I like Dominate personalities but have never had a dom. I was exploring this lifestyle when I got married so I had a vanilla relationship for 10 years. Now Im divorced saaaand.o here I am again.I have always liked rough sex. I think ropes are sexy I love not having to think about it (making decisions) because I suck at it. I have a spunky personality and hope that I can find someone that I am compatible with.I dont want an online Dom, I want something real.I have been told I have a big personality I seek someone that can patiently train me. Oh and Im looking for 247.