Collarspace

I would say that Im a very fair and flexible Dominant. Ill listen and Ill compromise, etc. At the end of the day, though, Ill compromise as much as you allow me to. Give me free-rein and I will test your limits, I will stretch your boundaries, I will tear down your borders and I will create new ones for you. Essentially, I will reconstruct you into my dream submissive.

Ideally, Im looking for a 247 relationship. Which entails set tasks, set rules and guidelines. Ive had conversations with subs who only want to play the role of a sub behind closed doors. Thats fine. But its not for me. I want the Ds dynamic to be a living, breathing, organism thats always alive and always engaged. I want every waking moment for us to be living the dynamic, even if were not in communication, even if youre doing something as mundane as shopping for groceries or going out for a walk, washing your hair, etc, I want you be enveloped in the knowledge of being my sub. I want your every waking moment to be conscious of the fact that you belong to me and that, given the word, or look, from me, you will submit to my every whim and desire.

Im very sadistic and I get off on pushing you as far as you can go, breaking your boundaries and creating limitless borders and eventually breaking you and building you back up. Im into submissive reverse-engineering. In other words, I want to know absolutely everything about you your childhood, your parents, your family, your upbringing, your likes, your loved, your dislikes, your hates. I want to get to know how your mind words, what your opinions are, what makes you tick and what captures your heart.

This will be a relationship of mutuality and respect, care and affection, growth and learning as well as teaching... and fun. Lets be completely honest, a relationship, be it kink or vanilla, that doesnt have fun and laughter infused into the DNA of the relationship, it will, more than likely, fail. There has to complete transparency, an open dialogue. If you have something on your mind, or something is bothering you with regards absolutely anything, its my duty as a Dominant to listen to you, to be your confidant and to give you, either a shoulder to cry on, or sage like wisdom.

What Im looking for Intelligence, someone who shares the same interests and fundamental as I do. A woman who is in relatively good physical condition. A woman who is younger than me, from 18-40 is fine. Theres a caveat to the age thing, if youre older than 40, and youve aged well, then message me. Someone who shares the same kinks. Physically? I like long hair. Big boobs. A body thats in decent shape. But, as with everything else, those things are negotiable and manageable. I dont mind if youre a brat, either, as I dont mind a subslave who is willing to stand toe-to-toe with me and trads wits and fire barbs.

Im the first to admit that Im picky and hard-to-please, but thats only because I think I deserve the best. If you message me, you have to be aware that Im not just any other Dominant, I wont just consider or collar the next submissive or slave that contacts me. Do you HAVE to be perfect to have a shot with me? No. No one is perfect. Im very much into molding and conditioning. I can see the appeal of fixing a broken toy... and making it into my own personal dream submissive.

Kinks

Obedience, Ropes, Chains, Unis (mainly of the Schoolgirl variety), Public Play, Restraint, Choking, Anal, Toys, Leather, Orgasm Control, Breast Slapping, Face Slapping, Face Fucking, Nipple Play, Deepthroating, Hair Pulling, Tasks, Body Modification, Behavioral Modification, Anal, CNC, Cages, Leash and Collar, Speech Restrictions, Tasks, Bimbofication, Degradation, Verbal Humiliation.