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Haven't Edited this in over a year and with all the revisions I've done, this thing is a mess I guess its time for a rewrite...

Hello, I'm Gopher. I'm Drug and Disease free, I've been into the lifestyle for years now and into kink in general since my balls dropped. it has lead me into some really interesting places, and some not so interesting as well but whats life without a little rimble-tumble? I am a tad dyslexic so I apologies to all the grammar and spelling Nazis out their, but I do what I can and anything I miss I cant help. my life mostly consists of work nowadays as a Chef at a local hotel/restaurant. I could put "gourmet chef" as a skill, but honestly everyone thinks of themselves as one and puts it on their profile, I on the other hand actually am a Gourmet Chef and am very proud of the fact, I love to cook and see the look on people's faces when they taste something they enjoy in my food.
speaking of things I enjoy, I am a full time nerd. as my profile suggests I have a suit of Storm Trooper Armor (hero mold RoTJ) I play DnD, have several Comic book subions, I run a LARP, and spend WAAAAYYY to much money on Mini Wargameing. I'm a handy man, there isn't a tool in the shed I cant use and I know how to fix just about any household problem from plumbing to electrical. I love to build things in my spare time when I don't have other projects hanging over my head, I kitted out my own dungeon furniture and made my own floggers and paddles etc. I am a chronic hobbyist and love to get lost in tasks. sewing, painting, I play the banjo, beading, wood work, cooking (the fun, not work kind), camping, and gaming. any kind of gaming too, computer, table top, board games, console, I'm not to picky.
I am a practicing Roman Catholic, though I don't let it get in the way of my sexuality or anything else for that matter. My deal is with God, not anyone else and if I'm wrong about my faith, well fuck I could have spent my Sunday mornings better I guess! XD
I love simple life and simple living, I'm an amateur bee keeper, I grew up in the middle of no wear and would love to spend more time nowadays back in the woods. I love the city, the night life, the social aspect, but sometimes all I want is to be lost in the woods. camping can only give me so much of that fix.

and if that hasn't COMPLETELY turned you off and you would actually like to know about my sexuality, here ya go!

I am a little dissapointed they don't have a "Pansexual" option on this site, I don't have an issue with people's gender or sex. I prefer women by a wide margin, but I'll suck a dick if it looked at me all sexy but I would prefer it if a Mistress was ramming my head down on it, I don't have a gag reflex, I may as well abuse it. right? I am a sub, masochist, and slave, and understand the differences between them. my biggest turn on is Domestic Slavery to be perfectly honest. As a slave, I feel the need to make my Mistresses life as comfortable as possible, its why I'm not as into pet play as I am other kinks, I feel rather useless as an animal. I like to cook, clean, bath, take care of Her in every aspect and deal with her needs and desires as they come up be they mundane, or sexual. I enjoy dehuminization and being treated as an It or Object more than a person by my Domme, and like to be used as a "human sex toy" used and then discarded. I enjoy group play, cuckolding, Gimping, and would love to be used as a "party favor" at some point in my life and have a bit of a Harem fetish, being in one that is. my ass is no virgin by any means and enjoy chastity play as well. I'm not to big into feminization, I'm a harry fucker and look TERRIBLE in tights, I know its kinda the point of humiliation, but its not so much humiliating, as disgusting! XD I'm also not as fond of CBT, cock, sure but not ball. being whipped, flogged, trampled, zapped, and all the other good little tortures are always fantastic and subspace is one of my favorite frames of mind to be in, and can slip away into it quite easily from a good flogging. But in the end, I am happy when my Domme is happy, a flogging is nice, but a smiling Mistress is Gold.

Enough about me, right? tell me about yourself :)