Submission is a gift. A gift that has to be given. I cannot just take or force your submission. If you want to give this gift to someone, just make sure its the right someone.

First and foremost I am seeking friends. For those new to the lifestyle I am more than willing to talk to you, let you pick my brain and learn from my experiences without expecting anything more than friendly conversation. I have a wide array of interests both in and outside the life. I paint. I read. I love video games. I enjoy intelligent political discourse where both parties can disagree without anger being involved. I am grounded in reality but enjoy living a life that is as close to fantasy that I can achieve. But, I still live in reality and can most certainly see the difference between the two.

I've been around CollarSpace and its predecessor CollarMe for a number of years. I know how to tell a fake profile from not. I know this is not really the best place for what I'm seeking, but its better to try than to not. In all honestly I've never met anyone from this site in the entire time I've been here and only made a small handful of friends even. So make sure to stand out from the crowd if you want to talk to me. Shouldn't be hard to show me you're real and have read my profile.

Ultimately what I seek, or hope to find rather is a long term relationship with a single woman. While I am open to poly relationships I am more interested in focusing on building a strong relationship with one person and then taking it from there as the river runs. I have a deep love of control and many fetishes some of which are listed here. I am open minded to new experiences and never judge others by their fantasies. I can openly discuss anything in that regard.

I'm friendly and open. Come talk, see what may be seen.

Ask to see my tumblr.

Omen