.

MB

Finally got the profile rewritten  after it disappeared.  It has to be tweaked a bit.  It's better than a blank one. 

MB

Happy Holidays 

Remember it is not about the gifts.

It is being with family.

Remember the reason for the season. 


From Our Home to Yours 


MB & MG



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BullMeister BullMeister 
I went for a new tattoo yesterday. It's a straight razor, just about full size with a red grip. The razoe is opened a quarter of the way. The blade has a 2 dimesional abstracted eyeball on it and there's a banner wrapped around the razor. The banner says "SUFFER WELL" It's on the underside of my right forearm. I'm right handed and that's My floging/whipping arm.  Sadly, My local tattoo artist is retiring. I have one more appointment with him next week and then that's it. He's done more than half My tattoos and I will miss our connection. And now I'm feeling even more like one of the last of the Old School Dinosaurs.
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 NeverEasy 
Well, this is kind of odd:   When you're not logged in to Collarspace, you see, of course, a different menu down the left hand side. I played with a few of the buttons, and with "what can you do if you're not logged in". Turns out, you do almost everything except send/read mail, and of course, you can't modify your profile (but, seriously, who does that, since the "approval" process can sometimes take what seems like decades). But, the weird thing I'm talking about in this journal is: when you're not logged in, some of the buttons on the left side menu are, naturally, missing. Journal is still there; you can read people's journals. I'm not sure if that's a security issue or not. But, what I'm talking about is a button that IS there when you're logged out, but ISN'T there when you're logged in: "Directory".  It appears to be an alphabetic list of every CS name - AND - if you click on one, you see their profile. But get this: The picture is wrong! I know, because I looked at mine. Very, very strange.
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 LadyCharybdis 
The last time I tried to update my age, my profile was "pending approval" for 6 months. I was born the year when Clinton was elected president the first time. Do the math, or don't. I'm not locking my profile to save the mental math effort
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Domforcyber Domforcyber 
Without updating my profile i just want to state at this point of time im looking for hypnosis subjaspects to experiment on. 
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 ItsMaster 
A lot of people are like a Pandora's box. They want to be opened and explored. Before any activities happen, a judgment call has to be made. Can they handle what they will find with in themselves. Things that are capable of doing are extremely addictive. To leave a person alone with a new addiction is cruel and typically causes them to go wanting in dangerous places. 
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 soveryshy 
I came across the final resting place of Dr Josef.  A love long lost.  Surrounded by peaks and music that strikes through the rafters.  Much like the ebb and flow conducted by Master Maestro. I wanted to dance.  Instead, I left a silent whisper there which will flutter around the Hall again. It feels very much like home but you know what they say..Home is where the heart is.  I'll stay a while.  It's beautifully decorated. 
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 dmstudio 
I see no reason not to be civil when I send someone a message.  If we met in a bar, I would not just grab you by the hair and drag you away - even if that is what you want... I know we do not want any legal entanglement!
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 Whodareswins2021 
Part 2 “That is correct. If you hesitate or say no I will banish all sexual uses for a fortnight. Do you understand?” “Yes……..I don’t want you stop anything Sir,” almost sobbing, as you desperately want to obey. “Well, you better just say ‘yes’ to all questions then!” We drive to the shops and park outside an old looking jewellery shop. We get out of the car and I take your hand and walk you in through the door. We look very ‘normal’. There is an old woman behind the counter; she is about sixty five, very stocky, square German like facial features, large stomach, bottom and massive sagging breasts. She has grey hair held up in a bun. “May I be of help Sir?” Not even acknowledging your presence. “Yes Madame, I would like to buy a broach for this… lady here.” “Certainly,” she says as she turns around and reaches for a large old box full of broaches. “That one is in the style I would like for her?” “Yes.” The matronly looking woman gestures for you to lean over so she can put it on. It suddenly adorns upon you that there is a piece of white ‘lint’ where the broach will be placed. The woman picks up the broach and with her left hand attempts to flick the ‘lint’ off. Naturally it doesn’t move. She then picks it up with her fingers and attempts to discard it. Your whole udder wobbles. She then has a closer inspection and realizes it goes through the jumper. She smiles, and pulls it really hard. You groan. “It appears Sir that your partner has a piece of wool attached to her private parts. I think she is playing some sort of sick game with me Sir, and I’m not impressed. Are you playing a game with me  lady?” You hesitate, “Yes.” You freeze. What have you done? “Well, I thought so. If you were my daughter and we were back in Germany I wouldn&r…
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Byrdie Byrdie 
I recently downloaded an app called Big. I typed a word into it, took a screenshot of it, and used it as my phone's lock screen:   laryngitis   So, no coffee dates for a while.
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Badkip1012 Badkip1012 
Merry Easter or is it happy Easter  or 
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 msdenise216 
I Know You Are Out There . . . Somewhere. #7simplewords  
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 ItsMaster 
Your on a journey of self exploration. Yes, you can act a certain way to draw attention to your self but to form an attachments to what you are not does not help that attachment the ability to last a life time. There are those who play the part and those who live the life. There is a reason why some cry ugly for they have taught themselves to attempt to be everything to everybody. You have to be hard on them to being out who they are.  Remember solving people's issues does not equal having a great relationship.  The best orgasm kink pale against a great relationship.  I hope I never stop learning and growing.  Perfectly imperfect. Perfection need not apply.
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breaze1969 breaze1969 
Thought it was time to add something to my journal.  I seen someone had posted on here that they had taken a quiz, so I followed the link and took it also.  I think it is cute and fairly accurate. You Scored as SubmissiveSubmissive    89%Experimental     82%Masochist     79%Exhibitionist / Voyeur    68%Bondage     64%Degradation    20%Dominant     21%Vanilla     14%
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CowGurlJan CowGurlJan 
We had non BDSM people over for the weekend. I got to babysit the cutest six year old girl ever! We started making four types of finger sandwiches at around 11 AM and then dipped strawberries in chocolate. Next were the cookies and the scones. At 2:30 she offically invited her mother and Goddess Tabitha to join us for high tea. We sat in a circle, three adults with one child and one Barbie doll drinking tea and eating all of the goodies. BEST non sex or non BDSM weekend EVER! Life is amazing if you just take the time to enjoy it 
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 Bobbybans215 
I would like to take a Goddess out to eat. You know eat talk learn a littl about each other.
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worshipru123 worshipru123 
My level of commitment in a relationship is going to be based on proximity. If we don't live near to each other it will be less intense, less meanngful. It doesn't mean we can't have some level of friendship and interaction.
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 LatinMami215 
I feel i have to mention if you are not family oriented it will be a waste of both our time.
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MrKite MrKite 
I beleive all woman are submissive.  I beleive they are confused by mixed messages from family, friends and media.  I believe they have doubts about who they and and fears about getting it wrong.  I believe it is my role as a Dom to remove those doubts and fears and clear away the confusion.  Its been said many times, slavery will set you free.  With training a woman can hold her head up high knowng that her master has trained her in appearence, behavoir and thinking in such a way that she can be confident that she is pleasing to him.
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DommeMissX DommeMissX 
I love eating ass, rimming, pegging, prostate massage.  I LOVE cocks, the more the merrier.  A few fetishes: Natural bush (me and men) Cock worship *Raw sex, dripping of jizz Nipple suckling and biting ANR/ABF nursing fetish Edging and Tease * Because of the riskier nature of raw sex, I get tested regularly and am picky about sexual partners.  As such, I expect you to be as well.  (IUD in place so no one's getting pregnant)   THE ISSUE WITH LONG-DISTANCE... This is by NO WAY an exhaustive list, just some things to consider before you message me that you'd like to get to know me. If you live over 30 miles away, be prepared to send a message that includes addressing some of these things. Please...and thank you!! Let's talk about getting to know someone long-distance. I'm not talking about a partner that has moved, and temporarily you're needing to keep the relationship long-distance, I'm talking about establishing a new one...getting to know someone NEW that lives far away. On paper, I can understand that a great match for anyone may not be in their own city/town. And I can totally understand that many people feel that with today's technology, it is much much easier to get to know someone far away and they would be correct! With phone calls (yes just like the olden days, people still talk on the phone), with FaceTime/Skype and video chats, we can get a great sense of someone before we've met them in person! The issue for me is that I'm slightly on the demi-sexual side and so it is imperative to meet someone in person within a week or so of chatting because that's really the only way I'll be able to confidently say, "Oooo this is someone I think I would like to do stuff with naked." Clearly, this is problematic when considering someone out-of-town. Because of where I am in life as a parent (the last teen still 2 years away from college), where I am with work (small business owner that …
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ForcefulDutch ForcefulDutch 
I wonder why people write line after line to describe how people should contact them. (They are very very special) But forget to tell why they would be worth the trouble to do so. Zero info about themselves.  Would that fit narcistic behaviour?   This is such interesting place. Love it
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 ItsMaster 
Inspire it to serve better. Attempt to create better communication skills so that understanding can happen. 
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 LadyJordan 
Today is a day for jokes!!!
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 Arianaa 
The desire and passion that I feel belongs to You because You created and shaped them.
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 retiredsman 
i am learning more about tings i read and did'nt uderstand in profiles
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LadyAllure LadyAllure 
Humm, someone said it's working again 
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 quietsubmaleAZ 
I am submissive and definitely looking for a Dominant in general.  I would love to speak with more of you and expand my horizons and serve that special someone! I do have pics to share, just reach out and let's chat.
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cpotk cpotk 
Upcoming travel: Manchester and Bath, UK, and surrounding areas, June 2026. 
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 NeverEasy 
Some people here are crazy as fuck, and were that not to be the case, I think I'd let this account shrivel and die. Bring it!    
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 Rush21 
Update I am 57 years old gainfully employed looking for a partner or a really good friend. Safe sane and love to travel go to concerts fine dinning Las Vegas or go to the Beaches Florida is always calling my name.
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Popper79 Popper79 
I'm still in search of a Domme to share my life with. It's a long journey and I have not given up yet. I'm 46 now. I have gotten out of the feminization phase and moved onto improving my skills in life. I have a solid job and goid home. My profile picture might be a little old, but I have not changed. I still look the same. I wish you all the best in your searching. Feel free to reach out to me if I catch your eye. I'm always lurking and searching. It's easy to miss and potential oppertunity. 
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 Depravedpigslave 
There are days when this slave feels hopeful about the future, and days when it feels completely hopeless with a profound sense of loss. Today definitely falls in the latter category. it isn't exaggerating when it says that it has had thoughts of being dominated and/or being a slave to men for as long as it can remember. As it got older, those thoughts and feelings only intensified. In its 20's, it was able to experience that life when a Master allowed it the honor of being His slave for 6 years. Although it was only part-time, it was still a wonderful learning experience and the most fulfilling time of its life to this day. its service to Him was cut short when He moved to Europe for His job. He gave it the choice to go with Him and begin service to Him on a full-time basis, or to stay. Being so young and inexperienced at the time, it sadly chose to stay.  That decision has haunted it ever since. it will forever be grateful to Him for allowing it the privelege of being His slave. Despite that experience deepening its desire to be an owned slave, life had other plans for it. Now it sits here, full of regrets, sadness and that sense of loss it spoke of. it doesn't want to live this unfulfilled life it now finds itself in any longer. it desperately longs for that sense of purpose it had back in its 20's when it was His slave again. But as it gets older, those opportunities seem to grow fewer and further between. It gets harder and harder to hold out hope as the days go by. It's true what they say about youth being wasted in the young. 
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AsmodeusLilith61 AsmodeusLilith61 
It's been a long journey to get this point in the lifestyle.3O plus years and still counting.  Not here to play games or get our time wasted. That being said and to the point. We know how to use the hide and block buttons.  Had a profile on here way back in the day when it was collrme. Met a lot of interesting folks and met some not so deserving. We are looking for real life no online and live in.
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 Chastity4cocks 
I do keep seeing particular subs and trans who really do need locking lol (and more than 1 or 2 doms haha)
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littlerabbitgirl littlerabbitgirl 
What about this one?   I'm walking back to my car, after shopping at Walmart.  I parked way in the back, gotta get those steps. As I start to approach my car, you drive up right beside me, and pull me inside your van.  You park just a few spaces away.... 
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LE LE 
once again... 1. Read my profile before you write.  I'm not just a fetish , nor a fetish dispenser... I'm a person.  It pisses me off to be written to as just a 'type'.  2. Read my profile before yo write.  It says, don't just send an empty one liner that says nothing more than 'Hi'. 
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TotalOwnerforslave TotalOwnerforslave 
Reason vs Emotion Many answer My profile with uncertainty about what and who they are. A few have even suggested (demanded, can you believe?) I kidnap them, confine them, torture them until (guess what?) they become what they actually need to be: a total slave.  More frequently, the neophyte slave wants Me to convince their reasoning self that they actually need to be what their emotional inborn self wants and needs. Engaging in dialog with this group leads to exhaustion on My part and ultimate discovery by the struggling slave that “we do not fit” or “it can not quite give up its current existence.” They are trapped in their own internal conflict that I would be hard pressed resolve for them.  On the continuum of living the reality and harboring dreams, fantasies and in born desire those described above are in the middle. Probably, as might well be depicted under a bell curve, that would be the 80% occupying the center range. My guess is about 10% of those with inborn need to submit will live their lives, probably with nagging discontent and frustration, without ever confronting that need. It is the last 10% of the population that I want to find. This last little group are slaves that have accepted what they are. Most likely, if they think about why they are what they are, they will consider themselves ‘born slave.’ Probably only 5% of that 10% will successfully arrive for my inspection. So, in terms of what I do here, the slave the responding to My profile should not expect chat or kidnapping. But rather, be prepared to sacrifice enough to travel to Me for the possible start of a lifetime of what they were born to do: service.
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BlackTy4u BlackTy4u 
I am always on the lookout for those white fem submissive subs that live to please a dominant man. In my case a dominant black man. Dont be shy, come and say hi.
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 ItsMaster 
A session is like building a roller coaster. A life style is like building an amusement park.   
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 AutumnFires 
Some people have mentioned that my profile is showing as blacked out - unsure why so I'm going to attempt to post in this journal - hopefuly this works:   This is by no means meant to be a full picture, it's definitely an ever evolving living portrait - my hope though is that I can give you a little glimpse. It definitely seems like as every day goes by interests or "limits" seem to expand, go deeper, darker and grow more complex. I'm giving this my best shot though. This profile might be a little on the longer side so I'll give a short synopsis: Conservitive looking, clean cut and fit straight white male on the young-"ish" side - Educated, mature and sucessfull with a variety of vanilla interests. Seeking a long term though hopefully permanent and eventually live-in 24/7 TPE that leans toward the extreme side. Curious about the darker side of a no way out tpe agreement. Freightened but commited :) Fully Relocatable of course at my own expense. Able to travel frequently. Looking for real people not just fantasy play. About Me: On the surface I'm just your average normal straight white young urban professional. I earned my bachelors from a prestigious university in the northeast and then after a few years of trying different jobs and careers I found something that works for me. While I've come to learn that my mind is more on the analytical side, my college career focused on the social sciences and it filled me with a passion for debate and different ideas. I'm very fortunatei n that I have a very sucessfull career and at present am very comfortable. Everyday however, I wonder if that special someone is going to take it all away and force me into a life of sacrafice and servitude. To the outside world I'd probably be classified on the "alpha-ish" side of the spectrum. Interests: Recently on a typical weeknight I will probably be streaming a show on netflix while browsing the internet, catching up with friends, or working on some project around the hous…
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KandMcouple KandMcouple 
Just my philosophy   My husband is belittled kept in his place for his own good and my own pleasure. He or is a ward, a pupil, an infant, a sissy, a doll, a puppet, a pet, a toy, a plaything for a moment or a lifetime, as I so wish. He is a vulnerable yet potent creation of mine. I control and nurture him, as is my prerogative. My husband is enticed and regressed by me and transformed into a helpless and vulnerable state in my hands. My husband is physically, mentally, emotionally and sexually dominated by me. He is immobilized and incapacitated, disciplined and humiliated by me. He is made to submit to my will, my whim and my desire. My husband is stripped of his adult status and is laid bare by my natural seductive power and control. I utilize my manly wiles and charms to emasculate and disempower him for my benefit. His freedom of choice and movement is taken from him and he must do as told or suffer my displeasure. When I so desire, my husband is kept as a plaything in restraint, chastity, diapers and confinement. My husband has lost control of his most basic of functions of movement, feeding, toileting and sex. He is disciplined and punished when needed. Mocked, teased and cooed over, diapered at all times, displayed as a novelty, treated as a human toy for my entertainment when I'm in the mood. He is ashamed yet aroused at this humiliation and cruelty that he cannot stop. His inherent weakness is their sexual desire for seduction by his dominant and this is something I have perfected using against him. On the occassions I allow him out of his chastity device, his erect cock is the explicit manifestation of his desire that he cannot hide. I control his pleasure and pain, release and restraint, as I see fit. My husband has been made dependent on me for most everything. I do so love to tantalize and torment my playthings. I am very creative and cruel with my toys. My dominant friends...Capture their mind, restrain their body, pacify their spirit, contr…
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MistressZifra MistressZifra 
If you do not have time or the will to put time into communication, you certainly do not have time to serve me. This is reality not fantasy. Be real or be gone.
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VixenCherry VixenCherry 
When someone seeks, then it easily happens that his eyes see only the thing that he seeks, and he is able to find nothing, to take in nothing because he always thinks only about the thing he is seeking, because he has one goal, because he is obsessed with his goal. Seeking means having a goal. But finding means being free, being open, having no goal." -Herman Hesse
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trixietrixster trixietrixster 
IF YOU ARE A SOCIOPATH/PSYCHOPATH ... ya, uuummm, no ...   :)
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 mlk1974 
A month later I get an email i have to go to another work confrence.  This one is in Kentucky.  i get to the hotel, john was not included on this trip.  Im pretty sure i am safe.  the 1st day is friday, all goes well.  im in m room on friday night.  there is a knock at my door.  i answer it and its a currier with a certified letter.  WTF.  I sign for it and open it.  its from John.  he says there is a club like 2 blocks away that i will find fun.  I should go in a dress with no under clothes.  
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the1userve the1userve 
Is the world upside down or right side up? 
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 MaleSubToledo 
== Results from bdsmtest.org == 92% Submissive 85% Degradee 83% Rope bunny 74% Slave 70% Experimentalist 69% Exhibitionist 54% Primal (Prey) 43% Vanilla 32% Pet 29% Masochist 25% Boy/Girl 19% Switch 16% Master/Mistress 15% Non-monogamist 14% Daddy/Mommy 14% Rigger 14% Owner 13% Dominant 13% Voyeur 13% Degrader 12% Sadist 11% Primal (Hunter) 8% Brat tamer 8% Ageplayer 4% Brat
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 ItsMaster 
The things I do binds their's souls to me. So to say I am into one kink or another isn't quite correct. Kink isn't my goal. My life would be easier if it was. I walk the hard path. 
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Exoticpie2024 Exoticpie2024 
I am not your Chocolate Queen, Domme, Mistress, Baby, princess  etc. I don't know you. I don't do random terms of endearment when there is no relationship established. You may address me as Ms.cherry when messaging me. If you are a person under the age of 26  DO NOT. JUST DON'T. Refrain from messaging me about things you want to do to me, or things you want me to do to you.I DO NOT CARE. Keep your fetishes and imaginary expectations to yourself. People don't have to participate in your fantasy because your dick jumped at my photos. Thanks for he compliment 
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Elorin Elorin 
If you celebrate holidays by faith, secularly, or not at all, I wish you joy, peace, and happiest of memories.
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 PASENSUALDOM 
Lonely Widow Seeks.......... That was the profile caption, I read that before I read the email. That little voice warned me, it kept telling me, don't do it, you'll regret it. I listened to that little voice and replied back, that she seemed very nice and that I wasn't looking for any kind of relationship, and she could find much nicer guys on non sex sites.  She quickly responded she just wanted to make for lost time, and needed something physical.  I moved on to her pictures, a very slim, very toned mid-60's GILF. I ignored conventional wisdom and agreed to meet her. I continued fucking her a few times a year for a few years, after she got clingy, I backed way off. After ghosting her for over a year, she wanted to know why I was no longer sleeping with her.  I used kink as a crutch and told her I was in a relationship and exploring kink.  She wanted examples, , so I sent some pics of bondage, she said she was all in. Since that didn't work, I  I sent her pictures of watersports. I wasn't even into watersports I never actually got it, but again she was all in. Now I was curious, now I kinda wanted to do it.  So the next time I saw her, I led her into the bathroom put her on her knees in the shower and covered her in a golden shower. When I was done, she immediately started sucking. After a minute or two, I realized I wasn't quite done, so I worked up a little more, and no reaction, she just kept sucking. I started wondering if I even peed at all or if it was such a small amount she didn't notice. Now I was determined and managed a little more, this time I was sure I peed and I was sure she had to notice, but no reaction, she just kept sucking, didn't even break her pace.  I was now confused. Nothing was said about it, until I was getting up to leave, she asked where I was going, I said I have to pee before I get dressed.  She got out bed, got on her knees and said you can pee right here. I loved how that felt. It's just …
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YNGNEUK YNGNEUK 
To all have a very Happy Christmas and a prosperous New Year
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countrylifeDom countrylifeDom 
Very impressed that profile update took less than 10hrs.
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 XDom007 
Usually it takes months or longer to know someone who is actually willing to share about themselves. It could take longer if a person is not entirely open to sharing. If you are saying that you have this amazing magical power that enables you to know about the other person by reading the profile, the first email or the first few emails, gosh you are truly blessed no doubt BUT you are not for me. Dont even try and sure go ahead and use the block key if that satisfies your fragile ego. It only goes to show you do not have what it takes to try and know about another person let alone engage either online or in real life.  I can only pray for you, wish the best for you but you are NOT for me. This entry is not aimed at any one person or any experiences I have had on here. Just a reaction to some of the profiles I read on here.  
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 tymedwn1st 
This profile is a back up for tymemtme.  The tymemtme profile was blocked for several months, it has been restored.     I normally will not check this profile.  If you want to contact me please, go to tymemtme.   ty 
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Madametanya Madametanya 
What I have learned from messaging with Slave Masters who actually know the proper techniques for taking a person and transitioning them into a submissive, gay, loyal slave who is happy in it's new life of slavedom and has no thoughts or regrets for leaving it's previous life of freedom to domestically and sexually serve and service a Master as owned property. The Slave Master who knows how to dehumanize the slave-to-be uses sensory deprivation, hoods, and calculated pain with restraints and whippings and ass spankings to break the potential slave with feelings of hopelessness until the slave yearns for Master to teach it to be happy with calculated release from the pain ect and slave learns Master's Routine and Protocol. Once Master has made slave aware of it's postion to it's Master, then Master can begin Training slave to be a slave. slave now willingly accepts it owes it's care and existence to it's Master. slave is kept restrained but is not like a prisoner in jail or like when the Roman Empire took captured soldiers as slaves and treated them brutally. . The slave slowly learns it's function is to work to please and pleasure it's Master. slave will even learn to thank it's Master for the periodic whippings  and ass spankings  by sucking and servicing Master's Dominant Cock after each Whipping and Ass  Spanking as a sign Master is pleased to have a loyal slave.
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 mlk1974 
I walk across the hall and knock on his door.  he answers and I ask if its ok if we chat about his convention.  He chuckles and says yes its ok. he explains his is called a Munch. and tells me what it all entails.
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 ItsMaster 
I am a strong influence. It just my nature. Compartmentalizing relationships has never work well with me. How can one be passionate about a fractional person or a imaginary person.  
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 Rdhairedlass 
Please read this before you offer "to serve" a Dominant Woman. Watching you self-pleasure on cam is NOT service to anyone but you. Feel free to share your thoughts about this article.Serve, Service, Servitude?By MsLynBorrowed with Permission What do you mean when you offer to serve?What do you mean when you offer to be of service?What do mean when you offer yourself in servitude?Do the answers to these questions bring up visions of you being bound helplessly while being exquisitely tortured, teased to the verge of orgasm?Do you envision some Amazon Goddess sporting a huge strapon taking you anally?Do you envision yourself prancing around in some French Maid Costume and being asked to provide oral service to a Mistress?Do you envision some woman squatting over your helplessly bound body forcing you to serve her orally?Do you envision being put over her knee and spanked like a naughty little boy? Yes, nice visions aren't they? However, not one of those visions is the definition of serve, service, or servitude. Oh, I'm sure you consider them to be just that, but if you check your dictionaries you won't find any mention of French Maid Costumes or bondage or strapons or oral sex or any other fetish you may enjoy.In fact, you won't find any mention of fetishes at all in the definitions.Serve is defined as1. to work for, be a servant2. to act in a specific capacity3. to place food before, wait on4. to be of assistance to.Service is defined as1. the occupation or duties of a servant2. the act or means of serving3. duties pered as an occupation.Servitude is defined as Submission to master slavery.When you offer to serve a FemDom, what you are offering or should be offering is the surrender of your control. You should know her well enough to trust her with your life. When you offer your servitude to her, you are telling her that you trust her judgment, you trust her to keep you safe from harm, you trust her to know what is best for both of you, you trust her decisions and de…
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 propIIMSII 
i miss Sir i miss hearing my Dom's voice i miss seeing the times He was happy, before i was punished i miss wearing His marks. i miss everything about Sir
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slave4YouEastCoast slave4YouEastCoast 
My parents had things going on. Work. Life. And I had a room in the basement where I'd often entertain friends and two floors away from my parents.  So, naturally Daddy Dave and Daddy Steve -- a very hote muscular hung stud -- convinced me to sneak them in. A 50 + year old Daddy and sexy beefy 30-year old Daddy Steve would have been supicious if anyone noticed. But on the first night we tried, it was seamless. ANd some music went on. And I was used. Steve basically came and went after dark as he pleased, a few times he came with a guest around his age, hot, freaky and knowing they were helping to train me.  I licked assholes. I held cum in my mouth and called myself a slut or cum dump. I had sissygasms.  I was indeed born for this.
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UrPrettySissy UrPrettySissy 
Let's seeee.... okay. Ideal setup    Im looking for someone that is 1000% supportive of me and HRT.  I wish to find a place where I can mentally dissolve who I currently am and evolve into a genuine bimbo sissy trans doll. And yes I used sissy and trans in the same sentence. Is it possible.  Yes. Sissy referring to ones submissive girly play toy. And trans doll as in well. Me :). Petite smooth tight body.  Speaking of body. Let's talk about that.  So apparently I have an exotic one of a kind body .... I know right. Hard for me to believe it too :p. Anywho. I'm very very very great full for having it and would love to put it to use where I can generate climaxual pleasure for anyone. What do I mean by this ... well idk to be honest. But I'd like to have gym access and/or an encouraging person that help maintain the motivation to get as sexy and as feminine as I could get.  Minus the bottom surgery. Yes u read right.  Not going to do any cutting off down there. However. I am open to some body modz to a certain extent. Of course nothing deforming or any such thing. (Please don't ask what) if anything asking if I'm open too.. whatever ur kinky desire is. And I'll let u know if I'd be willing.  Anywho. Um so yes. I tend to be a little high on the kinky side.  Which is a very VERY Vague statement. However let's just say. I really really do truly enjoy seeing the satifaction one get from doing/not doing/ treating or being a certain way with me.  Again very vague not trying to get into detail just showing u the willingness I have to satisfy you. Umm so. With that been said.    I seek someone who will take me in own me collar me and use me for their twisted pleasure.  How far am I willing to go. Ask. Me. But it just how far am I willing to go lol. Ask me how do I feel about this or have u done things like that.  What about if we xyz. . But umm okk so yaw.  Truly one of a kind here. Appearley …
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nytekat nytekat 
Thing is?  I don't know what you're replying too.  I even know what the reply IS?  
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 ItsMaster 
Do I find crazy people or do I just make them? To be honest a bit of both.  Can you survive what I put you through and how will that affect you?  If i break walls and stop destructive coping behaviors, typical reaction is that, I will end up with a very clingy crying person.  I typically warn people what is coming up.  This typically scares most people.  Wounds heal, scars fade but emotional events typically last a lifetime.   
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oysterspearl oysterspearl 
Is it too much to ask a reader to respect the profile as written? No slaves means, gasp, no slaves. If I reject your advances, it is more than likely due to you not having a clue about what you read or caring to be the true sub you profess you are, dear boi.  I seek a dragon, not a newt.
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BlueEyezIrish BlueEyezIrish 
  I'm Feeling slutty
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wayward5oul wayward5oul 
It occurs to me that I have a bad habit of leaving my computer logged in to CS and walking away from my computer for hours at a time, sometimes even leaving for the day when I am logged on.  So it may seem like i am on here all day and even all night. Really I'm not.  But I can see how it may seem like that.   
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 pomonagirl 
So i spend some time in a very small, very esoteric BDSM chat room. i've been frequenting it off and on for maybe 5 or 6 years. It's had it's changes, like everything. Over the few years membership has dropped sharply...i figure a big reason is because of the rise of other chat platforms like KIK and Discord.    Anyways. i still spend some time there and this morning a familiar screen name popped up. A Domme who lives across the country, who used to run her own room there in the chat, which was dedicated to discussion of topics relating to BDSM and Fetish. A person with a positive energy, lots of knowledge from in-person, first hand experiences.    In a nutshell: a breath of fresh air in the oftentimes strange world of chat rooms.   It was great to see her there and have the chance for a brief, but lively discourse about the changing "community", different national parties/conventions, some pros and cons of pick up play.    It reminded me WHY i first logged on to fetlife, and why i first logged on to that chat room. To gain knowledge, to hear about others' experiences, to share some of my own. To get real, first hand knowledge from people who have been there and done that. To not feel so alone in a world which judges and ostracizes us. 
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 Fng1775 
New to the bdsm lifestyle and exploring.
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 SplendidSub 
This journal entry was out of date. Trying to delete it. .
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 GeneticWinner 
#PureBlood ONLY.  I'm not going to go NEAR some worthless braindead lefty who shoots themselves full of bioweapon agents that the MANUFACTURERS won't go near, and are statistically likely to die or become so fucked up they pray for it, within two years!  Enjoy your HIV from Pfizer, cancer from Moderna, et all heh. Instead I'll wait until all you "govern me harder daddy"-types have killed yourselves off, if I have to.  After all I'm not even 50, look mid-20s, and genetically can hit over 100 without breaking stride... I've got ALL the time, lol.
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 akyaw 
Dear special one,   Let me speak to your surrendering heart and soul as it's what excites me to receive replies from.   How i see you?   I see you as a busy woman, a high achiever a mind filled with thoughts and a day filled with tasks, busy just being busy... And a soul longing to surrender and a mind wanting to be blank, a heart to feel guided and everything is in control, a body that feels wanted inside out... But how!   How i see myself?   A dominant with a curious mind who likes to be in control, that enjoys getting to know you and guiding you, to slowly cover you with my dominance blanket that you feel safe under that you just flow and surrender...   How i see the dynamic as it's called?   A journey where deep connection is built that requires patience and communication and slow steps to build deep trust to be able to enjoy it completely physically and mentally.   I don't know if what i am saying makes sense to you or not!   But i get my pleasure from earning the state of that dominant man you look up to with your wide eyes and want to please and surrender to...   How i do it?   I like to get to know you inside out, exchange on a daily basis as i break you down into small pieces, remove bad habits and add new ones , make sure to build you right as you report back. I like to make us enjoy it as we do , to tickle your mind before your body, to make sure you are high with pleasure at times and flowing through your day because of me.   On the side i like to edge you, spank you, dress you, micromanage you, hold you accountable, punish you...   If any of this makes sense or makes you excited or even wet! Write a "dear sir" and send it then write your reply.   Regards, Sir M
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petpoonswe petpoonswe 
Locktober hasn't started right, as usual. Maybe I could do no nut November instead, if I had a little help. 
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satyrrr satyrrr 
If a woman is asking you for money before you meet them or even hear their voice, its a sign you should BLOCK them and no longer be incontact with them. Even people who know better need a reminder sometimes.
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estrella777 estrella777 
To explain my fascination with Weeds. I have lived a wow! life just not the agressive way Nancy Botwin has.              https://www.vulture.com/2012/09/list-of-everything-nancy-has-done-on-weeds.html she and I would both be in need of therapy her because of her roar. Me because of my kindness and resulting PTSD always seeing the best in people.  she and I both just fling ourselves out into the world and try our best. we just try different things. That's the difference. i became a sub she became weed dealer.   
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GrantLB GrantLB 
After talking with someone on here recently I've done a lot of thinking about my desire to submit and be bound. I had never really thought about how long I've felt that way or why. Looking back on my teen years I think I've always had a fascination with restraint. My first sexual dream revolved around me getting "caught" and bound up. Looking back I have a few memories where even when I was younger there was something about being restrained that appealed to me. Now, as an adult, I think my feelings now are rooted in my desire to be helpless. I'm fortunate enough to have had a safe life, and I've never been in a bad scenario where I was in significant danger, and I suspect that may have something to do with it. Regardless, I think my root desire is to be helpless, forced to trust another person and do what they say. Something about giving into that power and giving up total control is what I really want. i don't know fully, just been thinking about it recently and these are my first thoughts. Thanks everyone for teaching me more and helping me explore these feelings!
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 PASENSUALDOM 
I give up trying to add pictures to this site. I've tried several times, and they just don't appear. PASENSUALDOM on fetlife, which is a working functional website. I have pics there and plan on adding more this weekend.  I reply to all emails here and there, but prefer there. 
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 ItsMaster 
Creating an environment where bdsm can happen isn't difficult. The biggest issue is protecting it from forces of the outside world and the forces from inside.  Drama and egos are toxic
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 HardNFastRules 
I didn't think I would have to say this, but I'm only interested in women... single available women. So if you aren't female, don't message, don't add me to favorites, and respect my choices.
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 amberwaves433 
Glad to have the journals back and customer service seems geat too Coffee starbucks scott and niagara st kitts most days   always happy to chat with fellow kinsters Camming off and on during the week if snybody needs a giggle  Still seeking an online sub/slave from UK for online Domination and control and romance
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Asub4u82 Asub4u82 
Mostly into women but i find the thought of subbing to a male Dom very intriging.  Someone willing to bring me to the other side?
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kcamp71 kcamp71 
Watching it snow wishing we had some one that was serious about living the lifestyle 
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estrella777 estrella777 
Waiting for profile approval. 
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ahairydom ahairydom 
Currently have 2 sub on a video messaging platform, anohter couple considering it on the same platform, A couple on antoher platform, 2 male friends on that platform also.  They range in age from 20's-40's maybe 50's.  Age is not important.  They  are all over the world from Florida to Nebraska, Boston, to NewZeeland and Canada.  So if you are looking for a relationship and do not or cannot give up and move for a full time relationship message me.  I will see what we can arrange.  I cannot and will not do a 24/7 live in.  So ti works for me.  I love to talk with people and see where they are at.  I will not make demands of anything that you say are off limits but will push limits if asked to. Thanks  for reading this and have a good day.
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 Arianaa 
I believe that. It is seldom ever simple with such things.  
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 ItsMaster 
Laughs, i was accused of being controlling. You found me where?  I am old and have dealt with lots of peeps issues. When your blood surgar is all over the place, it is time to regulate what you eat and when you eat and how much you eat. Is this controlling or just making sure health is maintained. With a regular sleeping pattern, a person can better handle what they need to take care of.. How many hours of sleep do you function best at?  Knowing what your going to eat makes meal prep easier. Knowing what you need to accomplish makes you better prepared for it. And the list of stuff is long and frustrating people or people looking in complain about the control. Laughs
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cumbelllina cumbelllina 
https://www.instagram.com/reel/CwiajdmgmdE/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==
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msjaclyn msjaclyn 
to all those who are interested i am dominant and a sadist and will remain so if u are one who wishes to criticise me then move on i know who i am and you dont so there now to those who wish to meet me just hit me up id love to tempt u mmmmmmm kisses msjaclyn devious and demanding queen!!!!
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Extremesissydoll Extremesissydoll 
Well here I am a older crossdressing sissy sex doll steal dreaming of the life I have always wanted. I'm very ready to be completely transformed and serve a dominant MASTER. I'm very into bdsm and the extreme lifestyle of a sissy. I just love being a sissy sex maid and love to serve and worship masters every wount and disers. I will cook and clean and serve as MASTERS submissive property. As MASTERS submissive my only thought is masters pleasure and enjoyment. 
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worshipru123 worshipru123 
There is a perfectly good messenger service here, but I don't mind using gmail either...
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nytekat nytekat 
Is having kids THAT important?
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snowcatsub snowcatsub 
I can't believe I would even have to write this, but I see that I have to. I am sub ONLY! I will not nor ever be interested in being a slave, I don't even like that word. If you have to pm me asking if I'd ever consider this you will be cussed out and blocked. 
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blissfullyneedy blissfullyneedy 
I can't believe this is back. But for my first rent please do not enter my email telling me how vanilla I am and you don't know me. I may not be the kind of sub you're looking for and that's okay. I'm not going to tell you you're not a Dom just because you're not the kind of Dom that I'm looking for. This lifestyle is unique and the fact that you can pick and choose what works for you. It is also refreshing because it's a no judgment zone. The minute you judge another person by your standards, you are not living the lifestyle. If that person isn't what you think they should be, walk away. Any attempt to belittle them, degrade them or plan out bully them shows exactly that you have no business in this lifestyle.
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SaltLifeFemDom SaltLifeFemDom 
Currently staying on the Big Island but am headed to Oahu next week. If you have any tips or suggestions feel free to share. 
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 SSBBWtop4you 
Ok now. There are a couple of you that I've promised to meet with.  I would like it to be in a public space.  Outside is good.  NSA.  I make no promises.  You make no promises. Think about where a good place to meet will be.  It must be daytime.  No weekends.   If you can't do that, then we cooud probably NOT be able to meet at all. A public spot outside where we can talk.  Easy peasy  Make it happen!
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Eddie2008 Eddie2008 
It's the end of another year. May we all reflect on our mistakes and improve ourselves. Not a new year resolution, but take the time to move forward. Don't stay the same. Embrace your better selves.
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 MasterValdis 
In my experience, some slave trainees are scared of being "broken." This is especially true when the trainee is more of an experimenter than a true slve candidate.  Nevertheless, I spent some time putting together my thoughts on the "purpose" and "value" of breaking a slave trainee: In BDSM, "breaking" a trainee, also known as "breaking in" or "training," is a process where the Master systematically dismantles the trainee's existing mental and emotional frameworks to replace them with new ones that align with the Master's desires and the dynamics of their power exchange relationship. The purpose of "breaking" a trainee is multifaceted and serves several key objectives: Establishing Dominance and Control: The primary goal is to assert the Master's dominance and establish control over the trainee. This involves stripping away the trainee's autonomy and decision-making abilities, replacing them with the Master's authority. The trainee learns to rely solely on the Master for guidance, validation, and even basic needs, fostering a deep sense of dependence. Creating a Blank Slate: By breaking down the trainee's pre-existing beliefs, behaviors, and responses, the Master creates a "blank slate" that can be molded into the desired submissive role. This allows the Master to shape the trainee's thoughts, emotions, and actions to fit their specific preferences and the dynamics of their relationship. Building Trust and Intimacy: The intense and often vulnerable nature of the breaking process can foster a deep level of trust and intimacy between the Master and the trainee. As the trainee surrenders control and relies on the Master for everything, a strong emotional bond can form, enhancing the overall dynamic of their relationship. Teaching Obedience and Discipline: Through various techniques, such as punishment, reward, and reinforcement, the Master teaches the trainee to be obedient and disciplined. This involves instilling a mindset where the trainee prioritizes pl…
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 MasaKistic 
Nowt as queer as folk...
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rchbookman rchbookman 
Mostly been looking for online especially since a pandemic affected us all.  
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HardRoc577 HardRoc577 
We are now in the land of 2022  And even now after all of these years, at least on Collarme, whoops I meant to write Collarspace the thing that pisses people off the most is not what one would expect.  I think we all had our share of quote, unquote BOT PROFILES or that one LMAO several fake Doms, Dommes, or anyone for that matter The punctuation and grammar grid is irritating as hell at times.  But of all of these and some, I have not pointed out.   The biggest ASSHAT of them all is trying to keep your profile CURRENT with new information, likes or dislikes, and even updated photos.   I dare any to disagree with me, especially reading some profiles lately how some have been locked out of their accounts still PENDING approval, LIKE WTF is really going on??? One of the main reasons even as a DaddyDom I am afraid to update my account, this is supposed to be a joke but I am serious as an old man busting a nut, a heart attack!!! But I digress...
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SimplyComplexLG SimplyComplexLG 
***UPDATES*** I have moved to NSW and since the approval process here tends to shut down the account for long periods of time this seems the best alternative to post updates... ignore age, weight and photo here as well since I do not recall the last time I was able to actually update any of that... just ask and get to know me... maybe you'll get the chance to see and know for yourself rather than this site
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nytekat nytekat 
I am moving to a MUCH bigger city in a few weeks! I don't know EXACTLY when?  But soon!  And I'M THRILLED!!
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 nightfire6669 
I cannot believe this site still exists.... sometimes
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VTswitchcouple VTswitchcouple 
We've gotten a few questions, people asking for more info about me dating the Trump supporter. We're still dating! When Kamala entered the race, I teased him a few times about losing to a woman and he'd always make it a point to tell me later (when I was tied up or bent over or otherwise had him inside me) that November wasn't going to change anything for me, that I'd still be fucking him on Thanksgiving, Christmas, New Years, Valentine's Day, basically anytime he wanted. We don't get too into the details - he's not super politically engaged and it's actually kind of upsetting to think about the state of the country, and how rights are being taken away all the time, when I'm in a relatively privileged position and choosing to indulge in this kind of play. A few people asked how we met. We're in the same grad school program and he's always starting arguments about politics and "how come people don't just get a driver's license if they want to vote so bad", that kind of thing. I'd always jump in and push back, and he told me later that he liked getting me riled up. He said he liked seeing me flush and get upset and try to convince him of things when he didn't really care. We chatted a few times before classes and he'd be incredibly forward so he knew I was married, knew I wanted kids, made a few comments if I wore a choker or a fashion collar. After class one night, my car battery was dead so he came over and gave me a jump. We were the only ones left in the lot so while we were standing outside in the dark, he slid his hands in the back pockets of my jeans and pulled me against him. I instinctively reached back and he trapped my hands and held them behind my back while kissing me, jamming his tongue in my mouth. I blew him in his car and we made plans to go out that weekend. He's pretty rough and he loves being in charge. My husband will buy all sorts of bondage toys and I'll take them to the cop's apartment and that's where they stay. He keeps bondage straps o…
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quirkylittle4daddy quirkylittle4daddy 
what is sophia in a song? version 1 there are a lot of songs that encapsulate the original sophia source/soul/codes what have you. but today i'm just going to focus on one.   book of love is pretty much boomer grimoire and required reading for anyone on the journey for sure. every song, lyric, aesthetic, title..the whole thing was definately translated from source. shout out to them for paving the way for sure.   if you know the vibe, you know the vibe. if you know the time, you know the time. if you were there, you were there. it was quite the party energetically if you can unpeel what the message is in this visual. it's another chris brown how are you mad when you can't get into the party vibe.   pretty boys and pretty girls is such a great foundational song. it talks about the ability to love and connect with all genders and the joy of spreading light into the world. and how life is full of intense feelings including joy and pleasure and delight. it's a big go big or go home sort of vibe song.   When I'm alone and you're away I just close my eyes and I drift away your warm body is what I'm without I just close my eyes and I dream aboutPretty boys and pretty girls pretty boys and pretty girls (when I'm without) pretty boys (I dream about) pretty girlsStranges in the night exchanging glances but sex is dangerous I don't take my chances the boys I meet say I look lonely but I just walk on my because they're onlyPretty boys and pretty girls pretty boys and pretty girls (when I'm without) pretty boys (I dream about) pretty girlsIn this day and age in a city full of fear with you by my side together we can show we careSpreading joy to the world to every boy and every girlPretty boys and pretty girls pretty boys and pretty girls (what will we show?) spreading joy (where will it go?) to the world   interesting note that album name and the band for this song are entitled:   "Artist: Book of Love …
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Skymaster052001 Skymaster052001 
I keep getting a lot of "one liner" emails. I will not respond to those. 
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 seeknwifencucks 
I consider what I do is keeping couples together that's my ultimate goal I understand we all get older priorities change kids grow up move out etc I always try to show a couple alternatives to separating after years together if you have questions don't hesitate to ask 
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sirmav102 sirmav102 
Let me tell you who I am and why I am this way. I am a natural leader! Not because I take it, because God made me this way. In High School, I was the Battalion Commander (the highest rank) for our military program. On active duty, I took operation out as the office in charge. I was enlisted but we were short officers so I was picked by field grade officers,  to lead the operation for my platoon. I didn't ask for any of this, it was given to me (by  God). I feel God gives us our path and it is up to us to walk it. I read the Bible, and it is very clear that he wanted man to be head of the house hold! You may ask, what about the women. Is she worthless, just an object, second rate! No, she is much more than most men realize, much more! She is his back bone, his purpose for living, his sounding board (to talk to on his ideas and hear her voice on it). Without a strong woman by his side, he cannot reach his potential (so he would never be at his best, without her)! You can agree or disagree, but like I said at the start, THIS IS WHO I AM!
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 Titsy97 
Hi,I got sick. Covid test was negative so that's good, but I have sore throat and mid to high (varies during day) fever. Got sick leave for the rest of the week so ther's at least that. Right now I'll reade and answer messages when I'm not sleeping and have enough strenght for it, but when fever gets down I'll have whole days for catching up.Sorry about delay.Titsy
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 sluttypig 
Yes is an owned slave.  Master has expressed interest, at times, of sharing this slave with another dom and also to find another slave to join us now and then.  Interested?  Naturally, Master must approve any meetings.
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Exoticpie2024 Exoticpie2024 
Still looking for a sub 
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 thornyroad 
I enjoy control everything about control the process of gaining control. Using control. Making the sub feel special because she has done something I wanted her to do for me even when she was not sure she wanted to Control is my passion 
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LCHuntersville LCHuntersville 
  A Veteran is someone who at one point in their life wrote a blank check payable to the United States of America for an amount up to and including, their life. That is beyond honor and there are way too many people in this country who no longer remember that fact. Copy and paste this to your journal if you are a Veteran,... know a Veteran, Love a Veteran, or Support the Troops! May God Bless Them All!!
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Straygirl1972 Straygirl1972 
I wish I had a friend
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TradBrandi31 TradBrandi31 
Co-Top Co-topping is when two tops are sharing control in a BDSM scene. A typical BDSM scene has a top and a bottom, with the top in control and/or giving sensation and the bottom giving up control and/or receiving sensation. In a co-top scenario, two tops are sharing the control in a negotiated way. More About Co-TopThere are many different situations in which two tops may choose to work together. There are coordinated forms of play, such as two people wielding whips at one recipient. Their are collaborative forms of play where one top may be taking more of an assistant role. Co-topping can be a way to mentor a new top so they can practice their skills in a supervised way. It can be a way for friends or partners who are both tops to play together in a scene, or it can simply be a way to provide a more intense or complex experience to the bottom.
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sassybabydoll3 sassybabydoll3 
Hopeless. I...am done with chasing an illusion.
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 DrkJourney 
HAPPY NEW YEAR EVERYONE!!!!
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maidformisery maidformisery 
I totally get that plenty of Dominants, Daddies, and Masters want a teensy little twinkie to toy with.  But I'd like to think there are tops out there who get a special thrill from big-game power plays, from putting a bigger, more masculine bottom in their place--or from gradually transforming them into the doll of their dreams.Sure, there's pleasure to be had in tormenting a twink, but don't you think there's something intoxicating about using all that juice to humble, humiliate, and torment someone who can't resist the sway of your dominance?
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MissPalmviolet MissPalmviolet 
When your introduction is full of "Goddess" and "slave" you should, maybe, save the patter for another person.  I'm not really interested in playing role play games, of titles and faux genuflecting, because I'm a person, not a character, and if you're a person, you should talk like one.    Nothing says, "I'm after a quick hand shandy" than an opening gambit full of simpering lines from badly made BDSM porn.   If you can't be a human, then I can't talk to you. 
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SevenWishGenie SevenWishGenie 
Femdom couple real relationship
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 YoureA7 
You know that anticipation of being on a long road trip knowing you can put your dirty undies, the ones  you've been sitting in for hours, in a sunbmissibes mouth as soon as we arrive. 
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tim99uk tim99uk 
Wow, wind is REALLY picking up out there, already seen one damaged roof
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 prettyjellybean 
"I read once that the ancient Egyptians had fifty words for sand & the Eskimos had a hundred words for snow. I wish I had a thousand words for love, but all that comes to mind is the way you move against me while you sleep & there are no words for that." - Brian Andreas
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 AlmalexiasMaiden 
Playing in a medieval ERP right now, playing a brilliant, ambitious young noble girl, who gets married off and slowly has the attitude, sharp tongue and ambition beaten, degraded and choked out of her by her husband. Good lord that's hot >.<
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 LadyCharybdis 
When it comes to kink -- Yes I want to live the fantasies.    But I also want a reality that lasts. If I'm talking money with you, it is the 25 year view dominant in me trying to make sure that my submissives will have a retirement plan, a nest egg, a saftey net for 40 years from now. I'm not seeking to be a finndomme-- but if I'm looking for in-person, 24/7?   I am damn well making sure that the future is building security -- not some house of cards that will collapse with ruined lives and devastation. Hope and good vibes is not a retirement plan!
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dancesonstarlight dancesonstarlight 
Even when we are apart, I still try my best to send him notes that'll make him happy and pleased. He loves when I'm in pain, so I tell him every time I am. Migraines, tender fingertips from blood sugar checks, toothaches, etc. I have pain meds, but to take them I must ask his permission. Whenever he replies to my messages are about these things, he enjoys them, and I enjoy his joy. It's a way we connect when we are apart.  I am thinking about taking some photos for him as well, later today. It's been awhile since I done that in general, but he loves looking at his property, and that should be priority over how I see myself.  Yes, this slave is finally bending. Master is making sure of it, but I'm also trying my very best and choosing to be intentional with my surrender.  He gave me beautiful bruises recently, as well, and I am grateful for his time, attention, sadism, and correction. Thank you, Master. Thank you for teaching me to let go and sink into your capable hands completely. 
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Drylok Drylok 
Hello ladies, I have heard and read many times about the rudeness of the men on this service.  I have found that when I ask a woman about herself or interesting things about the city that she lives in, I either get a rude response or no response at all. If someone is not interested, that is fine and all that's needed is to voice your thoughts or opinion. But to not respond or to give a response that is rude and degrading is unnecessary and unwarranted. I very seldom, if ever, leave a message shorter than one paragraph. So the innocuous, hello, with nothing following does show a lack in a man's ability to communicate. This is why I tend to leave a message that's at least a paragraph in length. My rant is over and I would like to thank any and everyone who read my journal entry. Drylok  
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 BeatMeCrazy 
Will my pain and suffering excite You? Will it bring You great joy? Will my screams bring laughter to Your lips? Will my oppression and torment bring happiness to Your life? Will my tears entertain You? My begging?
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 masochisticpet 
It takes too long to update ones profile so here is a short update:2023 was the year that this slave learned that gender doesn't matter.  All that matters is serving its Master or Mistress.  Therefore 2024 is the year of searching for a new lifestyle relationship one which this slave serves no matter of the gender.  Maybe this slave will be yours in 2024? 
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 GuinevereX 
  ****somene just asked me was I really 78lbs - ffs no, I'm 174cm tall (just under 5'9'' imperial), if i were 78lbs I'd be dead. I'm 78kgs,  about 170lbs. This site is a shitshow.     The addendum, or actually just the rest of what i wanted to include...   The BDSM world, D/s stereotypes and categories, the 'scene' - don't particularly appeal. I'm not the leather clad domme shouting abuse and whipping some desperate grovelling idiot for the sake of it. Knowing an individual, their vulnerabilities,fears,wants,desires,needs - holding that power,pushing limits, seeing how what I do plays out across another persons physical being - that interests me. I'm careful not to cause serious pain or damage, emotionally or physically, which means I really need to know the people I engage with. I need to know how far I can take things, and that warrants a high level of trust and connection. I'm predominantly interested in men, but there are women who I feel attraction to also. I'm the only dominant in any dynamic, but there are situations where I enjoy a man who has some elements of switch. For example, if I wish to cuck an existing submissive, I may want to use another in a more assertive role, direct him to fuck me in a way that is more bull, in order to achieve something with my cuck. Equally that person may well be restrained, gagged, blindfolded and fucked by me in a variety of ways. Ultimately, it is whatever I want, when I want, how I want. Depending on the role you fill for me, the perimeters shift a little. In general, my submissive - male or female - presents as quietly confident, has a level of success in life, professionally or personally, is stable and shows no overt indications of their persuasions. The casual observer would not think you are submissive or harbour kink based fantasies. With men, I enjoy a broad spectrum in terms of physical attraction. As a dominant physical female presence, I enjoy the juxtaposition of a physically dom…
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 SometimesLife 
Bruce Springsteen's "Dancing in the Dark" spoke to me today:  "Messages keep gettin' clearer, Radio's on and I'm movin' 'round my place. I check my look in the mirror, Wanna change my clothes, my hair, my face." Me too, Bruce. Me too.
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 seekingabfbull 
in mainstream everyday life constantly continuously overlooked. invisible stay at home mom in this world very excited driven hungry for more secret closet stoner adore intoxication    
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nytekat nytekat 
I worry about menopause.  I'm staring at it in the face and it scares me!
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 MstressAbigail 
I just checked in for a few minutes because I feel lonely tonight.  
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LetsSail LetsSail 
I sm a professional licensed captain. The boat I am running in tbe picture belongs to one of clients.
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 MistressDesireSD 
Why message if you are going to vanish?
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 Erin0920 
Since Collarspace won't let you edit your profile anymore...I'll post updates in my journal. I am a 28 year old pansexual sub living in the midwest. Interested in finding my partner and dom. 
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nytekat nytekat 
I don't really know if other people are reading this or not .  I hope so, but ultimately?  It doesn't really matter.  I'm ot very exciting!  Although, I do acasionally have something worth hearing;
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 TameAndSubdue 
When she's abandoned her moral center and teachings...when she's cast aside her facade of propriety and lady-like demeanor...when I have so corrupted this fragile thing and brought out a writhing, mewling, bucking, wanton whore for my enjoyment and pleasure.....enticing from within this feral lioness...growling and scratching and biting...taking everything I dish out to her.....at that moment she is never more beautiful to me. ”Marquis de Sade
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TurtlePryncess TurtlePryncess 
I need to clarify my profile text. I am NOT looking for free housekeeping.  I am ideally looking for a long term partner.  I am also happy to find kinky friends to hang out with.  I am open to a kinky FWB in which the benefits are hanging out, having fun, maybe allowing them to clean if that gives them joy, maybe some no-sex cuddling, MAYBE if the friendship develops, there could be some non-sexual S and M type play.  I am very picky about who I play with and who I allow in my home.   
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Realslave1963 Realslave1963 
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xdominantx xdominantx 
More interested in making new friends than in a D/s relationship right now. If she rides, better yet. Stop and say hello.
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atsukasa atsukasa 
Haven't been around for a while - the profile has ... kinda changed a lot in the last couple of years. (or will change, I don't fully understand the approvals process here) If you looked in the past, there might be a few changes...At least now I feel like I understand why I had some of the preferences I had a couple of years ago. No clue how much that'll contextually change again in another couple of years.
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wayward5oul wayward5oul 
I found it soothing last night to rant and rave about an asshat in my profile journal.  So I think that I will start using it as a place to blow off steam.  It may make me sound like an angry witch, but if that is just here and not in real life, I'm good with that.
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emptysoultoown emptysoultoown 
Well its a different thing now for therapy and to make better quality bondage gear again with a guarantee that no store or fetish maker Gives. As alot dont stand by there workmanship as it is a skilled craftsmans that if it makes quality gear of the best leather and hardware it should out last your slave or submissive. If it doesnt it has failed. So it guarantees to always replace free of charge restraints and other bondage gear it makes. It see so many out there making quality bondage gear and charging ridiculous prices. It wanted a Pony Harness and the price was Ridiculous $1500. It has to laugh. Well, the 2nd order of it Leather working tools have arrived from Amazon. Give it the third time in it life Rebuilding its Leather making workshop. And in the next fortnight, got a third order that has to go in. And that should see it. Build the tools and the workshop that it needs to start making. What It needs And wants And to rebuild it inventory. it uses the highest grade harness US latigo leather as used in the Saddle and Harness industry on the market and heavy metal hardware, Post screw rivets and with reinforced with leather sewing machine for extra strength for secure durablity.
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CraveToPlease CraveToPlease 
The biggest coward is a man who awakens a woman's love without the intention of loving her 
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VTswitchcouple VTswitchcouple 
Update (February 2022): We wanted to make this change to our profile but based on how wonky it's been we're worried about it being down. So we're still looking for everything listed in our profile and we're going to keep our old profile information because it's fun and tells you a lot about us.  That said, we're ready to embrace our breeding fantasies. I want an older man (younger if you're VERY dominant) to take me for the weekend, tie me up, and knock me up. When I walk into your house for the weekend, you take my clothes away, collar me, take my cell phone away, and use it to document my submission for my husband back home. Sunday night you send me home completely full. We're ready.
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 msdenise216 
Dinosaurs R Us Although I may not be a charter member, I certainly am a member of the Dinosaurs R Us Club. LOL Why, you ask? Because I remember when BDSM groups were mostly about educating people about the lifestyle --- unless they were sex clubs, dungeons, or swingers' groups --- and play was an add-on. Now it seems that most groups are about play and education seems to be the add-on. I remember manners and respect --- from both sides of the slash. I also fondly remember the days before 50 Shades of Grey. I remember all this and more. For those of you who might be thinking the Dinosaurs R Us Club is only for seniors, it is not. Membership in it has more to do with your BDSM age than your chronological age. And --- just for the record, in addition to a wealth of tradition and know-how we have great rocking chairs! LOL Oh, and one more thing --- you can teach an old dog new tricks!  
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DirtyDarling DirtyDarling 
You say You are concernedwhen i say i am corneredin my thoughts, craftedby cornerstones of my sinsand demons and shadows.You say it is cold in herewhen i say the fire still claimsthe corners of our house.You say You are going for a walkwhen i can't even find a door.You say i need to be tucked inwhen i am concerned about Younever returning, taking myheart with You tucked awayand forgotten in Your pocket.You say that time will heal mewhen i say that this time wasmy last time, for this life time.You say i will be just finewhen i say you are my world.-dirtydarling
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DomDaddyBob DomDaddyBob 
Just an update as I no longer live in Florida but for some reason am nable to update my profile?  I am no located in North East Pennsylvania very close to the NY and NJ borders.  Seeking a little girl in the area would be my ideal.
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Daughterfordaddy Daughterfordaddy 
It's been a few days now and my female friend and I are still chatting away. We've become firm friends and kindred spirits. When one of us is down we are there to make each other smile. I never expected to find someone as cool as her but I did, and I'm so glad. 
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 marklooking250461 
I'm so fed up of all the fake subs on here both couples and females makes you want to give up
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MasterDomDok MasterDomDok 
Sulphur lost a child/father pair.  The town is on the mend.
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 DomofthePast 
If you do NOT adore wearing sheer hosiery-Pantyhose-Garter Stockings or Colorful Tights every day of the week -              then I have one thing to state; Learn to embrace true femininty, Hose are back in style! Toss the leggings-jeggings-and pants a homeless person would reject and embrace femininity Trust me-real Men adore deep femininity!
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MasterDraconus MasterDraconus 
Values beyond the flesh So often I hear from ladies how this guy just wants sex, that guy just wants nudes, or even in a local trend "Doms" charging sex for scenes claiming they deserve it for all the work which gets put in by them :eyeroll: The desires of the flesh leaves so much unseen. The beauty of the mind, warmth of a heart, passions of ones soul have always been so captivating to me. Even at a young age in gradeschool I found myself writing poems well beyond my years. I was recognizing the fact that the flesh fades. Wrinkles will form. The body changes with stress, kids, injuries, and any number of factors which life throws our way. That "perfect wrapper" was purely a deception and the true beauty laid so much deeper. So over the years I dated ladies of a wide range of physical descriptions. Race, weight, disabilities, prior traumas, were not detractors but seen as part of the history she had lived and what helped shape her into the wonderful person she was. I put my heart and soul into the relationship easing away the scars revealing the beautiful lady which laid beneath all those layers. In return I was presented with someone stronger, wiser, and more loving than ever before. It was a healthy wonderful exchange with great rewards. I took on many scars of my own over the years. My face is wrinkled with the stress of it all. My heart is tired and sore. For all that I took on in my life I have been showing the wear and tear. Even still I hear those same complaints. Nomatter the smiles I try to bring the story is always the same. Lady's will complain about all the heartache brought by such disgusting leaches which drink their heart and soul dry all while overlooking the guy who can truly love them and treat them as they truly deserve. As more than a piece of flesh, but as that person deserving of support, compliments, a partner truly there for them in this life. The person standing right there next to her through all this heartache crying his own tear…
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 SirSadisro666 
Just out of curiosity    == Results from bdsmtest.org ==  100% Dominant  100% Master/Mistress  100% Owner  100% Primal (Hunter)  100% Rigger  100% Sadist  100% Degrader  99% Voyeur  92% Experimentalist  90% Exhibitionist  79% Brat tamer  76% Non-monogamist  6% Daddy/Mommy  0% Ageplayer  0% Switch  0% Vanilla   
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 FemininaDominina 
I have received numerous well written inquiries. Be prepared to immediately offer your phone number. Otherwise, I will lose interest immediately.
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Wind0fChange Wind0fChange 
It may have taken nearly two years but the world is back and so am I.   Very excited to meet you!   Let's chat.     
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 PrimalGFD 
Just a few clarifications, I have little interest in pain, giving, receiving, watching, so if you are seeking pain probably not a match.  Future partners might be into giving, receiving, but I still have no interest in spectating.    As for sexuality, I am all for my partners having partners. it really does not bother me. I will probably not be watching or joining in on some regular basis. If I and they decide to have some group play it would be a one off until the next time I and they are interested in group play.  I am not a voyuer and I get no pleasure or thrill from porn, watching people. I will very likely never participate as a watcher/viewer/voyeur.  Any group play would be negotiated at that time for that specific activity. I do not do force, totally fine with role playing CNC, but there will be thorough discussins before hand. 
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Suzyswallow Suzyswallow 
I love it rough slapped about name calling humiliated xxxx
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Byrdie Byrdie 
I feel quite accomplished. After reading about the Burned Haystack Dating Method, I submitted three suggestions to the admins here. I realize that these may not change anything immediately - or at all - but I feel better for having done so.
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BklynDom7166 BklynDom7166 
"I once has a slave or should I say they once had me?"  You/you can say all the negative stuff about this site and most of it is true, except that there are many real people here. I've met a few and been amazed by just who does lurk behind these profiles. "Some are freaking scary and some are friends." Im looking forward to the holidays. I love Thanksgiving and Christmas or at least cooking the dinners . My favorite time to go wild in the kitchen. And 
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 ItsMaster 
I am on a journey, i am not a destination. I am not your solution. Problems are terrible foundations for relationships. 
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Yuride Yuride 
I am finding all about change.  The difference when talking with Dom's, Dommes six years ago.  Now talking, I am answering different to questions . I see things different. I am vulnerable, afraid at times, this is different. I feel I can't do it alone I need that voice telling what to do and following . I feel in pieces need to be reassembled. I feel it's time I surrender to be guided in this process.
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SeekingNewMan SeekingNewMan 
I work so much. I need a good fucking to relax lol. I still want try anal. I guess I wait
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 mlk1974 
we sit outside in my back yard  i look at my stepdadand ask him if he is ok,  he looks at me and says he is, but wants to make sure i am ok with him seeing me.  I tell him its a little late for me to be shy and he laughs.  he says he likes looking at me now,  I look at john who is grinning from ear to ear.  he is loving this,   John suggests we play T or D, im like no. says it will be fun. I am low key thinking he wants to see me do something with my step dad.  my step dad and mom are on a break from each other.  but its still embarrassing for him to see me. John looks at me and says T or D,  I say T.  He is like no how about a D.  Ugh  I cave and say fine D.   John tells me to lay over my stepdads lap and let him spank me 15 times. im like no, he says i need to do it or he will share other pics he has with coworkers.  i look at my stepdad, he has a look of may as well.  ugh i am sooo humilated, i lay over his lap.  he carrasses my bum.  tells me to close my eyes and count to ten outloud.  i do. at Ten, swats my bottom so hard, it stings.  he does not wait,  all 15 swats are hard and fast.  im pretty sure he had an evil grin the whole time.
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 NoLimit4You 
Journals are back.    So thought would give it a try.     I'm actually a nice older guy that can be as sadistic as you want.   But also very caring and will watch out for you.    Kinda like will take you as far as you want but still caring about you as a sub or slave.    Like making friends and talking about what we enjoy.    Feel free to message me.     Age doesn't matter.     Experience doesn't matter.   Been in the lifestyle a long time.    Always ready to answer questions as well.   
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 silkenleash 
  I dance through mist where moonlight drapes the briar, My wings dew-laced, my breath a lilac sigh. With every step I stoke the old desire To kneel where moss is thick, and let him tie.   The thrushes know, and trill my aching plea, A collar woven out of dusk and vine. To wear his mark, to bend with grace and glee Such rites are roots in soul and flesh, so divine.   I sang him shapes beneath the willow’s croon, My thighs all slick with sap and summer’s crave. Let him come swift, my lord of dusk or moon To take the leash I offer, trembling, brave.   No shame in chains when hearts are dark and true, I bloom beneath the hand I beckon to.
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 ItsMaster 
Time has the ability to expose the truth.  Pretty words are just pretty words until they are backed up by the truth.
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 achillpanda 
I would love to upload some photos. However, this site will put my profile in the  purgatory of pending status for a unknown amount of time. Why they designed in this way is beyond me. However, should you like to chat, I can send a photo over. This is also why my profile has no picture at this time.
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slavetrainingwantd slavetrainingwantd 
been curious about figging recently    would definitely like to try it out with a firm dom
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 blkdaddyforyou 
The History Behind the Life I have been thinking about the history behind the life. Not the version that fits neatly on paper.Not the dates, roles, titles, addresses, or milestones.Not the quick summary a person can give when asked who they are, where they came from, or what they have done. Something deeper than that. The history that lives underneath the visible life. The older I get, the more I think every person is carrying more than one history at once. What happened.What it felt like.And the story that was built around it. Those are not always the same thing. That matters. Because a great deal of what people call identity is not only character. It is memory, adaptation, interpretation, inheritance, survival, and the narrative a person had to build in order to keep living inside what they had lived. I do not say that cynically. I say it because I think this is one of the plainest truths about being human. A life leaves an imprint. Loss does.Love does.Illness does.Work does.Caregiving does.Success does.Being needed does.Being overlooked does.Being wanted does.Being left does. All of it leaves a mark. Not always dramatic.Not always visible.But real. And yet what is real is not always the same thing as what is remembered cleanly. That is where the matter becomes more difficult. Because memory is not a court transcript.It is alive.It protaspects.It edits.It arranges.It sharpens what felt dangerous.It softens what felt unbearable.It gives shape to experience so the mind can live with it. Sometimes that shaping serves truth. Sometimes it serves survival. Sometimes it does both. That is why examining a life honestly requires more than remembering. It requires learning to separate, as best I can, what happened, what I felt, and what story I built to carry it. That story is not always false. But it is not always the whole truth either. And fabrication, I have come to think, is not always a deliberate lie. Often it is something quieter than that.…
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Bikinisub Bikinisub 
  The pool party was in Royal OUak,  a very nice suburb of Houston.  I was admiring all the large homes with long driveways and manicured lawns.  When I arrived at the house, I pulled into the driveway and parked behind a Tesla.  I checked my face in the mirror and got out of my car.  I wore a black string bikini under a black cover up with a pair of wedges and some sunglasses.   I could hear voices, music and splashing on the other side of the privacy fence.  I opened the door and I looked around.  From my left was the back of the house that had a covered patio.  The large yard surrounded a big pool with lounge chairs and tables with umbrellas.  To the right was a tiki bar.  I headed there.   Heather called out to me , "Hey! I'm glad you made it.  Why don't you get a cocktail and chill? Bartender?  Give her whatever she wants." I smiled and asked for a hurricane.  Coming right up, he said.  I looked around and saw people enjoying the day.  Most were in or near the pool.  There was mostly a mixture of 20 and 30 somethings.  A group of four were sitting at a table enjoying a blunt.  I headed there.   Me, smiling:  Can I try? "Sure gorgeous" a handsome guy said and handed it to me.  "Hey are you that new girl I heard about?"  Me, smiling:  "Maybe!" Heather, waving to get my attention:  "Come here I want to introduce you to someone.". She led me towards the house as Jim and another man were emerging from the back.   Jim, looking at the other man:  This is the one I told you about."  This is Renee, he provides the financing for my movies. " Renee, smiling at me:  It's nice to meet you.  I heard you have a nice set of abs. May I see them? I opened my cover up and showed off my body.  I flexed my abs and instinctively did a bicep pose.   Renee, st…
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LadynRed47 LadynRed47 
Apparently if a woman sits on your face, she owns you......squatters rights. Lol
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skinprof skinprof 
May 02, 2024   So incredibly pleased to be yours Tony ! I feel we are such a lovely match. I can't believe we're coming upon a year so soon! It always amazes me how fortunate we are to have found each other and have such an excellent blend of Vanilla, and D/s. Supporting each other, learning and growing together has been seamless. Thank you, hugs🥰🥰😍😍❤❤   Yours,   M.
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Dalgast Dalgast 
Ok, after 15 fucking years of listening to Y'all talk a good game but never showing up I've had it. No more.  I'm tired of your bullshit. 
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 idowhatiwant61 
Being a Brit in the united states can be a bit of a bitch what is wrong with some people 
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VixenCherry VixenCherry 
trying to have a good boy on his knees ready to obey and worship 
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MzRaine MzRaine 
A new entry is long overdue, so I'm glad they have finally brought back the journal feature. So... why am I still here if I'm not actively looking for a sub right now? Well, I've gone through many periods where I simply have too much going on or get frustrated or simply lack the desire for sessions. But it always comes back around. And there are a few people around here I converse with, so that's also why I keep my profile active instead of hiding it. But keep in mind that this doesn't mean I want to hear from anyone who hopes I'll keep them in mind for when I do want to meet subs again. I'm not keeping a list and I delete the majority of messages I receive. 
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wayward5oul wayward5oul 
I lost someone this week.  No we weren't close lately.  We used to be.  Our relationship was never defined, it was loosely maintained, but we popped in and out of each other's lives over the period of several years.  He was my first introduction to bdsm and the only D type that I could truly call a close friend at any point.   He is the only one who ever took me to that amazing place that every sub reaches for, and when I used to write, I wrote about our times together.  Those are still some of my favorites to look back on.  He was also there to cradle me in his arms and comfort me when a scene with someone else went really bad.  He was there to help me figure out what I was and wanted without pressing himself on me, so that I would be safe in the future and make better choices about who I interacted with.  He served as my protector for a while, when I was feeling vulnerable but didn't know if I wanted to step back from the scene at that point.  He never made me feel like a burden.  He helped me in my kink life and he helped me equally in my vanilla life.  I knew he was sick but he didn't let on how bad it was. I found out on the book of faces.  He is gone now, and I wish I could have been there for him, but he didn't want anyone to know the extent of his illness.  That was his way. Goodbye SkyMaster.  You will always be loved, you will always be appreciated.  I have nothing but warmth in my heart and in my soul for you.  I can say that about VERY FEW people in my life.  You will always be missed.    
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Pantiesordiapers Pantiesordiapers 
body suit, white tights, satin bikini panties, butt plug      Yoga/ Pilates  outfit got keep in shape
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 Herrlicher 
Here's an early notice. My next USA trip will bring me to the state of California. Somewhere in spring for about three weeks. Very perhaps visit a vanilla friend in San Diego, Los Angeles, Yosemity Park and San Fransisco. There will be several stops along the way. Plenty of places to visit. Hope all can be planned around the last remnants of my work. Already playing the John Mayall song California regularly. And Hotel California by the Eagles, Going to California by Led Zeppelin, Scott Mackenzie's San Fransisco. Preparing is part of the fun.
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TotalOwnerforslave TotalOwnerforslave 
Prospective slave's Friend Requests In My search for a total slave, I have had several make a "Friend" request of Me. I tire of explaining to each and every prospective pieces of chattel that I am not looking for a 'friend.' Indeed a slave of mine would never be a friend, buddy, lover or social equal of any kind. To illustrate, I explain that if I walked into a public Men's room and surveyed the line up of porcelain urinals I would not be looking for a 'friend.' Nor would I expect to treat any of the appliances like a lover. In fact if the prospective slave were kneeling with its mouth open in the line up of other urinals, I may choose to ignore it for any of a number of utilitarian reasons, like maybe its face was particularly filthy with urine, ejaculate or even human waste and covered with flys. And, speaking of human urinals, I do like to hear effusive gratitude for the slave's opportunity to be of service to a Better, but, a sign above it, if speech were impaired by say a spider gag, would work as well. Master James
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Byrdie Byrdie 
I do wish that there was some way toj ust enter at least a birth year into this system and let it automatically update user ages. Having it be be almost a year off is better than what I just saw: 15 years out of date. This is actually messing up people's ability to search, considering that almost nobody wants to update their profile because it'll be in a pending status for months to seasons on end. I also miss the forums, as that seems like a better place to post this.
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Hezzair Hezzair 
What makes a good sub? I am all about being a pleaser and a caregiver. As much as I want my Dominant to take care of me, I want to take care of him as well. That means, I honestly don't brat all that often, unless I am doing it for the sake of getting "funishments" that I actually want. When I am asked to do something, I do it, and quickly. I do it well. If I am asked to maintain a position, I stay there, until I can't anymore. On my knees to throat fuck me? I am there, on the floor, mouth open and waiting.  The point being, I can be a very, very good girl. For the right person. Now I just need the right person to come along.
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 patheticworm1 
I am now under the control of a Dom and it is my duty to obey Him 
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 kayler69 
i am often asked what I have experience in as a slave and so i thought i would list a few of the duties i have experienced in the past: Domestic. Menial. Cuckold. Houseboy. Loaned. 24/7 Chastity. i have great experience attending as a vanilla companion. To the extend it is allowed i enjoy a number of vanilla things. FLR, TPE & LTR. i have re-located twice in the past and i have no issues in doing so again for the right situation. What i seek is hard to find and requires one to search outside of ones local area. The best things in life are worth moving for.  
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Dragonguy Dragonguy 
Yes, I have been on this site for a bit. I am looking for the slave that is best to meet My desires. I am looking for long term and live in, when it happens. I do not expect instant match and move. I want any relocation to be permanent and good for both of Us. I hope you have watched the show Big Bang Theory. Living with Me is similar to living with the Sheldon character. At least in the aspect of I get what I want from a slave living with Me. If that isn't you then we will not work well together. I am open to one offs and play dates and such. So feel free to reach out for that also.
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malesubntx2004 malesubntx2004 
3/6/23 ill be in Dallas TX around 2-3pm  Dropping off a friend at the airport 
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 SSBBWtop4you 
So, is it wrong that I want to be licked and played with and licked till I almost fall asleep?
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Console Console 
I've been from Delta,B.C to Yarmouth, N.S. but I currently reside in central Canada. I am not much of drinker, never been into drugs (or pot), but I do smoke cigarettes. I do not dish out pictures and identity details or do video apps until such a time that some form of  compatibility has been established. I am here for BDSM, not applying for a job. I do not deal with 3rd party communication. If a submissive is not mature enough to safely connect with people on their own. I have no interest.
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LadyAllure LadyAllure 
  if you can't show me what you look like do I need to reply? 
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 ItsMaster 
If you can not have respect for the one you follow how can you really submit?  If you can not make your submissive giggle and laugh is your submissive really yours? 
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Eboncat Eboncat 
Is it just me or does anyone else enjoy a good workout after getting up?  
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 IronTarn 
Kneel for me, slave,  raise your eyes in supplication, submission in every aspect. I own your heart and spirit, your flesh and your mind. It is for you to please me  you will know, in your heart that I am truly your Lordandmaster 
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MidwestExec MidwestExec 
Bought some new toys to play with this weekend. New collars, butt plugs, restraints, etc. Should be fun to use one of these days!
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malepig4YOU malepig4YOU 
Male pig Here......Seeking A Very Strict Domme/Cuckoldress
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RAWRSUB RAWRSUB 
Fear the past: In the shadows of my past, a man filled with rage, Terrified of losing control, trapped in a cage. Once consumed by anger, consumed by hate, Afraid to unlock the demons, their destructive fate.   Like a storm on the horizon, brewing deep within, Memories of the past, where darkness had been. Fear grips my heart, as I walk this fragile line, Afraid to slip back, to a time so unkind.   But in the depths of despair, a flicker of hope, A light in the darkness, a way to cope. I find strength in the present, in the love that surrounds, A new path forward, where solace abounds.   Though the fears may linger, like shadows in the night, I choose to face them, to stand and fight. For within me lies the power to change, To break free from the past, to find a new range.   So I tread this path with caution, with courage by my side, Facing my fears head-on, with nowhere to hide. For in embracing my vulnerability, I find my true self, A man reborn, no longer trapped by anger's stealth.
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SecretGardens02 SecretGardens02 
Coming back after yet another hiatus for My mental health. Still hopeful I can meet someone or someone's I can click with 
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prettyinpink2000 prettyinpink2000 
I love pink. If you wish to please Me, it helps if you like pink too.
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archmage397 archmage397 
The Scenerio: We meet at the predetermined place and time. You follow me to my vehicle and sit in the front passanger seat. 10 minutes from our destination. When we arive you folow head down and inside whhere your striped and inspected.Welcome to yor new life.
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