I have been in the lifestyle since 1996, real time (not into cyber play). I am active in the local BDSM Detroit community. I am a switch leaning more toward my submissive side. Looking for a Male Dom  who is okay with letting me get my sadistic side on.  I don't want to top him  I am not looking for 24/7 I honestly can't see where that truly works at least for me. I 'm 5'7, 170, brown eyes and hair..  It would be nice to meet someone who also is active or somewhat active in the Metro Detroit BDSM community. I have my own dungeon and lots of toys.