4/7/2023 2:39:56 AM: I do not have a problem with interacting with other dominant individuals as long as they respect that I will not submit. Some dominant men are quite physically appealing, intelligent, and have tastes that align with my own. There's a kindredness there that can be fruitful. If ever we'd meet though it would be quite 'vanilla' as I will not submit, I am a Dominant sadist after all. . What would be ideal for me, at this time, is a submissive masochist, preferably black. 

3/8/2023 5:04:48 PM: I fear I've been too kind when I stated that I'll accept someone for who they are. Lately I've been rather disappointed with the state of some of you. 

10/22/2021 4:45:34 PM: It appears that the journals have returned 

3/31/2015 11:33:30 AM: Available evenings and weekends.

1/28/2015 8:11:13 AM: I find that most people avoid talking about racism or enjoy race play. The racism and prejudices I've noticed most often involve specific adult acts that are attributed to specific ethnic groups. A black dominant male friend asked me about some of my likes and dislikes, and when faced with what I enjoy he said to me, in the most horrid tone, 'you got white boys don't you?' Then he laughed. I'm obviously not white but I was offended. Especially since it showed me that through his many years in the lifestyle he never once considered that there may be black masochists. I realized that I have nothing to learn from him when it comes to the mental aspect of the lifestyle. His close mindedness is not new to me though. I've spoken to white men that want to be 'abused' by non whites because, and this is a direct quote, 'black people don't have power so it is taboo.' When we think of racism we often forget that it does, and will, seep into our adult interactions. It will range from being avoided because of your skin color,or being desired for it. I never recommend that a bottom/sub/slave get involved with a Top/Master/Mistress if they only seek to act out their guilt or anger at how the world has been working. The same is true in reverse. Don't let people turn you into a fetish. Know the difference between fetish and preference. Never be afraid to question the motives of those who seek to interact with you. You have a voice and autonomy and you deserve respect. Always keep it safe, sane, and consensual.