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DesertDream
Hetero Male Dominant, 58, Near Phoenix AZ, Arizona US 
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DesertDream


There is a paradox in D/s sexuality, at least for the submissive. The more she does not want to do a certain act, the more she wants to do it, because ultimately the sub's sexual pleasure is not tied to physical acts, but is primarily based on feeling (His) power, knowing she has pleased and given pleasure to her Master.

The more a Master can create desire in her to do what she previously did not want to do, the more "power" she will feel, and that is exactly what she wants. To take her to the limit, to the extreme, to do things she "officially" does not want to do and even to create desire for that very act through her feeling the power and incredible connectedness with her Dom. It is not only what she wants, but needs ... craves.


That is what I do, help to create and then satisfy the desire.

I am particularly adept at obedience training for those interested though I have My own unique methods

1/1/2017 12:55:31 PM: An interesting thoughtThe little girl submissive worships her Daddy Dom. She will do anything to please him because she knows that he makes it his mission to care for her and to protect her. Since she is secure in his feelings for her she trusts her Daddy and submits to him completely. The little girl puts her Daddy’s needs first and pleasing him is of the utmost importance to her . In return he fulfills her needs and disciplines her when she needs it. 11/19/2016 12:54:30 PM: It`s lurking inside you... Smoldering embers of forbidden desires stroked into fires consuming your soul... Darkness... Seductive, it whispers, embrace Me... tempting you sweetly to relinquish control 11/12/2016 10:01:09 AM: well what do you knowI have just discovered that I am SapiosexualThe Urban Dictionary defines Sapiosexual as 'One who finds the content's of someone else's mind to be their most attractive attribute, above and before their physical characteristics. From the Latin root 'sapien', meaning wise. The term is now becoming mainstream with dating apps such as OkCupid and Sapio giving users the ability to define their sexual orientations as 'Sapiosexual.' For many, defining oneself as Sapiosexual is also a statement against the current status quo of hookup culture and superficiality, where looks are prized above all else.' who would have figured that there was a word for what I am 10/8/2016 1:46:23 PM: I was asked about the difference between a sub and a slaveAll slaves are submissive but not all those who are submissive are slaves. I have seen those who claim to be slaves yet also say they are not submissive. This is completely false. If one is not submissive, then one cannot be a slave in the BDSM world. Here is why: if you are not submissive, but you are involved in slavery, then that is not consensual. If you are made to do something and operate in a relationship where everything is forced upon you, that is not BDSM. Non-consent and forcing is nowhere under the definition of safe, sane, and consensual. Quite frankly, this is a form of abuse.At the same time, by its very definition, a slave is involved in a complete exchange of power. There is no other way. If a relationship involves anything other than this, than that person is not a slave but, rather, a sub. Of course, many take exception to this statement. The title of slave is something that is to be honored and, in my experience, very few have the ability to achieve. Sadly, the term has been watered down by all the 20 year old neophytes online who claim to be slaves when, in fact, they may or may not even be a sub. Only time will tell. 10/1/2016 2:00:37 PM: I wonder why so many subs new to this lifestyle seem to fear taking the first step to learn
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