I am happy, in-shape, successful, optimistic, well-adjusted, adventurous and discreet.  I operate in and thoroughly enjoy the vanilla world.  The public world gives me a natural outlet for my inner drive.  In private, I enjoy taking command of a submissive/slave woman.  The submissive/slave women who interest me are happy, in-shape, balanced, confident in themselves and equally comfortable in the vanilla world.

Update: - Its 2015 now.  I'm back and my age is 48.  Apparently, this site does not automatically update.