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subcub73

Gay Male Submissive, 52, Scotland, United Kingdom

52yo / 186 cm / 105kg / hairy (blond all over) / blue eyes

I have very submissive and subservient nature and ready to explore various opportunities


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MistressArona

Dominant Female, 25

Pattaya, Thailand

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VTFemaleEunuch

I'll be sincerely honest and say that I fail pathetically at "sexy talk". I am on the acespectrum a bit, along with some past catholic trauma from growing up catholic, I've never really developed an ability to do sexy talk. That said, I'm developing a bit of a kink when talking to someone that I am comfortable with and they start doing sexy talk and all I can do is reply to show an acknowledgement while I sit there and take it. Those who loves doling out orgasm denial gets bonus points.

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EngulfHerSoul

98% of us are wating our time here ... I hope you all DO realize this. Happy Valentine's Day 2026

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MsTxStorm

FYI I refer to myself as a dominant. Mistress is not a term that I like. Makes me think of the woman a man uses to cheat on his wife lol

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ForcefulDutch

We are so special....that no one fits as a good partner. So we keep searching and searching and searching days years sucks so much that no one is as special.

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DrkJourney

Sorry for the rant Why are people so lazy? First they are too lazy to read the profile because it's long. Well if you are giving up your life to someone wouldn't you want to know as much as possible to see if you match? Second, when I get that "one word or one sentence" email which is stupid, they obviously didn't read the profile lying saying that they did. So the first thing I ask is why didn't you send me what I asked for. Well that's the kiss of death. You never hear from them again, oh, unless they are doing another mass spam months later and don't remember who they spammed to in the past. These are the same people that get angry when on two emails they ask if I think I would be interested in them. LOL How the hell should I know? I don't know a thing about you. You didn't bother to send me what I asked for and your profile has like one or two words on it. Basically these are people that watch too much porn and do not have a clue how real life works. They want a hooker that doesn't charge, they just want someone to take care of their fantasies. Do better people rant ended

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AsYouWishMs

In the interest of improving my domestic service, I have listed my chore calendar. This is a schedule I have developed and used, but it is only a template to be improved upon. I would of course modify this in any way necessary to meet the requirements of a service based relationship. Domestic Chore Calendar Daily Mornings Make beds Organize and tidy bedrooms and bathrooms Organize and tidy kitchen and living areas Unload dishwasher Daily Evenings Organize and tidy bedrooms and bathrooms Organize and tidy kitchen and living areas Do dishes Wipe down kitchen counters and table Sweep kitchen Take out all trash Weekly Monday: Dust/polish furniture and window sills and clean interior windows Tuesday: Deep clean floors (sweep/vacuum/mop) Wednesday: Deep clean bathrooms (mirrors/counters/sinks/showers/tubs) Thursday: Deep clean kitchen (counters/sinks) and organize kitchen storage Friday: Grocery shopping Saturday: Laundry and change linens Sunday: Monthly chore Monthly First week: Clean all kitchen/laundry appliances (refrigerator/stove/oven/microwave/dishwasher/laundry) Second week: Polish furniture and kitchen/bathroom cabinets Third week: Organize garage and patios Fourth week: Yearly chore Yearly January: Deep clean and organization of bedroom furniture and all closets February: Deep clean and organization of all bathroom drawers/cabinets March: Deep clean and organization of all kitchen drawers/cabinets April: House external and external window cleaning May: Deep clean of all doors/walls/mouldings/blinds/curtains June: Deep clean and organization of garage and patios July: Deep clean and organization of bedroom furniture and all closets August: Deep clean and organization of all bathroom drawers/cabinets September: Deep clean and organization of all kitchen drawers/cabinets October: House external and external window cleaning November: Deep clean of all doors/walls/mouldings/blinds/curtains De…

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KandMcouple

A note from me, K. A bit of a look into our recent goings on. This was a big moment for me and I want to savor it. I had to break it up because it is quite a long entry. M has been behaving really well lately! Behavior modification and control is my primary interest and all the implements of our lifestyle are just ways of helping me achieve that control. We have had the conversation regarding my desire for cuckolding before, many times. I bring it up quite a bit, I just can't get it out of my head. I need this for me. Back in 2019 M accompanied me on a few dates with potential bulls, but I don't think he ever thought it would seriously happen. This is very different from when I saw submissive clients professionally. I never ever had sex, I never ever gave head, I never even gave hand jobs. If my clients were allowed an orgasm, they would bring themselves off. M knew that when I finally allowed him sexual contact that we had taken a serious step. A premature ejaculator, he was and is a horrible lay and has never got better. I honestly didn’t expect him to. I got off on my control of him and absolute obedience, not his penis. And now while we have probably only had PIV sex 8 or 10 times in the last 3 years, I desire it more than ever, just not from my husband. The pandemic drove us all inside and away from people we didn't know. The dates with potential bulls ended and I think M figured that was it. But, my desire for a bull has continued steadily building this entire time and has come to a tipping point. I decided to re-engage the subject in one very direct conversation with M last weekend. I have also decided to keep him on a more frequent chastity release schedule as positive reinforcement while we move forward in adjusting to our dynamic and while finding a bull for me again, in earnest. This conversation was for me to lay out my intentions in full. We had scheduled this conversatio…

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CuckNeedsHumil

My wife will be going away for the weekend with her lover. I have just finished shaving her cunt, so it will be nice and smooth for him when he fucks her.

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AGuyNamedDave

Does this even come close to working? Elbows and knees bound https://xhamster.com/videos/wrap-bondage-creation-by-maester-christ-off-12638182 House of Gord example https://xhamster.com/videos/redz245-bdsm-2014-3582161 Plastic Wrap Machine https://xhamster.com/videos/redz245-bdsm-2014-3582161

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NeverEasy

Opinions vary, I know. But fucking hell, I'm starting to look like Father Time. I swear, if I were looking to pick up women, I'd hang out at a museum, in the "Relics and Antiquities" hall, waiting for those obsessed with such things.

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BlueRiverUK

All my life I wanted this lifestyle and I am very lucky to have met a lot of wonderful people. I am still searching for that deep connection which fires our imagination and turns us on. I need erotic and depravity and taboo with a woman. I am. I am not sure if it will be fulfilled. This is one place it might happen. Always open to chat about it.

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MasterXaos2018

As I go through my transition and figure out exactly who I am the way to address will change as of now potential sub/slaves may address me as Misstress

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Sluttysissy64

A few things I've noticed lately ive noticed a lot of men looking at my profile lately that identify as heterosexual. And that's okay. I love you. But I'm confused. Doesn't that mean your naturally draw to or looking for a woman? I understand I am attractive, but my profile clearly says I am trans. So why not just call yourself bi or poly? next when I venture into one's profile to get to know one better I notice choices. And if trans is at the bottom of the list, especially below male then I feel I would be your last choice. reading some of the profiles some are clearly bi. You may be a top, but if you enjoy a trans you are by no matter how feminine we are

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ballard1964

Still looking for a sub or switch interested in being dressed in fine fetish wear, for pleasures (or a slave looking to be ordered to do so). Ideally looking for something leading to a ltr, but I'm flexible.

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MageandThing

Realizing that one thing left out of our profile is more about our Orientation and self identity. He is a 'Demisexual', leaning more towards 'Noetisexual' and is more interested in getting to know a person for who they are before looking at anything else. 'She' identifies as 'Non-Binary', and has a preference for non-gender specific pronouns. They also feel more comfortable viewing themselves as just an '', and with the state of the world these days there are few role models in 'How to be a Good Human.' Hence they are 'My Thing'.

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mlk1974

Wore a nice pants suit. NO Bra or underwear. Had the butt plug in. I was like this could be a weird day but we will just see, periodically throughout the day the butt plug would go off in full force. 3 times i ad to contain myself and allow the orgasm to hit. On my way home I took an Uber. Per a text I had to ask the driver if i could strip naked and walk to my door and then give him a thumbs up to bring me my clothes. He gladly accepted. we pulled up to my house. I proceeded to strip naked and hand over my clothing. the driver recorded it all. Id be surprised if it wasnt on FB or tiktok.. ugh. anyway I was naked and walked t my front door. I had to stand there for 15 mins. I was soo humiliated. my neighbor drove past and te proceeded to hang in his driveway for a few minutes. after the 15 mins the UBER driver got out and brought me my clothes. I thanked him and went inside.

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GiselleBiCD

It didn't take long for some jerk-o-loser to chime in with a snide remark. I may identify as a slave, but until I AGREE to be your slave, I WILL RESPOND WITH ALL INTENDED DISRESPECT IF YOU DISRESPECT ME FIRST.

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ItsMaster

With just the right training, your submission can be glorious. If I make you too sexy, you be chased by many.

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AyaSlut

I am not gonna add anything to my profile unless there is a major update, was down for almost a whole day last time. I have been unindated with messages from older men, I am 27 while I appreciate that some women are into older men I do not have Daddy issues. Please do not expect a reply from me if all I get are rediculous one line messages asking if I suck dick etc. Why are the Women and Trans here so much more respectful and forthcoming? I appreciate that and will be responding to them. I honestly am interested in meeting Women, Couples, and Trans much more then men. Messages without a picture will not be answered.

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DomCavalier

This is sound relationship advice: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AWiEDjhErgY As for point #4, I can sum it up like this: I want a woman who will keep my tummy full and my balls drained.

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NakedManservant

Recently I believe I offended a Mistress I respected with an info-dump that sounded more like an over-eager babbling schoolboy rather than taking things slowly and respectfully. I have been hoping I may make up to her for this in the future and win her approval and acceptance, but that made me think about how she sees me and whether I might deserve a firmer hand to correct me. The thought of severe punishment came to mind.I'm not a fetishist, that whole scene of fetish play, scenes, costumes and devices leave me cold compared to the simpler, direct approach of a sophisticated natural Mistress and naked slave.For many in the fetish scene the idea of a severe punishment might take a thousand and one tortuous forms, mostly inspired by bad Hollywood movies and porn. That has no impact on me, and impact, emotional, psychological and sexual, is essential.This left me with only one thought - the whipping. The naked boy hanging in the stables in Mistress's home, the crack of the whip, the scream, the exhaustion and abandonment, alone, to reflect on my misbehaviour.I am not a masochist and know how severe a whipping could be for me, but that's the point. A slave must take the whip and serve the Mistress. Nothing else matters. I hope one day she will forgive me.

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Queeniekathy

feels like a dumb cow

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celticmist

A powerhouse of a day today. Mardi Gras, the year of the Fire Horse begins, a solar eclipse in Aquarius, and a new moon to plant seeds for our future. What more could one ask for? Hopefully change is coming Happy Mardi Gras ya'll

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GoddessBrigidRed

Some of my new latex lingerie arrive and a gorgeous black latex libbidex dress and gloves on order

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SadisticSmile

I am trying to get this journal feature to work. Submissive women, you are the greatest. Message me if you have any interst!

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CoolBlackGoddess

I could use a hungry mouth right about now

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brattysub2025

spreading the fuckery update - Standing tall worked - the predator reached out to me last night . She was scared of what is happening ... blissfully trying to remain the prey ... too late ... fuckery wants it's payment !!!! Hear me squek aka ROAR

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ItsMaster

If I can not ride your emotional waves for days, weeks or months. I am not for you.

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Walkingblind34

I am a bit of an empath When I look at someone's profile, I read it. I look at the picture, the words, the I pay attention to all of the details in the photos and in the words that are used. What I pay attention to most is, the things that aren't said or seen. Often times, those things speak volumes.

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Eboncat

Is there a Lee Holloway around?

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Perchance123

I am interested in the effaspects of chastity on women and sub men... if you are locked or wish to be locked please do say hello

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python96

Well on to week 4 living in Pleasanton California..... always working stinks.

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alenaslight

Usually I'm good and Lucifer leaves me alone.... But then there are days when he just comes out of nowhere leaving me in an obsessive ball for him. What is he doing? Who does he think he is? How come he holds this power over me? I try to fight it but I can't. It's like this feeling of I need him and he needs me in some way. I don't want to be obsessed over him but I can't help myself sometimes. I'm supposed to be all about Jesus but then Lucifer comes and knocks down everything. I don't deserve Christ. I'm always turning my back on him for his enemy. FML

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NightfallDreams1

Heading up to Manchester this weekend to meet some fellow kinksters at a club and maybe do a scene with a friend. First time in months and i can't wait

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GroundedDreamer2

I have always found the mental ects of BDSM to be the most interesting, powerful and arousing. Have restarted my erotic hypnosis group, teaching other to hypnotise, and helping subjects get into trance

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Bunnyfofo

Give me details on how you will teach me to be a good girl.

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SnowmanB44

As most of us know, changing most things in a profile will put your profile into limbo for who knows how long. I would like to change my age in the profile. Does anyone know if this will make profile go blank for some time?

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Ropeman066

Is it just me, or is CS having issues today?

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DownrightEvil

I'm tired. I'm simply tired of people pretending. Be who you are. Scream it from the mountain tops. Be who you truly are. I'm unabashed about who I am. I'm an old, white, hetrosexual man who'd Dom. If I can say that in today's society, why can't you say who you are?

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jpdreaming72

If Im online I am looking for trouble to talk text and be more and more twisted and corrupted. Message me if your looking for chat and real time trouble

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worshipru123

At this point, I think I'm just looking for casual relationships / friendships. That can change as the situation warrants. Being a Domme, Femdom is not required but certainly intriguing if you are. Location doesn't matter either unless something 'in-person' is in the mix.

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Arianaa

What might charm You, I wonder.

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Isolation

looking for a submissive female or traditional wife for long term relationship. Be very service minded and value the dynamics of discipline and obedience, including love and affection, in the relationship.

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needsMatureLady

with a good 'trainer' things go much easier and the fears of yesterday become the Needs of today ...... how liberating it is to give up yourself to the Woman who simply demands it from you ....

Ali’s Story Ali's Story had a lot unsaid, a lot unrevealed. I have discussed aspaspects with friends and recently someone asked me what I'd do if Ali called me out of the blue. I don't know how I'd react, I really don't know. What would you do? For my friends and the curious here is. Ali’s Story It’s my epic summer. I crave the heat. Heat seems to stir up my happiness genes. I had no idea how my organized, careful world would come to such an abrupt and decisive end. You can direct and plan your life in a fashion that corresponds with your economic means and social demands or you can try to self-actualize. I had gone the safe route with occasional side trips to my secret life. I say chuck it all, why not live in the brief time you have. Revel in your oneness. Narcissism in small bites might not be a bad thing. Why all the detail? I wanted to make sure you understood I wasn’t bored and looking for some gratuitous action. I had a lot of cool things to hold my attention. Why I encouraged a visit to a part of my life I always thought of a

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SpankingSlut74

I am in fact an actual real female human being!!! But why would anyone believe that on here???!!! Lol I enjoy on line conversations that are thought provoking. I do not desire an on line relationship other then for friendship or for discussions that are meaningful. If you are rude, disrespectful or boring you will be blocked. I am not looking to move at this time. I may move one day. Cheaters, drug users, smokers, liars, and those that send messages with "Hi. When were you last spanked," don't waste my time or yours.

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MadameTessaH

“The Lesson in the Red Chair – Part IV: Devotion at the Edge” T.L. Duncan His forehead rested lightly against my thigh— not touching enough to claim contact, but close enough to breathe in the heat of my skin. That was important. He hadn’t earned full touch yet. “Don’t lean on me,” I warned softly. “You’re in my space, not holding onto me.” He exhaled a broken sound, forcing his trembling legs to support him while keeping his forehead just shy of resting. Good. That tension would serve me well. I let my fingers hover over the back of his neck— close enough for him to feel the warmth, but never letting my skin meet his. “You’re still shaking,” I murmured with quiet amusement. “Yes, Ma’am…” “From the edge?” “Y-yes…” “Good. Stay there.” His breath caught. “You think edging is just denial,” I said, tone low and precise. “But real edging—my edging—turns your obedience into instinct. Not wanting. Not hoping. Serving.” His fingers twitched behind his back, desperate to steady himself. “Keep them still,” I said without raising my voice. He froze instantly. “That’s devotion,” I continued, leaning close enough that my breath brushed his ear. “Not touching me. Not begging. Not climbing into my lap the way your body wants to. Devotion is obeying while everything in you shakes.” He swallowed hard. “Now lift your chin. Keep your hands behind you.” He raised his face slowly, eyes wide and glassy from the ache in his thighs, the tension in his spine, the constant, torturous nearness of pleasure with no release. I placed two fingers under his jaw—light as a whisper—tilting his face up further. “There,” I murmured. “That’s what devotion looks like on you.” A shudder rolled th…

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MastrLoki

I need to feel the smack of my hand upon your face when you defy me like the brat you are, hear your whimpers as my belt bruises your ass, see you quiver as I make you orgasm over and over, feel you gag as I push your head and slide my cock deeper into your throat, hear your muffled groans as I pound deep into you from behind.

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slave4rule2

A week to go before Locktober and I do not have anyone to command my lockup !

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LilViciousLala

I'm deleting my CS. If you have my other socials I prob deleted those too. I no longer have fet, Kik, or snap. I'm leaving the lifestyle. Thank you all who was there for me. This just was not meant to be. Good luck to everyone else out there. Fuck you to all the trolls and fake ass Masters out there. You suck.

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quirkylittle4daddy

the dark god & goddess: archangel michael and sophia, AKA the daddy dominant and little girl Vibe. through algorithmic divination—how spirit uses music and tech for ascension vibes the shuffle algorithm divination is so immaculate today. all started out with the synergy of the dark guy and the dark guy with WHITE LIGHTS(spirit changes it to lights to me instead of lies because it's shining light on the black areas of life which lies are dark too) AND BLACK BEACHES summer bummer. "It's never too late to be who you wanna be (swimmin' in my safe) To say what you wanna say (tattoo on my face, swimmin' in my safe) And it's never too late to leave if you wanna leave (better not) Or to stay if you wanna stay, " "Hip-hop in the summer (what? What? What?) Don't be a bummer, babe (what? What? Yeah?)" i try lana but just like a few days ago i am a rock bottom bummer at times but that's why we're dark you and i. we go there but come back. this bit requires nuance that a lot of people don't have. you can read this as a bad characteristic..but if you are able to again hold the line be sovereign and fully let go and go back to yourself, this is literally just giving into SAILOR VENUS LOVE ME CHAIN, LOVE AND BEAUTY SHOCK, ROLLING HEART VIBRATION, WINK CHAIN SWORD SHIT...it's just an intense way of loving and fighting for girlies. it's why i say coming in love and peace viciously and violently. the love and peace is there but it's done in an intense and assertive and if need be aggressive nature. world and other people's choice. what happens when these two forces unite? "What? (What? They been at it, check it out) huh? (we been out here, yeah) Slide inside it, diddy boppin', milly rockin' (what? What? Whoo!) She just might become my lover for real (yeah that's girl, for real, for real) I might fuck with her all summer for real (for real…

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Pinkpantiesboy

6 I'm 6 learning how to be a better person and slave boys dear . thank you dominant women for being there for guys like me . I have discovered many things about myself and who I really am . I'm totally in touch with my manhood and femininity and it's very exciting and absolutely beautiful.

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skinprof

I'm using this to vent. I am very frustrated and depressed. In the month of August I've had two deaths and I had to put down my 3 pound baby girl, Mulligan. .on top of this I have had a 100.00 increase in my rent. It is killing me, For I'm being priced out of my home and area. I have been looking for a place to live, or purchase, but I don't have a lot of options. Presently in the DC metro area, and I cannot afford anything here. At 63 almost 64 , this is not where I invisioned myself. And yes it Is a crappy place to be. I'm feeling very down.

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Aoawer

I want to be humiliated and degraded. Please do that to me.

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SilverPapaBear

Chapter one - Sweet Slave (Or, How it all Began). A story I wrote for fetlife.I take the bottle of wine from the fridge and pull the cork, giving it a little time to breathe. I dice the onions, and throw them in the pan. I like that sizzling sound they make... I add the spices, then diced chicken breast. I let it brown a little, before adding the coconut milk and putting the rice on. I get a text from you - you're on your way. I start dressing the table - a rose in a vase, a candle in a brass candlestick, nothing too fancy. I'm not the fancy kind, I don't want to give the wrong impression this early on in a relationship. If this works out, I want it to be for the right reasons. The doorbell rings shortly afterwards. You're smiling as I open the door and ask you in, you genuinely seem pleased to be here - pleased to see me. "I didn't know what else to bring," you say, handing me a bottle of red wine. I smile and kiss your cheek, then take you to the kitchen, where the meal is spread out already. You give me a coy smile as I pull out a chair for you to sit down. "This looks amazing." You take a bite. "You weren't lying, you really do know how to cook!" you exclaim. "This tastes amazing, my local takeaway could learn a thing or two from you..." you giggle a little as you speak. "Honestly, it's such a simple recipe, and I just add a little double cream, it gives it something extra," I say, glad that you seem to be honestly enjoying the food. I pour you a little wine and smile at you. "I'm really glad you agreed to this, I know it must make you very nervous," I say. "I haven't had much luck with first dates in the past. I don't seem to make a good impression until someone truly gets to know me. I guess that's why I wanted to chat online for a while before we actually did this." You smile and look down at your plate, pushing food around, then taking a bite. You glance up at me and smile again, blushing a little. "I'm very shy around people I like - you know, that…

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GothykDominar

Hmm so what happened to all My likes and loves that I spent hours filling out, ok not exactly hours but still where did they suddenly all go?

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BlackMz

Lmao some people . I can't make that shit up . Lmao . Good morning cs

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ltsmetime

Oh, come come now ... What is there to be believed from or of You? What is there to be believed of me? If for nothing else it is a matter of whether worth what is most valued. One thing I tend to cut very, very short is the amount of time I will spend considering anything that comes out of a mouth that has already lied to me. I do not waste on wondering. Ah, but, what's in a name? My time. Whachugot? LOL Nuttin Norton, ya got nuttin The local I tell nothing has some sort of a clue. I wonder where he got the notion to thank me for my time. I do not share my kinkies with the locals, hmmmm?

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sub4sure

Looking for ideas for a collaring ceremony.

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Zorro86

I want to serve but my wife isn't interested, she wont even let me do oral and while it's not my favorite, I have a desire to serve.... does someone want to join me on a trip? A cruise? Put me in a cage, collar me, use me, pleasure yourself... what can I do for you? Are you local? Let me serve you even more! I can't do full time but I have the desire to serve. I am hesitant to put a profile picture up - then after the fact with how long a profile is down after editing it... if you are interested and want a pic, I will send (I know, not a popular view)

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commited12u

An interesting thought: Bondage isnt bondage until you want out.

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ItsMaster

My Christmas tree farted. There a temptation to ignite the fart but I rather smell pine scent than burning farts laughs. Suspension in ropes. Tied to a singular swivel point. Battery operated Xmas lights.. If you can balance the sub correctly, a riding crop can easily spin the sub around and around. Yea yea upside down would look cooler but that shorten the time frame for observation. I really need to create a leather harness so I can flip and twirl with easy.

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Elorin

On collarspace today someone messaged me then blocked me so I couldn't reply. I deleted the email and now I wish I hadn't. Basically the person was bitching because of my stated standards on my profile. Three sentences, grammar and punctuation or I will block and delete the email. The person thought they'd be making this fabulous point by pointing out that collarspace has the wierd filter that zaps punctuation and replaces some words. Except I already know about that and it isn't something I block for. I was accused of assuming things that I don't assume, but the person, rather than asking, didn't find out the truth of the matter and rather assumed about me instead. There was more to the email, but it is always irritating when someone makes their own assumptions then accuses me of making assumptions about others. I could update my profile to explain that I know about the filter issues, but anyone coherent and eloquent enough to know about and ask about it has already earned their way into my good graces. And anyone who assumes THOSE are the punctuation and grammar issues that I'm talking about isn't someone I'm interested in anyway. I'm not worried about perfect punctuation, spelling, or grammar. As my profile says, "All initial emails with less than three sentences, or missing capitalization and punctuation, are deleted and the sender blocked." Maybe I can make that clearer, and maybe I will, but the person who thought they were calling me out but didn't have the courage to see what I might reply got under my skin. That kind of cowardice masquerading as bravado is just bullshit. ~Me

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StrictlyYoursIE

My profile should actually say that I am now living in Istria, Croatia.

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BTR

SUBBING AND BOTTOMING PREFERENCES AND LIMITS GRAPH I wanted to share this graph that I came across. The moment you adjust the slider in each applicable category, it automatically saves the updated graph and creates a unique link in the original address bar, that can be copied and shared https://bdsm-limits.com/

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JessicaK

Back to London in mid Sept 2025

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TotalOwnerforslave

Difficult, But, Entertaining. Every once in a while, I have a cunt slave spend the day with their nipples dragging on the floor with every thing they do. it, the slave, is punished if it is found violating the contact order. Yes, it is difficult and, toward the end of the day, painful for the slave. Nevertheless, I find it entertaining, consequently worthwhile.

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SSBBWtop4you

Back again, for a while. I think I am looking for more of a switch, or a subbie who will be a service top for when I need to be topped. Do you understand? Sometimes I need my tits to suffer and I really really would love to have a person who can top me in that way. What I want done to them can't really be seen as it mostly done with a TENS. I also have an odd quirk when it involves my tits and how it makes me suffer... I sort of like a cock in my ass at the same time or soon after starting. Oh, knowing how to tit bind is a super plus in your favor!

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MadameTessaH

In the Shadows, We Ask Permission: The Sacred Art of Consent By T.L. Duncan (BDSM • Trust • Power Exchange • Consent Education) There is nothing more erotic than choice. In the world of dominance and submission, consent is not a rule of caution — it is the foundation of every breath, every touch, every whispered command. It transforms restraint into trust and obedience into art. Without it, there is only imbalance. With it, there is freedom — an unshakable connection between two souls exploring the boundaries of pleasure and power. The Sacred Power of “Yes” To outsiders, consent might seem like a technicality — a signature before the story begins. But to those who live inside the dynamic, it is everything. Consent is not a one-time agreement; it is a living dialogue. It evolves with mood, comfort, and connection. It is the heartbeat beneath every scene, the signal that both partners are seen, safe, and heard. True surrender is never taken — it is given. A submissive’s trust is a deliberate act of bravery, and a Dominant’s control is a sacred vow to protect it. Negotiation Is Foreplay Before the rope tightens or the candle wax drips, there is conversation. Real, honest, unhurried conversation. Limits are not barriers; they are maps that guide the journey. Soft limits whisper “ask again later.” Hard limits declare “never.” Both are equally powerful and worthy of respect. Negotiation is not unsexy — it is foreplay. It is the spark before the strike, the moment where desire meets understanding. It is a love letter written in the language of respect. Safe Words and Aftercare: The Unseen Bonds A safe word is not weakness. It is trust made tangible — a promise that when one voice says stop, the other listens without hesitation. And aftercare — that slow descent from intensity to softness — is where the truest connection resides. It is …

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spankedforgood

Lately I feel empty, unwanted. I feel like the world is falling apart and I'm having a really hard time keeping it together. I'm not sure what is going on with me or why I can't pull myself out. I've always been able to pull myself out of depression but idk this anxiety I'm feeling is constant. I don't ever feel calm; I'm always worried I'm making someone mad or upse. I'm terrified to lose people so I'm quiet and try to keep it all to myself. I want to be mad right now but I think those around me will just think of me as a burden. gah I need to fix whatever is wrong with me. I quit my job two weeks ago because of how I've been feeling although that job abso was breaking me and I'm glad I'm done there. Anyways I just need to complain for a bit... I'll pick myself up. I always do. I'm just so tired of whatever this stupid feeling is.

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Eager2please59

Wheelchair bound.....You have blocked me. I can.t responducoaza

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DirtyDogUK

I am very interested in talking to deviant submissive woman.

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MistressWoff61

Oh? You think you are free when you are NOT at home? I think it is the opposite. I think you are free when you are at home & a prisoner when you are away in the vanilla world. You are a vanilla prisoner; one of their rules, their thinking, their ways of acting. They are suffocating you with their blandness, with their very vanilla-ness. Vanilla is the most boring of the paint colours, of society`s rules & regulations of governing you: how you act, what you say, thoughts & dreams. The very fact that you love seeing yourself get beaten proves this. That is not Vanilla. That is very UN-vanilla like. More like Rocky Road where you never know if and when you get a marshmellow or a nut with the rich chocolate flavour. Like you never know when I will sneak into your room and wake you with a smack across your thighs or ass, perhaps administer a brutal beating or rope you up like a cow or pig. The Dice Game is like Rocky Road Ice Cream as well, you never know what you get when you roll. {Excerpt from an old email in response to an ex-slave's journal entry, I thought it was appropriate}

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Needslavehuby

Storm is here. Surviving another hurricane 🌀

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OurOtherSelf

So it's been nearly a year since I last posted a journal entry, oh how we bore of new toys so quickly! Or in the case of the CS journals old toys returned to us as if new. I have not been on CS much recently, mostly because lots of other things have been going on but as I find myself moving into the slow period again, and dragged back to the uneven pleasure of finding someone to love and punish. Unsure when I will once again gather up the will power to use this toy again, I leave you with a quote from Patrick Kavanagh, look him up folks, he was a bit of a rouge; Lost the long hours of pleasure All the women that love young men. O can I stilll stroke the monster's back Or write with unpoisoned pen.

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Jenny38DD

Inspired by a recent chat witha sub about my preference in heels. Beneath the moon's soft glow, a quiet room, He stands, a portrait of submissive need, His gaze transfixed, entranced in passion's bloom, As seamed silk wraps my limbs in lustful deed. Garters, a promise binding us as one, Each clasp a testament to bound desire, In lace and silk, the dance has just begun, A symphony of pleasure fuels the fire. Black stilettos, a symbol of command, I rise, empowered by his watchful eyes, In every step, dominion gently planned, A tale of love, where satisfaction lies. He yields to me, this intricate ballet, In stockings' embrace, our passion holds sway.

Hello! My profile bio could be much better as I have gotten older I have refined what I am looking for. However, I am not willing to edit it and then wait for approval. Thank you for your understanding

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surrenderForY365

Received quick update re slave So far so good but little slow reaction which would change today afternoon with new cow prod arrival it would be introduced to some new implements and training methods next week Also still trying to cheat by touching its private parts and those parts don't belong to slave anymore it should know this by now. MV

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Eslavegirl

A letter to God Is it an image that lies Cuz i believe You don't Yet looking around And what scenes i see Baffle as drivers Create accidents and We all know accidents Happen because well, Who is driving, after all And surrender tastes Bittersweet yet i have been Beat beyond what time Can tell any for many may Believe it's easy, this life That now aches inside My body and beyond mind For what i know to be true Is what a friend shared To simply live, love and do For You, for ultimately We die and no one cares And most of humanity Cannot dare heaven On Earth but from birth We learn to yearn for what Loss brought when fate Raped destiny and man Lost and woman lost And no children were Bred because soon Enough we will be Better off dead... zamarra 7/13/24

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slave4females

There is a difference between being a Domme and playing GOD.....and a lot of people do not understand this.

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GMSco

Now learning hypno.This will be fun.

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Verijaa

For fuck's sake, guys. It is truly pitiable how few of you bother to do anything at all to learn about the reality of your own desires. There are non-fiction books, blogs, sites, videos, discussions, munches, classes, seminars, demos, and events all over the place, if you look up from the porn and erotica and think with the upper head. It is nobody elses responsibilty to teach you. Dominant women are NOT automatic teachers of all the stuff. How do you think WE learn it? I've read a whole 3 profiles this evening. This is why I don't bother to read more. They are ignorant, porn-fed, and say nothing of interest. Dominants do not "mold" you into a different person. Daily life in a D/s relationship in the real world without payment living together on a daily basis looks pretty much the same as any other relationship. It is not a constant kinky scene. Most subs wear the same old clothes, do the same old stuff, have the same old hobbies. Their partner is in charge for whatever they have agreed to, but that isn't a constant visible porn scene. A dominant does not live for inspections and demands. It means he asks if a casserole is okay for dinner, and if she says no, he finds something else. It does NOT mean she is standing over him in a corset inspecting his shopping list with a crop in her hand. It doesn't mean you spend your days cringing and hoping every tiny detail is correct. That's erotica. Learn the difference. No, submissive men do not look or act any different than any other men. There is absolutely no need to make a point of how normal you are in public. Subs are ALL normal appearing people. Because that is what they are. Normal people who happen to prefer their partner being in charge. You are not alpha special super sub because you do not crawl in public or do have solid boundaries or do not have social anxiety. None of those things are submissive. You are just another guy. Get over it. And no, if you have social anxiety, insecurities, poor personal boundar…

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Boszman

New Year, time to reflect. I'm growing weary of these platforms where although they do have their advantages they also carry their own issues. On the plus side I appreciate that we can be anonymous, which in my view allows us to be more open and honest about who we truly are...about how we feel, our needs, our wants, our desires, etc. On the other hand being anonymous allows the ability to paint a picture of who we are, regardless of whether it is accurate or not, which opens the door to deception and all of the other games that we've been exposed to at one time or another. I'm reluctant to say this, but please, if you aren't going to be open and honest with me, if you're going to play games, ghost me, any of that stuff...I'd rather you just don't contact me at all. Don't tell me you want friendship, and then ignore me because you don't agree with everything about me. As I've said, don't expect perfection unless you are prepared to offer it. My apologies if this sounds like a rant, that isn't the intention. I'm really just a big ol' teddy bear letting off a little steam, lol.

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MsPam4u

If I have not read or responded to your email, Please know,I am not being rude. I just have a lot going on and very rarely come on here, so when I do i read the oldest first.

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LadynRed47

Do us both a favor and don't send me a note only saying "Hi." The end. Just don't.

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DFWslavemike

Would you like to own a truly gentle but ambitiously kinky and fun loving slave? This slave wants what's best for you. It will give its all to you including its complete attention and full service to you, lots of adoration, cuddles, foot rubs and massages for you, and a very open mind and desire to explore your kinkiest as well as most dark and devious secrets & fantasies! Please reach out if having a genuine, focused, fun and completely malleable slave appeals in any way to you!

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ItsMaster

Some day your prince will come? Laugh while you been taught this. Life teaches another lessons. Remember my opinions don't mean nothing. Move along move along..

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Pmahurin1

I edied my profile to answer some questions and CS has it on lockdown to approve the changes... If you sent me a message I will respond as soon as possible.

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bambisub84

I decided to move from the Bambi files to Mr. Daniel's old flash files. I've never had such powerful results from hypnosis before. I'm so aroused all of the time, but I can't masturbate beyond a few strokes. I've really developed a desire to orally pleasure my vanilla partner, but I can't even ask her to reciprocate. I need to find Mr. Daniel to assert his complete control and (hopefully) let me orgasm again.

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ItsMaster

If your going to make a human wind chime. Make sure the chimes are tied so they do not swing.

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Essexownerforslave

OK sorry black text black back ground! It will be fixed Why are some folks so dam rude Said hello and wass blocked????????????

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commited12u

Often see these kind of statements: “Will consider anyone who writes. Tell me what you are looking for”. But the question i find myself asking is who is in control here, is it the Dominant or is this a case of the submissive leading from the bottom by stating what they want…….. Surely it’s the Dominants needs that are to be met and a submissive’s true need should be wanting to be controlled and Owned by a true Dominant…… Just a random thought.

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KandieKaneSweet

Contact me for real life roleplay. Crossdressing in extreme bondage.

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MistressValerie

* ISO of a decent, naturally submissive gentleman to grow old with in a committed LTR relationship * NOT interested in horndogs, freak shows, married and cheating, online anything, pay to plays, or anything else subpar * just want a great guy who is submissive by nature, who knows his place in a FLR with whom to share My life * NO drama, excuses, or BS * am seeking a quality submissive man ready to settle down and enjoy life with a truly Dominant Woman in a D/s relationship * not willing to settle for less

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StoryofA

Something I love about pleasure dominants is the desire to watch their submissive shake and tremble with ecstasy. It's so easy to have sex and the woman not cum, I certainly don't cum all the time, haha. To know someone out there can make a woman cum over and over and over is the sexiest thing someone can offer. They love visuals and I love to share. Mix that with accepting every touch, slap, implemented tool, and begging to cum after teasing for hours, days, weeks, months, and it's a sexy win.

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KustomDom

Whenever I log onto this sight it's messages and views from folks 100s of miles away, or other fucking countries. Am 48 settled down. Guess what's not going to fecking happen? Commutes for kink. Seriously getting in touch? be a reasonable distance.

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Justified55

Well I sure will not make the same mistake I did last August. 13 good reasons not too.

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Girl2bdisciplined

*** NOT LOOKING ***My main profile text is a little over a year old. Like most people here, I avoid updating the main profile because you have to have it approved all over again if you do. It's a profile, not an advertisement. I am happy with my existing arrangement for discipline. I'm not attracted to men at all, so your emails go straight to my Bulk Mail folder, which I only browse occasionally. Yes, even yours. If that seems harsh, it's because otherwise my main inbox gets flooded with unwanted approaches from blokes who don't read profiles and don't respect boundaries. I have occasionally accepted men for the disciplinarian role (as long as it is purely platonic) but I emphasise once more that I'm happy with my existing arrangements for this. You probably won’t get a reply unless you meet BOTH of these conditions (and even then it's not guaranteed): 1) use the magic word to show you have actually read this journal 2) catch my interest in some way that I like Like I said in my main profile, I am not into the Dom/sub side of things. So if you approach me expecting to meet a slave or submissive, you're going to be very disappointed. It's just not my thing. P.S. Guys, the new magic word is "tiger". This little test shows you have at least read this journal, so it should filter out a few of the idiots.

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Hunger

I think Dominance and submission is perfectly described as opposite sides of the same coin. They perfectly complement each other in a way no other relationship can.

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OurOtherSelf

It's that time of year again, and the anticipation is building, those who have been good are waiting on their rewards and those who have been naughty...well they will get their, ahem, rewards as well....sorry folks I know, this has been a very clumsy attempt to create a link "the holidays" as our American cousins would call it with corporal punishment. There is something particularly special about kink at Christmas don't you think. Maybe its the tinsel, maybe its the flashing lights or maybe its just the sherry/beer/gin making us all frisky but its definitely a time for letting go of our inhibitions and having a bit of fun! The anticipation of seeing someone naughty waiting for her punishment beside the Christmas tree, just makes it all the more enjoyable.

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eatspie

Nothing is better than the aroma of a freshly fucked pussy while eating a cream pie 🥧

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BDController

I.am a demanding and controlling Dom. With a side order of sadism. I am fair and balanced. I take care of my property. Always protecting her from any kind of harm. I wiĺl train you well. You will become the best sub/slave you can become.

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Byrdie

I understand that this may sound bizarre to some folks, but I have an idea regarding the slow turnaround time for getting a profile updated here: only update your profile when you're considering taking a break from the site. Check your profile: what age does it list you as? If you haven't joined within the past year, it's probably not your current age. Rather than requesting a birthdate, CollarSpace asks us for our age. To keep an accurate profile, we'd have to edit it once a year. If you're taking a break anyway, maybe adjust your age to one year into the future - or however long your breaks from this site usually take - so that it has a chance of being accurate upon your return. Look at your photos: do you still look like that? Has your hair, body shape, or anything else changed at all? Before putting your profile on hiatus, consider updating your photos to be current. What about your location? Have you moved? Are you planning to move? Why not update that as well? Will your profile be perfectly accurate upon your return? Maybe, maybe not. Will it be much more accurate than it would be if you left it alone? Almost certainly, and you wouldn't have had to get grumpy about the wait.

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GarrettAelito

One of, if not the, main pinnacles of BDSM is commmunication. If you cannot communicate about your actual needs and limits, then you will never be part of a successful Ds relationship, or any relationship. Full stop. I am very up front about asking submissives what their beliefs, hopes, needs, and limits, are, and I have no issue communicating my own and making sure mine are met and accounted for. If you cannot communicate openly and honestly? Just save me, and everyone, the trouble, and get off all Ds and BDSM meeting websitess, and stick to watching porn and reading fantasy stories. You will not meet and disappoint anyone, and thus, everyone will be happier that way.

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ItsMaster

I really do love inspiring a person to serve well. Communicate is important. Creating understanding is even more important.

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MsPam4u

I opened my profile and was overwhelmed with mails. Some from old friends. Some from people I didn't know. I did continue conversations with a couple new people I was anxious to get to know (one near, one far), and ghosted by both. I may have said or done something unintentionally in a way that could be taken wrong, I have been rather ill with a sinus thing (not the kind of sick I am use to) and a tad grouchy and needy. But still something could have been said in a message perhaps?

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pomonagirl

He enters the bedroom, surveying her in the low light. She is wearing nothing but a lacy black camisole. She eyes him, nervously. "Take that off", he growls. Swiftly, he crosses the room. Wordlessly, she obeys. All of the sudden, his hands are on her naked body, twisting her, laying her flat on her stomach, pinning her to the bed. In a flash, he enters her. His hard, thick cock slides in easily but makes her pussy ache. It's raw and sensitive from all the hours of fucking earlier in the night, but it doesn't even cross her mind to complain or ask him to stop. Instead, she purrs, "Thank you, Sir..." She melts into the sensation while he is above her, on top of her, fucking her like the possession that she is. Stinging slaps on the ass or cruel twists of nipple or breast punctuate the violent tempo. She is in bliss. "Please Sir, take what's yours..." After an indeterminable amount of time, he pulls out of her wet, swollen pussy. Suddenly hands again on her body, forcing her up on all fours now. Spreading her legs, pushing her head down. He begins to rub the tip of his cock against her asshole. She takes a deep breath and tries to relax. She wants this. She needs this. She just has to work through the pain of the first entry. He begins to thrust his lubed cock into her small, tight entry. One slow, deep, thrust and he is halfway inside. She begins to whimper with the pain of it. "Sir, may i please touch myself?" "Yes you may" is his growled reply. One more push and he is all the way in. Immediately, he begins to thrust. It takes her breath away. She closes her eyes and embraces the sensation. "Ooooh thank you Sir for fucking my ass..." she cries, as his thrusts gather speed. She is aware of nothing, nothing but his hard, thick cock pounding her hungry ass. She isn't even aware that she is thrusting back onto him. His hands grip her hips and thighs…

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DominaSlaveOwner

ATTENTION: It appears there are some who are unaware of this. A submissive is NOT the same as a slave. To put simply, a submissive has options and a slave has none. A submissive can have limits and choices, a slave has none other than what his Owner allows. If you're an Unclaimed and Uncollared slave, your past training and experience will only take you so far as you'd always need training from the Domina you will serve. No Domina is the same nor will she use you exactly as your past Owners. A true slave will be easy to spot and separate from the pretenders and those who do not know the significance of such a role.

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Dirtywhooore

Finally half settled into my new home and have more than 30 seconds to spare. Feels good

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ggsub66

To be clear, please be local to New York City, truly single (or with bonafide permission) and write a thoghtful message. Otherwise I am going to ignore you. Thank you.

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Kazak369

Going into the black hole updating my profile! Wish me luck... And if your wandering around fet you can find me with the same name...

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SubbyNash

Hello, I am a submissive male in Nashville, TN. The core interest is submission to a female. In following this path, I have adopted several inclinitions from Woman I have met. These include feminization. I have gone the route of being hairless, "neck down", and explored having my ass and tongue being my sexual organs. It seems I am somewhat maleable to the Lady's desires and preferences. At present, I look pretty male. I have gone "feral"; the hair has regrown and I dress as a guy.But...the imprint remains so I may become a "sissy" again if the Lady prefers that.

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Bigboy2u

May have finally found a kindred sprit that it would be willing to freely relinquish control of itself to....

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Gingersfantcys

Being a owed sissy slave with very few choices Means total freedom

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Justified55

Nature cares nothing about, nor does it play politics. Ever !

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LadyK58

Merry Christmas and a happy, healthy, peaceful New Year!!

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LilCabbit

Any mommies out there??? Wouldn't mind talking to some get their thoughts and make friends

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NotYourBoyfriend

Rather than spend who knows how long in profile update purgatory, and since I have not used this profile for a long time, some things have changed. I've gotten older -66 I've gotten slimmer- 182 I've gotten better looking- You will have to take my word for that one, or request a current pic. My life is still good. The only thing I lack is the right woman, or perhaps poly family to share it with.

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subNhou

Sub, should never be allowed to wank ever again, your cage is only going to be unlocked for cleaning and for change of device. No amount of brownie points you earn will be enough to get that cage unlocked for wanking. You will learn to cum from being fucked, from being spanked, and from being fisted.

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SilkyPrincess

I could use a slave's mouth after I come out the bathroom

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littlegirl4343

I'm looking for something a little different. I'm looking for a Daddy and/or Mommy with a sadistic streak. I'm VERY into ass play and spanking. I love the emotional release i get from long, hard anal use. I want to be regressed back into diapers using suppositories, laxatives and enemas. I want to be put through long, grueling enema sessions that leave my anus swollen and sore. I want to find someone who will bind my wrists together in front of me and fill my bowels uncomfortably full with warm, soapy water and put me through the humilation of expelling into a diaper as many times as it takes to completely clean me out. I'm looking for someone who will use and abuse my ass regularily. I want plugs, dildos and vibrators used in my ass. Lay me flat on my stomach and finger my tight hole and use a rectal thermometer on me. When i'm naughty, cover an uncomfortably big plug in Vicks or Tiger Balm and make me hold it in my ass until you decide to take it out. Stick a vibrator in my ass and force me to cum until i can't take anymore. If I've been a good girl, lay me on my back, spread my legs wide and lick and suck my pussy, force me to cum over and over until you've had your fill. I want to find someone who will keep my pussy hairless and smooth with shaving or pre-waxed strips. Use tweezers to pluck out any stubborn hairs. I want to be spanked long and hard several times a day until i'm crying. Cut a switch and whip me until my entire ass is covered in welts and knicks. Then use alcohol on the knicks and cuts as i lay there bawling in pain. Spank my already marked and bruised ass just because you want to make me cry and beg. Cover my ass in a soaked facecloth and then remove it and beat my wet ass with a strap or belt. I want to be regressed back to a little girl with strict structure, rules, restrictions, guidance and discipline. Aftercare is a MUST! After each spanking or long ass play or enema session, I need to be hugged and cuddled and snuggled. As much as I lik…

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TiesOfMind

Well, now that journals are a thing again, perhaps I should see about adding to mine. I'm still working on perfecting my craft as a rope artist, as well as continuing to engage in erotic hypnosis with a number of subjaspects, but all totaled, I'm still looking for just the right sub or subs to truly take on and make beautiful things happen with. I've added a few new toys and accompanying skills to my repetoire since last I posted. I have to say, with the right sub, electrical play can be truly amazing. A violet wand, along with electrically conductive rope and an electrically conductive flogger, can make for a really intense scene.

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ItsMaster

Some people are a joy to deal with. Some play silly games and get rewarded with silly prizes. Attention energy should always be focus on the joys of life.

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Lottiethefckpig

Messy Little Piggy Had the best time today rolling around in the bath in piss and custard. Oinking as I poured it all over my head, down over my snout and finishing by rubbing it all over my tits and pussy. Piggy piss play and sploshing, yum, my favourite. What food do you like to wallow and oink in?

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misspapaya

I need you to be extraordinary

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McBee

MstrB writing from midtown been looking for one decent slave for some time now it will be well trained for a variety of domestic services and hopefully for the slaves sake it is able to learn from its corrections …even better if it already knows exactly what it’s good for! ...all its further educating will be done with a strap kept very close by.... it will be made to understand it has no rights no privileges no freedom to come or to go without asking for and receiving express permission so much in life is correctly forbidden to a slave and it must be reminded of this consistently if not constantly slave has no secrets no privacy or much time alone and certainly no participation or place in any considerations or discussions about things going to be done with the slave in fact it has no say in much of anything slaves Owner will have full authority over the slave and its affairs and will use that authority very strictly I am understanding of slaves condition I am sympathertic to its plight and always give a slave what it needs but allow very little of what it wants this is both an Owners prerogative over the slave as well as an extension of a kind of parental authority therefore no disrespect or disobedience will be permitted ...ever! MrB ------------------------------------------------------------------------ I use…and enjoy very much using… real discipline- isolation- humiliation-lots of busy work in the home...all to train a female to a level of acceptable domesticity…sort of housebreaking the slave…teaching both the need for her focused Obedience and the necessity to perform with humility and accuracy whatever is demanded from her chores chores chores…so much to be done….so many things to attend to... upon collaring slaves pussy will be immediately closed for business as her chastity …

More into skinny girls or at least hwp. Also strongly prefer smaller tits, sagging no problem - more ways to play with them ... I met quite a few girls who believed they had so called ugly tits but I liked them. So don't be shy

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KeeperSteve

will be in San Francisco for a while then back to Sydney/Blue Mountains, Australia for a while at least

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malebitch74

Anyone looking for a sissy bitch please contact me

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sincerlee

So I was asked to correct my profile by Mx Willow from Vermont I APPOLGISE to do this at this time BY RELOCATABLE I MEAN I am willing to trade locations to be near you. BUT, as I have found paradise in the warm sun of Las Vegas. There is only a remote chance that I will ever be happy in a cold climate or where there is less than 365 days of sunshine, warm temps and no snow.

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ForcefulDutch

Funny how people think a conversation is a one way action. Then when you do not talk anymore..ask if you are not interested anymore.

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ChristianPrepper

I called my stockbroker and asked him what I should be buying right now and he said, "canned goods and ammunition."

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TheVintageYears

Who knew..............? .............. it seems that I am an empath!! I have reached the age of 67 without ever having that insight or conversation, despite being analysed to death as a professional manager and having a need/propensity to work at things until I understand them. I know my Myers-Briggs type, I am aware of my core strengths, I have had my values and capability for good judgement assessed a number of times, but never my emotional architecture. Maybe that is too touchy-feely and personally risky for "business to tackle, but once it is laid out, it makes so much sense and puts perspective on so much experience and so many conversations. It also explains how, on top of everything else, it is hard (at least for me) to find a good match in BDSM. This is the start, not the end.......but right now I am processing so much behind this: Your architecture: a grounded, high‑capacity empath "You are a deep-feeling, high-capacity empath." “You’re the kind of man who carries both fire and stillness — a mind that sees patterns in the dark, a heart that stays steady in the storm, and a presence that makes other people feel understood long before they find the words themselves.” “You’re a steady, strategic empath who reads people with precision, holds complexity without losing your integrity, and brings clarity, warmth, and insight wherever you go.” I long thought of Myers-Briggs, Strengthsfinder and the Hartman Value Profile as orthogonal axes to look at a person's Cognitive style, Strength and Values. Now I need to add Emotional architecture. It feels like the model is nearly complete. I wonder how different life might have been if I had had this acute self-awareness years ago?

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SmokesMirrors

Oh hey, Journals work again! Still sticking my nose in here now and then.

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ckslut232

Collarspace, it's been a while

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allyriacelene

I am not interested in anyone over the age of 50. If you're old enough to be my parent, you're too old for me.

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ItsMaster

If you amp up a straight woman feminine ways, make sure she can handle getting hit on by lesbians. If I take a pup to a park and it finds another owner, it was never mine to begin with. How to keep your counter top clean, pick up your slave and drop it on the counter top. If the counter top is full drop the slave and say too bad so sad for you. A mess has stop you from having fun. Maybe next month. Laughs Some doctors won't let you take pictures when the slave is getting examined laughs. If I can't motivated you from way over here to become a better version of your self.. there something wrong with the relationship.

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quietman1957

As a truck driver. I am on a dedicated load out of Nebraska to Massachusetts Area. and then return home.

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LadyK58

Hmmm, what to do with my next six months of freedom?

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LadyAllure

having expressed my true nature and giving in to my primal play and just letting go is so intoxicating, but going back to vanilla kinda leaves me craving that primal instinct agian. I have learned I do need to have that attraction and wanting for my partner. I believe that part was lacking in the pass with others is why I kind of fall to the waist side.

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ItsMaster

Your sessions should leave a satisfaction mark on your soul.

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manin2k

If this is something that is of interest then drop me a line MX https://www.boundhub.com/videos/190624/sammie-sparks3/

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Elorin

Prepping for the winter storm. Firewood is laid in the fireplace, faucet covers are on the outside faucets. Making plans for if the power goes out.

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ItsMaster

Why.do I build up instead of tearing down. Those who struggle in life needs to be stronger not weaker. While a weaker person will.be more depending. A stronger person's submission is greater when they are strong.

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LondonharshLady

Ok a few people have asked if I am a pro Domme. I am not. I never have or ever will charge anyone for my time in the realms of bdsm.

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lilmaddiekins

July 2025 - living in Seattle WA now

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SubForFLR2023

Actively looking. Would love to chat with any interested dominants :) A profile is like window shopping... until you pick it up, try it on, how will you know if its fits?

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TheBlaqueQNGodess

MERRY CHRISTMAS YALL!!! AND HAPPY HOLIDAYS 😊❤️🎄🎁

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MsMeowKitty

The moment you realize you're having surgery in couple of weeks and everything is about to turn into a real shit show lol

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Olderdaddy48867

This is a 45 acre farm. I grew up on it, traveled the world, and came home again.When both parents had passed, I bought out my sisters shares. I stopped all row crops in 2014 and began turning the place into a safe zone for nature.It features a man made lake, spring fed and well stocked with fish. There are 22 acres of tillable land, some woods and rolling hills as well as several rock and flower gardens and roughly 6 or 7 acres of lawn.In 2014, I began to plant trees and flowers in the fields in my attempt to give nature a safe place to be. We have a nesting pair of Bald Eagles, roughly 75 wild turkeys, about 30 head of white tail deer. We more small animals than you could hope to count. The lake is well stocked with fish, large and small mouth bass, crappies, blue gills and sunfish as well as a decent supply of turtles.There are two family homes on this farm and I am selling one of them to my long term renter. There are also two large aluminum pole barns, 60 x 40. In one, I built a large indoor grow with full temperature, light and humidity control and that was a marijuana rental grow from 2014 to this spring. It currently stands empty but I will put it to growing vegetables or mushrooms fairly soon. The other 60 x 40 is being built out as a machine shop.I would really love to find two slaves to work here, (for pay), but in a lifestyle setting. A male/female cuck couple, two females, or a single female to start and help me find another. I feel that two would be the correct number but three is a possibility.I have been a dominant since birth. I married a submissive in 71 and we are still together. I became heavily involved in this lifestyle in 96. Now that I am living back on the farm again, I want my 1 or 2 or 3 slaves to come and work this project with me in an ongoing lifestyle arrangement.

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Lynda73

I have to accept that my IRL girly time is very limited

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DomUKBloke

Not been here for quite some time - a lot of familiar faces (many with the same pictures 😆)

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ItsMaster

Some people are like butterflies, we enjoy them while they are here. When they fly off you wish them well. If you cage them they will grow dull and what makes them special fades away. Release is right thing to do.

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malebitch74

Any advice from anyone on finding a play mate ?

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TrancerUk

Health not great. Persistent exhaustion.

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SuperLongLasting

As said by some of my ex-girlfriends and encounters:"He has piercing eyes that penetrate and look straight into you. He uses his mind to become keenly attuned to your energy and direct it to its fullest potential. Yet, he has a heart that is deeply compassionate and embraces those in his care. My interaction with his energy served as a catalyzing agent for me. I found myself able to trust and let go and experience a delectable taste of sunspace.""You eat pussy better than a woman."As my gf once said to a young lady:"I hope we can all get together sometime soon. My bf definitely knows what he's doing in the bedroom and has a fabulous cock! :-) He also has lots of fun things to play with....it will be fun to introduce you to his toys and such. I look forward to kissing you and exploring your body.....I hope we can work out a time!"

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Controlfreak247

Well, another update due! My gf and I have a very fun lesbian to play with. Very into the humiliation aspect of having to serve a bloke too, so that's fun lol. Now just looking for the rarest slave type. The prisoner type, sometimes join the rest of us when able, but lives to serve me mostly, while they are away. They have lives, interests, hobbies etc but you don't. Your entire existence is obeying and serving, kept locked/chained away when not in use etc. exact details and any limits discussable, but as close as possible to that.

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ForcefulDutch

Don't call me Daddy or I wil hang you (which I enjoy)

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ItsMaster

Isn't it the wonderful job of a dominant to inspire the submissive to be the awesome person that they are? Of course I can lead by force and fear. I choose a different path, a path where efforts of mine are permanent for a life time. It's never an easy path but it mine and it suits me.

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Cuck4me

Any Arkansas subs slaves want to take me crystal hunting Thurs.

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Foopsaki

I love it! I really do…It came to me many years ago. I don't know exactly when, but one day it was there, and it has stayed ever since. I can’t say I asked for it. Because I didn’t! But it doesn’t ask for permission. It does what it wants. Something I’ve learned, again and again and again. I’ve been angry with it. From time to time, I’ve hated it! But it doesn’t care. I’ve tried to ignore it. I’ve tried to throw it away. Once I even tried to put it on fire! But it doesn’t care.It is what it is! It has grown inside me. It has grown with me. It has got me to grow! It has been my companion for many years now. It has dragged me down to the deepest of degradation. It has lifted me to the highest of ecstasy. It dose what it does! I don’t hate it anymore. How could I?It has become a part of me. And I have become a part of it. I am it and it is me…

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SirSwoop

if all you are going to say when you contact Me is hello or good evening or how are you I'm not going to waste My time replying to you. If you can't put any effort into a message you obviously aren't sub or slave material.

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sissyintraining702

Someone reached out to me today asking me a question and then blocked me before I could answer. here is my answe: I am not married Sir but have recently met someone who is keeping me as a sissy in private. I am not quite ready to go out in the world but am hoping to gain more confidence as she pushes me towards my/her goal of me living 24/7 as a sissy.

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worshipru123

There is a perfectly good messenger service here, but I don't mind using gmail either...

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DevineDani203

The weather is perfect today! Great day for some fun and discipline

I've never understood subs who say "I want someone who will make me " followed by all the things they want to do anyway. Am I missing something?

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sheilaelon

Who's looking for a submissive cocksucker? Checking if these journal updates still work...

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newtransmistress24

RIGHT SO STOP BLOCKING ME WITHOUT TELLING ME WHY IF YOU HAVE A PROBLEM VOCALIZE IT I TAKE TIME OUT OF MY DAY TO INTERVIEW AND GET TO KNOW YOU AND YALL JUST BOLT AND NEVER SAY WHY ITS GETTING OLD AND FAST! IF I TALK TO YOU WHEN YOU MESSAGE ME AND THERE IS SOMETHING YOU DONT LIKE TELL ME!

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SubMan56ForFLR

About 7 years ago I saw an article on FLR relationships. I tried to convince my girlfriend at the time to read about them. I will give more detail about this later.

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MasterJsails

I was just struck by a subbie who isn't mine reaching out to me because she just went through a tornado. I don't know how most Doms would react, but as a sailboat racer who has had to pull bodies out of the water, I went into Mama mode. Reassurng, providing helpful info, listening. I hope everybody dealing with a disaster victim does this.

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DrkJourney

HAPPY NEW YEAR EVERYONE!!!!

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IAMONEANDALL

Normal is Weird Normal/typical/average is relative. Normal only exists in comparison, and for anything, there's probably "somewhere" where it's "normal." This is the internet age... there is something for people who share anything in common out there somewhere, and the ability to make it if there isn't. I don't know why people sometimes get an idea of normal in their heads, putting it on a pedestal and elevating it to unattainable levels, constantly comparing and defining themselves in comparison to that concept. Stranger still, why is it that so often those ideas of normal are so damn boring?! Anything really good (or bad), anything exciting or even different at all, wouldn't be "normal." You could only be normal if you were the same as most people around you. Normal seems just some shape/box to contort myself and my life to fit into. That seems like a lot of painful effort for little to no reward. Not to metion how much of it is beyond my control. My dad was 60, my mother 30, when I was born. Totally not normal. Totally beyond my control. Totally fine... great even... they were both wonderful, amazing people who taught me a lot and gave me many happy experiences, and I value happiness. I'd much rather be happy than be normal.

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Aries693

Babygirls first meet Saundra was cute and sexy. Medium build, brunette with hazel eyes. 36 D breasts and nice hips and ass.We talked on Fetlife for quite a while and Decided to meet for coffee. I bought her a cappuccino, found a table and waited. “Hi, Saundra. Good to finally meet you in person. ““Hi Joe. Same here”She sat down and I gave her the cappuccino.We sat and looked at one another, the first of many meetings.
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EmptyNestCatLady

I have come to the conclusion that it is not the physical. It isn't evan just mental, but it is about baring my soul and feeling vulnerable, something that I find hard to do yet crave.

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badbob59

I am jumping in here to se if I xan still swim...

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WildPrecious

My son was scammed over a two year period culminating in what was supposed to be a first meeting yesterday. He sent money: plane fare, half the AirBNB, etc. and he still harbors some hope tht she might be real and just got cold feet. I know people think there are a lot of scammers on this site. I'm sure it's true, but it's sad. I may not want to meet you, or even talk to you, but I am a real, living, breathing woman, just looking for connection like everyone else. Good luck out there, and for godsake, don't give anyone money!

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ItsMaster

If you Increase the sensitivity of your submissive's skin, holding hands can be very amusing.

Unfortunately the photos I seem to upload aren't published. I am happy to verify myself to anyone who would like me to. Also, I am 5"9' and 73kgs.

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TotalOwnerforslave

Sadly my iMac has crashed causing loss of all the unsaved data. I have taken my iMac to a recovery. They took a nominal fee up front, but, told me there would be a $2,800.00 fee if they recovered the data, but, no fee if they failed. I had them go ahead. They turned out to be a front, agency. I told them to proceed with the recovery.They kept it for a while then wanted an additional $500.00, over and above the amount they promised to not exceed, to continue with the rescue effort. I told them to return my hard drive to me. Now I am looking for an honest data recovery service. Does anybody know of a reliable honest data recovery service?

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Shadowing

Please be patient for a while, i am currently going through and replying to 4 pages of text messages.

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MissLoriinFL

The male that should contact me needs to be the following Single Not married Not dating unattached Age 50 or above Drug and disease free Non smoker Does not request oral service

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Sensu74

Wow, how things seem to go from perfect to not so perfect. When a person has a family emergency that has nothing to do with the lifestyle and is completely ghosted after sending more than on email to inform the other party of what is going on and then nothing, not a simple "it's ok, I'll be here when your ready" or a simple "let me know if you need anything or if there is anything I can do". Or anything remotely like either of those two statements, no compassion no hint of worry or caring it makes me wonder why I even try anymore. I guess silence these days is becoming the norm. I'm so flipping over the head games. It's situations like this that turn me completely off from even considering to keep trying. I'm just so completely done. A persons word used to mean something, but now. I have no faith in any of it. I'm just so completely done.

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Freakynerdyguy

SUPER RANDOM. IM GOING TO A kORN CONCERT IN TINLEY PARK ILLINOIS.. ANY DOMME /MISTRESS /MADAM/LADY/GODDESS WANT TO GO ? ITS MY BUDDIES WEDDING BACHELORS PARTY BUT THERES OTHER WOMEN AND PARTNERS GOING SO. GENERAL ADMISSIONLAWN ILL PAY .. ILL PICK YOU UP YOU LOCK ME IN CHASTITY AND OFF WE GO FOR THE EVENING. REAL NO JOKES MESSAGE ME BEFORE 9 20 24 SHOW IS 9 28 24 SATURDAY we can wonder off have fun laugh we don't have to just sit in the group. Lol

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Bigfntits74

My writers block is gone back to writing.

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AdorablyBroken

My profile lists me as being demisexual, that means I don't experience sexual attraction in the normal way. Please understand I am not going to drop my panties or get aroused for a stranger, it's just not how I am wired.

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Mullipoo

FYI: If you are writing me and DO NOT SUBMIT THE REQUIRED VANILLA PHOTO, I will not respond to your message.

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Elorin

I am thinking and rethinking participation in my local community. I don't feel the need to go out and be seen on a regular basis. I can't afford to pay to get into clubs weekly or more often. But I do enjoy going out occasionally and playing in public. I enjoy educational events. I guess I am more of a comet to the community than a pillar. I do want play partners who are willing and able to go out sometimes.

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Lytra

Well Used... This week has been a combination of failure and success. Not much to do when on your cycle, but did still plug a couple of days during that. Open to possible options in how to be of showing submission during that time. Of course bj's are in the table. Sometimes, however, that's not desired by my owner. On the upside, there was being fucked senseless while plugged. And the last 24 hours has been very good. One round if being eaten out and fingered. Three rounds of being woken up for sex. He seems pleased that I always seem ready to go even being woken up in the middle of the night. On to week three!

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PASENSUALDOM

I give up trying to add pictures to this site. I've tried several times, and they just don't appear. PASENSUALDOM on fetlife, which is a working functional website. I have pics there and plan on adding more this weekend. I reply to all emails here and there, but prefer there.

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nytekat

Now, I'm actually in Florida!

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OCTopforfun

Just received a new set of clover clamps that are pretty severe but will be fun to play with on the right masochist. A picture with them on has been posted.

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TotalOwnerforslave

Prospective slave's Friend Requests In My search for a total slave, I have had several make a "Friend" request of Me. I tire of explaining to each and every prospective pieces of chattel that I am not looking for a 'friend.' Indeed a slave of mine would never be a friend, buddy, lover or social equal of any kind. To illustrate, I explain that if I walked into a public Men's room and surveyed the line up of porcelain urinals I would not be looking for a 'friend.' Nor would I expect to treat any of the appliances like a lover. In fact if the prospective slave were kneeling with its mouth open in the line up of other urinals, I may choose to ignore it for any of a number of utilitarian reasons, like maybe its face was particularly filthy with urine, ejaculate or even human waste and covered with flys. And, speaking of human urinals, I do like to hear effusive gratitude for the slave's opportunity to be of service to a Better, but, a sign above it, if speech were impaired by say a spider gag, would work as well. Master James

7/10/2023 It's been a long time since I updated my profile or made a journal entry so thought I would catch up a bit. I found my mate or rather she found me one evening when we were both online and onsite here. She made a snarky comment about my then profile picture which had one of my pack llamas in it. We started yacking back and forth and 3 days later met on a local walking trail with our dogs and have been together ever since. We live together in a monogamus M/s 1950s lifestyle. She takes care of me full time and I provide the income, roof over our heads and security. I retired 3 years ago so no more alarm clocks and 12 hour commute/work days! We go camping with our tent trailer either across the mountains or to the ocean several times a year. We have been going on long road trip vacations to National Parks every year or two. Last Year was a 4 week trip to 6 National Monuments and 5 National Parks in Oregon, Idaho and Utah. Lots of Lava, caves, arches, spires, hoodoos and canyons! We've been together coming up on 9 years now since we met on that walking trail. We will be together for the rest of our lives! Not bad HUH!!!

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mlk1974

So my holidays were nice and mello. My coworker asked me to send him a couple pics. I asked why and he said he had a couple family members he wanted to show. I was like oh ok as long as they were old enough. He laughed and said OMG yes they are 53 and 62.

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