I have had two long term relationships with submissive women, both of which lasted 7+ years. 

I want my submissive to feel safe and helpless while with me.  She should want to serve and be willing to acquiesce to my desires and instruction.

I like my submissives bound, on their knees, on all fours, and most definitely head down, ass up. 

You will be ravished repeatedly,  used, violated, and left dreaming about the next time.