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ostrichman1951
Hetero Male, 55, Waco, Texas 
ostrichman1951

Want to know "what kind of man" I am .. "who" I am?  Read my Jan 4. 2011 journal entry, I agree with every word.


Dear Santa .. All I want for Christmas ..


The greatest gift you can give someone is your "time", 'cause when you do you're giving them a part of your life that you never get back.


It's going to take a "country girl at heart" to enjoy what I have to offer here on this old family homestead. I have a fairly relaxed, simple, private life, on what used to be a dairy farm where I grew up, & I'm the last one here. Peace and quiet, relaxed pace most of the time, no next door neighbors, a simple house that was originally my grandparents. The 'malls' and "shopping" are about 15 minutes away!

 

I "early retired" in March 05 from an accounting job so I'm "semi-retired" now.  I grow and sell hay and search for a good woman with whom to share life among other things. I do enjoy traveling!


I'm looking for a woman who is somewhat independent. I'm not a sugar-daddy, not looking for a sugar-mama either. I need a (more or less) "equal partner" where finances are concerned to be able to "go places and do things". I'll be as good to you as I can be. The advantage of being here on my farm is; everything is "paid for" and I have ZERO debt.  You need to be able to work maybe part time or have resources so you can contribute.

 

 

"OstrichMan" is a nick a friend gave me long time ago. I still had 3 Ostrich hens from an endeavor in the mid-90's with "big birds" up until Nov 2010, when the dogs I kept that someone abandoned out here got after them..they're my "kooky bookys", "goofy-girls"; sweetpea, petunia, and 'keeper'..unfortunately sweetpea is now gone & as of this writing (Jan 4, 11) I have yet to get "keeper" back in the pen.  ((update; some assholeshitforbrains SHOT my 'keeper' night of Jan 15th just 14 days after I wrote this))((then in July 2012 I came in from work & found my last bird dead by her food trough .. old age I think, that and the heat, even in the shade it was about 105 that day .. she was about 19 yrs old))

I'm an "eclectic country Gentleman" (not a "redneck", not a "cowboy") a "Gentleman". No "kahhlej deegree" on the wall, but a PhD from U.H.K. (Univ. of Hard Knocks) have enough verbal skills to hold my own in a conversation about what's going on in the world; hopefully smart enough to at least listen & ask constructive questions; more common sense than a lot of college educated idiots, & smart enough to know how to pour piss out of a boot without having to be told which end it comes out of. I'm intelligent, can fit in pretty much anywhere, if nothing else I can listen and learn.

Politically I'm an Independent, Moderately, Liberal, Conservative, Constitutionalist. The US is NOT a "Democracy", it's a 'REPUBLIC', we don't pledge, "and to the 'democracy' for which it stands". Just like if you 'eat', you're involved with "agriculture" .. if you live in this country, you're involved with "politics" whether you participate or not.

I'm Christian but not "religious" about going to church even though I once was. I like to think I'm a "spiritual fruit" rather than a "religious nut". I'm not a "thumper" & won't try to convert you to my way of thinking. If you're an atheist or muslim, we (absolutely) won't work, agnostic maybe, or any other "faith" or "religion" is a "wait & see".

 I've done and been different things in my life..US Marine, professional photographer, Bass player in several bands on the road for about 15 yrs, live & studio sound engineer, an account controller ..

The one thing I haven't been able to be is .. the "right man" .. with the "right woman" .. but I also think I might be a little hard to match with my lifestyle, politics, etc.  But I'm also a man you can be proud to introduce to family & friends & I won't embarrass you!

I believe most of what having a mutually satisfying and successful relationship with each other, which includes our own unique partnership in the "lifestyle", will hinge on the natural compatible chemistry between us that "just happens" .. and just like in any good 'nilla relationship a great "natural" chemistry between us will go a long, long way toward a great bdsm relationship between us, regardless of age differences or experience (within reason).

I'm sensitive & sensual, I'm dominant & assertive, but still enjoy the chivalry of being a "gentleman" with a lady at the right times...maybe sometimes with a 'twist' in public and making you be 'naughty' without being 'obvious'.

I'm honest, trustworthy, dependable, monogamous (not into poly..don't want to share) hopelessly romantic (with proper inspiration) and have a sense of humor that is sometimes a little off the wall! Be sure and check out my audio greeting, you'll get an idea of what I "sound like".

I'm 6'1", 170 lbs, slim, lean, dark brn hair & eyes (beard or no beard) and I also like the cleanliness and sensitivity of shaving.

I would like for you to be in as good a shape as I am with a matching energy level .. average, athletic, slender or petite. I'm not a large guy, so not usually attracted to a woman who is larger or heavier than I. who has a good imagination, a good sense of humor, and an intelligent 'mind of her own' as well. I could see being with someone who maybe "does her own thing" with her work, and may even be in a sense "D" at work (but not a "switch") but then when she gets 'home' she's ready to put that aside. She can be a "lady in the parlor" while still being total kinky otherwise.

I'm "straight" & prefer 1 on 1 and would like to create a "lifetime" or at least "very long term" quality committed relationship. Been married twice & I won't "never again", but can say with conviction that I do NOT want to ever get divorced again!! Whatever the relationship I'm looking to make it the last and the best.

Oral, bondage, and spanking (very experienced and proficient) top my list but I'm versatile and open to exploring both our "kinky" sides. I could certainly be a "Daddy" for a "Daddy's little girl", but I don't think I'd be interested in changing diapers.

I would enjoy exploring more varied styles of bondage, and furniture .. I'm not "carved in stone", but very openly versatile.

Been a smoker but quit June 6, 2012.  If you smoke that's ok.  But with the 'right woman' around I'm sure we could have so many more things to give attention to,  "Olympic Marathon Gourmet Kissing" comes to mind.

I hope you'll like traveling some. Both inside the country and some out..my passport is current.  Do you like to ride motorcycles?..I hope so, "cruising" farm roads, back roads .. or even a long trip. I went to Boston & back in the Fall of 2011, road the entire Blue Ridge Parkway & Shenandoah Natl Park (those 2 are almost 600 miles..awesome)

I won't mind traveling to spend quality time with and get to know a quality woman, but I've been on this farm homestead most of my life & I would prefer to find someone interested in being here eventually.

I appreciate your spending time with me here.  I'll enjoy hearing from you if you think we might "click".

2/2/2014 2:15:17 PM: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bx9jZ3ARVtk&feature=player_detailpage

1/18/2014 11:08:21 PM: If I started a “Church of Rapists and Child Molesters” then all of America would stand against me. But when we call it islam it doesn’t get the same response. But it should because that is exactly what devout muslims believe. It is the teaching of the queeran and the prophet mohammad. This is not the exception. It is the rule.

1/4/2014 12:30:52 AM: A LIE DOESN'T BECOME TRUTH,WRONG DOESN'T BECOME RIGHT,AND EVIL DOESN'T BECOME GOOD,JUST BECAUSE IT'S ACCEPTED BY A MAJORITY.

1/3/2014 10:32:19 PM: Interesting experiences here .. a 'female slave' has a profile posted .. and yet the text says that the property (meaning the female slave) is 'owned by 'so-and-so' and no messages will be answered .. ..   I sent a message which said ... why not just take this profile OFF the site?  And lo and behold there WAS AN ANSWER !!! .. it said ... ready for this? ...  'How about you fuck yourself' .. so evidently there is at least ONE occasion where a message WILL be answered ....  Of course I was 'blocked' from any response .. but what else to expect from a cowardly asswipe  .. but that's ok, it was some entertainment at least ..  

1/3/2014 11:40:03 AM: I tried to have a discussion with a woman here, but it's impossible to have a 'battle of wits' with someone who is 'unarmed' and who is intentionally blind to truth. She was too much of a coward to continue, so after an emotional 'personal attack' rather than a 'rational & reasoned' reply, she blocked me.  So now my only 'satisfaction' is a record of the event through my journal.   Helloi liked everything I read about you. I travel for my job do the miles were not an issue. It was just your 'hates'. You don't like Islam, may I ask why?'Why I don't like islime?' .. ready? .. hang on tight, it may get a little bumpy for ya .. *smile* .. but everything I'm about to say here is the 'Truth', I'm not making any of this up or exaggerating .. .. ok, here we go ..The oversimplified answer is 'islime' is NOT a legitimate 'religion', regardless of how many people participate .. because it does NOT offer the 'choice' to believe/practice it or not.While Christianity attempts to win people through 'love' and 'life' .. islime uses hate & threats of death. The worst thing Christianity says is .. if you're not a 'believer' you don't get 'saved' (go to hell?) .. islime says if you're not a believer in it .. we will make your life 'hell on earth' .. torture you and off your head !! Yes, some bad things have happened in history attributable to Christianity .. but those ended multiple centuries ago .. islime is still stuck in the 7th century.What kind of 'legitimate religion' has to threaten its members with death if they think about leaving it? .. and threatens non-believers with death if they don't believe it (convert) .. it's quite honestly a 'death cult' .. .. it's the only so-called 'religion' in the entire world which emphasizes how a person dies rather than how to live .. (die for allah, in reality a pagan moon god, not connected in any way with Judaism or Christianity, that is just a 'con')It is totally incompatible with our Constitutional Republic .. (we do not live in a 'democracy') .. we have a so-called 'wall of separation between church & state' .. ..islime is a 'theo-political belief system' and the church IS the state .. and it runs EVERYTHING .. for that reason alone it needs to be declared 'not a legitimate religion' protected by the 1st Amendment.How in the world could any woman have any good feelings toward it with the way it treats the women? .. less than dogs! .. and all the female genital mutilation, cutting off clits between infancy & age 15 and THEN sewing the vagina almost completely shut because women are NOT supposed to enjoy sex.The pedophilia .. marrying girls (AND having anal & oral sex with boys) who are as young as 6 .. an article recently of an 8 yr old girl being killed on her 'wedding night' because of the trauma of the penetration ..The insane evil of 'honor killings' .. true example, two boys rape their sister, she gets pregnant, so the mother holds her down while the father cuts her throat and cuts her head off for 'shaming the family by being pregnant without being married' .. and what happened to the brothers you ask??? .. NOTHING ..A woman has to have FOUR MALE WITNESSES .. in order to file charges of rape.Are you aware of all the Christians who are being slaughtered, and churches being burned to the ground right this very minute, in syria and other scuzlum countries?I hate 'evil' .. and islime is the epitome and embodiment of 'evil'.  It is a 7th century death cult, coughed up by a psychotic pedophile and murderer con man.  I think it appeals to mostly misogynistic men .. and the only thing I can think of in the bdsm lifestyle which might even remotely resemble the dynamic of islime is a Master/slave relationship where she is a total pain slut & enjoys humiliation & degradation.Well, I do not want to be rude but I don't think you know too much about Islam or the real Islam. Most of your criticism about Islam are local traditions and customs and are not Islam. islam in it's basic is not much different than Christianity and the man/ women relationship is not much different than a dom/sub relationship. I do not believe everything with Islam is correct, just like most Christians do not believe that Christianity is prefect. But I most certainly not bash your beliefs just because they are not the same as mine. And to be a true American, we should be understanding of all religions. now that said, I was blessed with the experience of being able to see Islam in a good and positive manner and I have also witness the worst in Christians, but I still do not judge anyone because of the label there wear but by their actions and deeds. Out of respect for people I certainly would not create a childish name for their label so that it comes across degrading and insulting. Thanks for your honest reply. Now it's my turn to say, 'I don't want to seem rude', but I believe what you call the 'real islam' is what you have been misled (taqqiya) to believe is such, and you are simply 'parroting back the party line & spin'. Granted there may be 'moderates' out there, but according to the strict so-called 'radical' ones (who are merely doing what the book tells them to) the 'moderates' are 'infidels' too.  It needs to go through a 'reformation' so that it is as 'tolerant' as it wants others to be toward it.  It'll never happen.Now, insomuch as you say I am 'bashing' that belief system .. you have an incorrect premise as to 'why'. I don't bash it because it 'isn't the same as mine' .. I 'bash it', and make up what you call 'childish, degrading, & insulting' words & labels because I have absolutely no respect or tolerance for 'evil' which is what I sincerely believe (and know) it is .. now maybe not all the people who choose to believe in a moderate form of it, but their, as you put it, 'actions and deeds' .. this includes the so called 'moderates' or perhaps what you're choosing to call 'true'.. where in the heck are they when horrible atrocities are committed in its name?  Their silence is deafening, and that silence is 'evil' ... because silence is consent.I'm sorry, but I will have to categorically disagree that Christianity (not talking individuals and/or how they 'practice' it) bears any resemblance whatsoever .. apples & oranges.I believe you have another incorrect premise .. that 'to be a true American, we should be understanding of all religions'The only thing a 'true American' should ..  'be' ..  is someone who allows anyone & everyone the human right (1st Amendment) to 'freedom of religion' .. to 'worship or not, as they see fit', and as long as it doesn't infringe on anyone else toes. If by 'understanding' you mean 'acceptance' .. no way.  If you mean 'tolerance' (from the word 'tolerate' meaning what a person will 'put up with' under defined conditions ) .. again, as long as I'm not 'forced' to agree with it, or embrace it, or say out loud that it's 'OK', and it doesn't 'infringe' on my liberty, then fine & to each his own, I'll 'put up with it' and 'tolerate'!The 1st Amendment (and all the others too) doesn't 'give' us anything. Our 'inalienable rights' don't come from the government .. the amendments only affirm & confirm that these 'RIGHTS' exists for everyone simply by being born a human being.There is no such thing as 'hate speech'.  There is only 'free speech' which may or may not 'sound hateful' to whoever is listening.  So change the channel, turn it off, walk away, or kick my butt, but DON'T try to 'criminalize' my 'thoughts' and 'speech'. 'Nice speech' does not need a '1st Amendment' protection. And, contrary to popular brainwashing, there is also nowhere in the Constitution that guarantees anyone the 'right' to not be 'offended' or have their poor little, stuck out on their sleeve, feeeeelings hurt.  Nobody is any better than anybody else.A 'true American' should be able to disagree with anything & have personal convictions that it is 'wrong', and voice those convictions (no, it's not a 'phobia') .. without having to 'self-censor' (pc) out of fear that he/she will be persecuted or prosecuted for it.'Respect' is not something just 'handed out' for no reason at all .. it is 'earned'.  Maybe what you mean is 'courtesy' .. and 'diplomacy' .. I can be courteous & diplomatic .. except when confronted with someone who embraces 'actions', or organizations, or beliefs, which I, based on my own personal convictions & beliefs (judgment) believes does not deserve any of my respect.  'Evil' is not deserving of my respect. For me it's the same thing with 'politics'.  I have no respect for anyone who is a 'liberal' or 'demoncrat' either, consequently I will never be able to have a relationship with a woman who is.  Unless she's simply a victim of the last 30-40 yrs of 'perception of reality engineering' by the aspects of society which have been 'captured' by the communists: educational system, hollyweird, lamestream media etc.  If she is truly 'open minded' and willing to be listen and be exposed to reality 'Truth' .. then maybe.So, after I've now said all this, I suspect that you and I are at the proverbial point of 'agree to disagree'.  You won't change my mind, and I doubt I could change yours.Best of luck to you in the New Year .. I hope we both find what we need.And a little later I know from our interaction that you are an intelligent woman .. and quite honestly there's a lot about the rest of you in your profile I find highly attractive ..I am genuinely curious if you are open-minded enough to take in the following, ively, & give me your reaction to it?  Is this article talking about what you called, 'merely the 'traditions & customs'' & 'not the real one'?You value 'understanding' as a worthy American character trait.  So help me 'understand' .. and tell me why I should not judge an entire 'religion' by these 'actions and deeds' which are being done in the name of its deity, and which are cheered, supported, and encouraged by a majority of the people in the world who are its devout followers .. (you Did said actions & deeds are the things to 'judge' people by, didn't you?) I'd genuinely like to know your reaction to this.  Is this something that makes you see islm in a 'good and positive manner'?Muslims Kill Dozens of Christians On Christmas Day & White House Remains SilentPosted on January 1, 2014 by Dave Jolly Filed under Christianity, Email Featured, Ethics, Islam, Politics, Religion, Terrorism, World NewsAnytime anything happens to Muslims, especially at the hands of Americans, our so-called Christian President Barack Hussein Obama is quick to condemn the actions.  He’ll issue public apologies to Muslims worldwide and demand that the Americans responsible be punished to the fullest extent possible.Anytime anything happens to Christians, regardless of who is responsible, Hussein Obama sits back at the White House enjoying a beer with his Muslim and socialists buddies and says nothing.An example was when US soldiers collected Bible and Korans that had been torn up and defaced by prisoners.  Since the holy books had been destroyed, mostly by Muslim prisoners, the soldiers burned both, Bibles and Korans.  Yet the whole world only heard about US soldiers burning Korans.  The mainstream media never said anything about the Bibles or that the Korans had already been destroyed by Muslim prisoners.  Hussein Obama immediately took to the airwaves apologizing to the entire Muslim world for the insensitivity of the US soldiers.  He told the world that the soldiers would be punished for their actions.  Obama never said a word about the Bibles that had been defaced and ripped up by the Muslim prisoners and then burned with the Korans.So should it be any surprise that Hussein Obama remained silent about the Christmas Day bombings in Baghdad that targeted Christians?Muslims were responsible for three different bombings in Iraq’s capital city.  Reports have varied but it seems that at least 37 people were killed and at least 59 or more people were injured in the attacks.  The worst of the bombings took place when a car bomb exploded near a Christian church in the Dora neighborhood of Baghdad.  26 died and 38 were wounded in this attack.  Also on Christmas Day, two explosions happened simultaneously at an outdoor market in the Christian area of Athorien, killing 11 more people and wounding 21 more. In the past twenty years, the Christian population in Iraq has gone from being over a million to less than half a million.  Iraqi Muslims have been systematically persecuting the countries Christians yet the US government and State Department says nothing to condemn it.I've been told that I cannot say outright that Barack Hussein Obama is a Muslim since he has not admitted he is, so I won’t say it outright.  But if someone walks like a Muslim, sounds like a Muslim, acts like a Muslim and sides with Muslims over Christians, then one would be inclined to think of that person as a Muslim.  I’ve yet to see Obama side with Christians over Muslims, but he has repeatedly sided with Muslims over Christians.  Draw your own conclusion as I have drawn mine.In Matthew 7:15-20, we read the words of Jesus, who said:    'Beware of false prophets, who come to you in sheep’s clothing but inwardly are ravenous wolves. You will recognize them by their fruits. Are grapes gathered from thornbushes, or figs from thistles? So, every healthy tree bears good fruit, but the diseased tree bears bad fruit. A healthy tree cannot bear bad fruit, nor can a diseased tree bear good fruit. Every tree that does not bear good fruit is cut down and thrown into the fire. Thus you will recognize them by their fruits.”Taking heed of Jesus’ words, I see no Christian fruit from Obama’s tree, but I do see plenty of Muslim fruit along with socialist fruit.  Obama’s tree would not qualify as a healthy tree bearing good fruit and therefore should be cut down, or at least removed from the White House grounds and thrown into the fire.Note what B. Hussein Obama says in his own words. They are from his books entitled “Dreams of My Father” and “Audacity of Hope.In “Audacity of Hope” he writes: “I will stand with the Muslims should the political winds shift in an ugly direction.” The quote comes from page 261 of the paperback edition of “The Audacity of Hope.I just rather leave it at... We agree to disagree...if I wanted a religious and policitcal debate, I would be on another site.if you perfer to just regurgitate articles written by other people instead of actually taking the time to maybe meets some muslins, get to know them, and see them for the people they are and then determine if your opinions are valid, then its not worth my time. Another 'false premise' .. that this is a religious and political 'debate'? I'm simply trying to be 'understanding' and understand where you're coming from .. like you'd want a 'good American' to do. When all I have done is ask your opinion about these 'facts in evidence'.  Do you deny the atrocities described in the article happened?  What about these muslims you want me to meet .. will THEY say that what these subhumans did, in the name of allah & no doubt screaming 'god is good' while they did it, was 'wrong' or 'evil'?  I might be willing to meet them .. but you'd have to know that I would honestly be suspicious they were practicing 'taqquia' if they did .. Are you also a holocaust denier .. since you would have to rely on 'regurgitated articles' for the information about the concentration camps?  Nevermind ... you're a lost cause with your head in the sand .. I just hope you don't get it cut off some day ..You are so right, your a lost cause , egotistical , self righteous .... Just because I use your own arguments to show you cold hard facts that make you cringe, doesn't make me 'egotistical'.And if I appear 'self-righteous' to you it's because you lack the perception to see that it's nothing more than morals, ethics, & values .. being honorable and honest and concerned with the distinction between good and evil, right and wrong, right or good conduct. (those all important 'actions' you talked about)You have no rational or logical reasoning reply or rebuttal to these facts I showed you or the legitimate questions I asked you. You only come back with a lame, emotional, 'personal attack' .. and it's so predictably typical of a liberal, leftist, marxist, communist enemy supporting, and likely ovomit supporting traitor .. I'm surprised you didn't call me a 'racist' .. the new definition of 'racist' .. a conservative with a winning argument ..And I'll never get to have the 'egotistical' satisfaction of knowing, somewhere 'down the road' when you look back at this and say, ... 'oh my god .. he was right' ..   

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