I'm a geeky, dangly earring wearing, pen loving, tree worshipping 38 year old woman living in southwestern NH. I'm interested in meeting and hopefully befriending fellow members of the LGBTQ and kink community in my local area. I'm pretty cool with getting to know anyone who saunters my way though. Most of my friends are married, living faraway, and tending to cute growing things. I'm here in my witch cottage with a very rambunctious curious puppy who likes to chew my hair. I'm saving the cats for a rainy day.
I'd describe myself as bisexual and queer. I 'm a masochist who identifies as property and enjoys brutal beatings, religious ass rape, toe kissing, large green bruises on my flesh, and serving tea. I do have someone I'm engaged with in a power dynamic so I'm not looking for that specifically right now.
In the mundane world I work in "ecommerce" and "technical support" which consists mainly of soothing angry and demanding customers while searching for new jobs between calls. My long term goal is to finish my Bachelors Degree and move onto graduate school. I'm quite interested in medicine, dietetics, and psychology but I haven't quite decided which one I want to pursue. I'm also an aspiring writer and poet but still a bit too chicken to pursue it as seriously as I should. I might be old enough now to actually have something interesting to say.
I like exploring dark corners of the world, reading books, worshipping the old gods at midnight circle sessions, cooking and dining out (I'm very much a fan of Sushi, Indian, Thai, Vietnamese, Continental and Ethiopian cuisine), music, music, and music. Music is as important to me as oxygen. I'm big into jazz (the old and new: Trane, Miles, Billie Holiday, Kamasi Washington, Vijay Iyer), classical (Bernstein, Rostropovich, the "Philadelphia Sound", Russian romanticism), Soul/R&B (Beyonce is Queen, Aretha Franklin, Amy Winehouse), arty pop (Bat for Lashes, Anna Calvi, Florence and the Machine, Lady Gaga, the list goes on), and alty rocky electro worldy stuff.
I'm also a gluttonous consumer of film, television, and all matters pop culture. I'm just as happy streaming The Red Shoes as I am catching the latest episode of Game of Thrones or Stranger Things (come on Season 3, get here already!).
I'm somewhat of a political junkie. My day to day conversations tend to revolve around the politics of the day. I would describe myself as a socialist but I'm open to exchanging ideas with folks with differing views in a civil manner. I'm quite passionate about labor, class, poverty, and income inequality and think about these issues quite a bit. I'm a member of the Democratic Socialists of America. They're not without their flaws and I'm probably still to the left of them, but I'm quite happy with where I am.
I tend to be drawn to those with dark romantic streaks and a certain intensity. But you need to have a sense of humor too, or at least be able to put up with mine.