I am a divorced attractive a strong intelligent black woman whos seeking a single attractive submissiveslave male 5'7 or taller slim to medium for a long term relationship female lead relationship and vanilla in public. A mate in Washington close by or dont mind traveling and is seriously ready to surrender. My private life if just that private what I do with and to my mate is no ones business. Im a Damn good woman who knows what she want and how to treat my mate be it in a vanilla or female lead relationship I come from a long line of dominant (aka) strong black women. I dont smoke, dont do drugs, but drink on occasions and disease free. I like reading, writing, watching movie, setting by the water with my mate or in front of a fire, long drives, good conversations,trying, new things, candle light, getting to know that specialman,cuddling, romance, intimacy, a mate that craves submission and knows how to worship, spoil,pampered take orders. A mate that understand and acknowledge although a female lead relationship its a real relationship and it should have the love trust, honesty, loyalty, caring, affection as the so call vanilla relationship.Day-to-day life when with me will be a daily routine will consist of , cleaning, cooking, shopping, washing, worshipping me, putting lotion on my body, massaging and more assign regular tasks A relationship with good communication although Im in charge I like to know what my mate think and feel about female lead or not were in this relationship together and a sub is only as good as his owner. lf you cant host at your place then make arrangement to host else where not at my place unless I choice to but dont think or plan to do anything at my place its not your place tas make plans for doing anything at my place ever and if you feel its wadis the to drive back and forth you should find. A look in your area or close to you ESPECIALLYDOINGTRAINING MY PLACE IS OFF LIMITS (bow). If are not truly ready to serve dont message me I DONTneed your lame ass reasons, excuses,lies. I understand the first step is the hardest but itll be ok if you follow and do as you told )